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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:It has been almost 8 months since my last relationship and I am at the point where I am ready to be with someone again.I go to a smaller school and I met someone in my class that is really cute, funny, good looking, and has a great personality. I have been wanting to ask her out for a while now and I have been taking my time - waiting for the right moment etc. Also I wanted to get to know her a bit before I do anything hasty. Nothing is worst than an overbearing person when asking someone out (or being awkward).When we are alone at school, we both laugh at each others jokes, have pretty awesome conversations, and are on the same page with our thoughts. She laughs even when I think my jokes are dumb. She got out of a relationship about 5 months ago fyi.The question that keeps coming up in my mind is whether she is being friendly or is she is interested in me. She has told me things that she doesn't tell anyone else. We do text and she responds almost immediately. Being that we are in finals now- we don't have a lot of time, but I did ask her to see a movie with me after finals. She said she would enjoy that. It was harry potter. Now the fact is that she had already seen the movie when I asked her to it (found out from a friend)and she still wanted to go. The reason I am asking here is cause she is really nice. Her looks are stunning and to be honest - I don't feel like I am on the same caliber of looks as she is. I want to start something with her, but I want to be sure that she is interested in more than friends before I invest time into this. What are signs to look for when trying to determine interest.Thanks in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): I think there is a big possibility that this girl likes you, and I think it's wise that you don't want to rush things. I think you should try to get closer to this girl, and then the signs will become more obvious. Also, you shouldn't think that it's totally impossible for this girl to reciprocate your feelings just because you don't feel you're on the same 'level' of looks. Try texting her a bit more, maybe ask her to another movie. If you think the girl seems to enjoy your company and is eager to hang out with you, then you should consider asking her out. Hope this helps. :)
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