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writes:Well I have a concern about my boyfriend. Just yesterday he decided to tell me that last year he went to Q-trip to get gas for his truck. There was this female that he uses to date she approaches him and asks him for $5.00. “Why” would he just now tell me this? I had mentioned to him that I saw this female at family dollar last night. And I said to her does she know my boyfriend? She said honestly yes. I said her knowing that I lied about this, but I said that he was my husband. She said that he doesn’t talk to her and I said why should he. But every time we see her and she knows that I’m in the car with him she calling out his name. He doesn’t say anything to her. But my concern is that, why would he just now tell me about him running into her and she asking for $5.00’s. I feel that, he kept this from me for almost a year now. Tell me how should I feel about this? I feel that this is keeping a secret from me. He said that if he had told me this that day, I would feel that he was sneaking around and this is not true. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 I agree, it doesn't sound like a big deal to him and thats because it obviously doesn't mean anything to him. You lied to her and told her he was your husband...it's like firing a possesive warning shot across someones bowes!!!
...do you really feel that insecure with him that you freak when he mentions someone from the past?? OK she's acting a little weird but I think she is winding you up and watching you squirm. Ignore her and work on your relationship with love and understanding...insecurity and mistrust will destroy it!!
Just chill...she's playing with you, what can I say...people are weird!!
hugs xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): I think your husband didn't tell you sooner because it wasn't a big deal to him. Since then, the woman is acting weird, so he remembered it and told you. To me, not telling my husband every time I see someone that I vaguely know is not lying to him.
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