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I think I like my best friend too much

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Question - (4 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi, i am a 19 year old girl. i know this is not the right time to fall in love but this logic could not help me in the right time. i think i like my very best friend... a little too much. this is a very insecure feeling, as i really don't want it to be like this. he is my best buddy and he loves me too, but as very close friend. i don't exactly know, but i do feel a twitch of jealousy when i see him with any other girl. he shares everything with me and the same is in my case. i am not being able to be open with him on this matter, as i really don't want to lose a friend like him. neither am i being able to tell anything about this to anyone.

should i be frank and tell him about my feeling? or should i move away from him in order to avoid this insecurity?

please advice.

thank you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010):

yes thats true but, i don't think he sees me in a manner of that sort. moreover he loves someone else and nearly impossible for me to oversee that. he is a two years older than me. and i am really really scared of losing him, suppose that would happen once he comes to know my "unnatural" feeling for him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010):

I think you should tell him,how old is he? he should be mature enough to have a mature conversation with and understand your situation, that way both of you will know how each other feel and work it out. Moreover it is said that friends are the perfect couple because they know everything about each other and they share everything already so it is very easy for them to get married and live together.

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