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female
age
30-35,
*heHuggleBear
writes:Hi, I'd like to ask a question about my friend, let's call her Fiona; she has an on/off boyfriend, lets call him Shrek; and everytime I've spoken to her in the last three weeks or so; she's upset about something he's done. I've told her that I'm worried about her -- she's not my smiling, happy best friend anymore, she's miserable, shy, and her confidence level has plummeted since being with him. She keeps telling me he's worth it -- but I've seen no evidence of this! Should I get involved or should I let her make her own mistake? How can I make her see we're all worried about her?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Dont get involved in other peoples relationships as you will probably just lose your friend over it. I understand that you are worried but she is entitled to make her own choices, as a friend to her all you can do is be there fore her and dont judge. Explain to her that you are really worried about her and that you are there for her is she needs to talk to you about anything. But i think thats all you can do.
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