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female
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41-50,
*aridisepassion
writes:My ex who I believe likes guys and girls but is in love with his best friend has a new pic up of himself with his best friend or some girl taking a picture of him.. Theres a reflection of a girl in the picture.. It hurts to see him moved on or with his girl best friend.. he dumped me and all I want is him back.. I have been no contact for two weeks now and I haven't heard anything from him only a few texts after the breakup.. what u doing and what time.. nothing special.. how can I get him back.. he's 20 and im 27
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Well he is only 20 years old, he has only came out of his teenage lives and most guys at this stage are just not ready for a commitment, he has spelled out to you that he is to young and cant give you what he needs so am afraid all you can do here is accept this.
I understand that it is hard to let him go, but you need to do this in order for you to get over this relationship, so remove all contact and accept that he is no longer part of your life, keep yourself busy and hang out with friends.
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reader, Paridisepassion +, writes (4 December 2010):
Paridisepassion is verified as being by the original poster of the question@aunt honesty he said he's too young and that I need attention and he can't give me that also he's not the one for me..what should I do
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 December 2010):
Am afraid that there is a reason that he finished the relationship and there is not a lot you can do here to get him back. The more you try the more you will push him away. He ended things so it needs to be up to him if he wants to fix things.
Have you asked him why he ended things? Ask him what the problems are and maybe you can find some way to resolve them, but if he says that he doesnt want to work on it, then am afraid that however hard it is you need to accept that it is over and move on with your life.
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