He is avoiding me and won't reply to my messages.

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

there's a guy,A who i know him for almost a year and he has a girlfren already for 3 years plus n she is far from him..it started last year on november where i n A get so close..we r just frens but were like a couple..we do everything a couple do..i really2 like him n i did told him my feeling but he just cant give me wat i wan cuz of his gf and i just ignore it cuz i just wan to be wif him..we contact everyday,n he is far from me cuz he is studying in another country..he comes bak on holiday..on february started to change.he is not as sweet as be4..then after that we got good again until july he came bak from his collge for holidaay we spent time together lesser n he even try to ignore me then he went bak .we contact on the phone when he is in colleger..then on septmber he came bak n i caall him out n we started to be intimate.we make out a few times.then he went bak college n november he caame bvak..we r not as close as be4..he start to ignore my call n my msg.always i have to msg n call him first..he always giving excuses when i ask him..i just forggive him cuz i just dont wanna lose him..then when he spent time wif his gf for a week n now i think he is avoiding me n not replyinh my msg.what should i do?? i am so confused..every nite n day i always think n care for him..i do get jealous n heartbreak everyday..i just wan to move on but i couldnt leave him n i couldnt not stay aways from him..i need advice....

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