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writes:I am so confused and i dont know how to handle this issue.i dont know if im straight gay or bisexual and i cant ask my friends becausetim afraid of what they will think.please help i dont knw what to do.can you help?x Reply to this Question
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reader, TheHuggleBear +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Ok, love, first of all, breathe. You are NOT alone! We all go through this =) It's a sucky time, your head is totally messed up and you're so confused by what you want and what you think is "right" or "normal". Now, I'm not gonna lie to you; it's rough finding out exactly who you're attracted to. The best thing to do is ignore all the labels; and pinpoint WHY exactly you like these people. It could just be that you care very much about your female friend; and your hormones are going mad. Can you imagine having a sexual relationship with her? If not; there's your answer. If yes; then the question "am I gay?" IS going to come into your head. You need to move away from putting yourself in a box and keep an open mind. Ignore labels/gender/sexuality, and let yourself fall in love with who you fall in love with.
Hope this has helped!
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reader, lovelyandlovestruck +, writes (4 December 2010):
lovelyandlovestruck is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have feelings for one of my best friends who is a girl and my head is so messed up.I also like a guy i know and i dont want to ask anybody out or tel anybody until im really sure.can u help?x
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 What has happened to make you question your sexuality? Please add more details your question is too vague.
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