A
female
age
41-50,
*ightbringer
writes:I met this guy in 2009 and he was very charming. We had unprotected sex and I got pregnant. Then I realised that he was a cheater and told him to leave me alone. During my pregnancy he visited me every month and said he wanted to marry me but he began partying and sleeping around even more. When our child was born he reformed a little and we tried to have a relationship but I caught him cheating twice with the same woman. She is married with 2 kids but she is really hot and sexy so I am guessing that is the appeal. they cover up their affair by claiming to be best friends. Anyways I told him to get lost for good but I am finding it hard to let go. I feel so unworthy because I want to believe that he loves me because that is what he says plus he says I am the woman he wants to marry but what about this other woman. I'm a mess. The worst thing is that deep down in my heart I feel he does love me. I'm a fool. Advice appreciated.
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reader, lightbringer +, writes (5 December 2010):
lightbringer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for such a quick and wise response.I need to start focusing on me and to learn to love myself again.
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