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writes:I was asked by a guy I like (who I met on the last night of my visit in Veags) if I believe in fate. I said yes. And then he asked me if I think we met because of it, and I said yes and that I believe everything happens for a reason. Then I asked what his thoughts were and he says "I believe everything happens for a reason, butnot fate really" and "because I would have met you sooner, not on the last night right?". Now it has me thinking.....is this true? The guy I met on the last night and we both fell for each other....hard.....not fate.....what is it? It's probably a silly question but I want to know someone elses opinion. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (6 December 2010):
Hi. Thank you.
How do I find your other question you mentioned?
I need two things before I can do that.
(1) The exact heading of that question.
(2) The date it was posted.
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reader, kourt27 +, writes (4 December 2010):
kourt27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha no it's not a pick up line! I met him a month ago and he asked me this yesterday. Dorthy Dix I loved your reply and he doesn't live in the same state, he lives in the UK (unfortunately), you should look at my other question on my page. You seem to have great advice I would love your opinion!!!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (4 December 2010):
 Definitely a pick up line.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (4 December 2010):
 It's probably nothing, but I've heard pretty much the exact same lines come out of a pick up artists mouth to a girl before...
Nothing to be alarmed about, just something to think about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): best pick up line i have heard in so many years....
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (4 December 2010):
Hi there. We meet many people in our lives, for many different reasons.
They won't always be for a romance, they could come in different forms.
In your case, perhaps it is for romance. You'll just have to see.
Each person we meet has something to give us in some way. Something for us to learn about life and about ourselves.
I've heard it said many times, that is is often in the grand plan (God), that two people will meet each other at some time in their lives - no matter where in the world they were both born.
Do you both live in the same state and town? Or different states?
If you live within 30 minutes of each other, then there is a good chance of seeing each other again. If this is the case, you can then see what happens from now on.
So yes, I guess it probably is fate that you met.
Now you are both back in your home towns, you will just have to wait till he calls you. I assume he asked you for your phone number did he? If so, it's best to wait until he calls you - don't call him. Even he did give you his number, still wait until he calls you first. Otherwise, it could make you look needy and desperate. So just stay calm, and see what happens.
If he's interested enough, he probably will call. Give him at least a week or so, till you hear from him. He might not call the very next day - he might leave it at least a week. If nothing after a week, then leave it another week. After that, give it a miss. Don't call him then either.
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