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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

So in love with her..but she loves another guy! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im in love with this girl called Emma, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 6 months, shes always on about how much she loves him on her facebook, we do have a bit of history, before she got with her boyfriend i was sleeping with her, i started to fall in love with her ... (334 words)

I get all paranoid when he doesn't message me..why am I so insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. Before that I'd never had a relationship last more than 2 months. I've gone after the wrong guys and been hurt bad. My current bf is amazing. He treats me well, respects me and the other day said he couldn't imagine his life... (162 words)

What do you all think of 'one night' stands?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

- I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protection - i don't think i could go... (85 words)

Is he flirting with me just to get me in bed?

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23 November 2009 (F)

- i have been flirting with this guy now for about 3 months however i don't know if i should take things further or not. Ok he works in the bar im a local at and i see him every weekend. The first time i seen him he just kept staring at me then gradually as the weeks went by we... (290 words)

Is it too late or should I ask again, should we meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i'd like some advice please.. I met a guy on line early this year and since easter we have been in touch by texting about twice a week sometimes more. i'm 42 and he's 48, we both are separated/divorced and have grown up children, but we live 160 miles apart. When i fir... (399 words)

I'm losing my looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 17, and basically I think my looks are fading, and fast. I know everyone is gonna think im crazy, but seriously I have noticed a big change. I never thought I was amazingly stunning, but I didnt think I was bad either. I got noticed by boys and I was happy with the w... (155 words)

Boyfriend has a 20 year history of being a serial cheater. Will marriage change him?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend has 20 year history of serial cheater. Will marriage change him? Will he change his cheating ways if we get married? Hi, I am 32 and with a man who is turning 40 soon. We have been together for a year and a couple of months. On average we hang out once a week but... (554 words)

I dropped her and she's devastated..have I made her insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have just split from my gf and its all my doing. I have not met anyone else just feel its run its course and to be honest don't really love her anymore. Problem is it feels like being a teenager again, I feel sick with guilt because she is absolutely devasted as she ... (282 words)

Would his erection problem be okay, if he was with someone else?

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23 November 2009 (F) age - Is it possible,that my husband can cure his erectile dysfunction with a new relationship? I mean is there any chance if someone can't have a normal erection and losing it when inside, but has no medical reasons for 5 years. My husband and me are starting to give up, its been ... (89 words)

Are these signs she is cheating on me? What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey i'm in a long distance relationship and i suspect my partners cheating on me... many things tell me she is and i will write them as the following,but please,i would appreciate if no one answered me with the same old" oh y'know when you start being suspicious,,thats wh... (229 words)

I can't trust my current bf, because of past bad experiences. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was hurt by my ex it took me more than a year to get over him, he made me ill and i was heartbroken, then i went on a wild thing when me and my ex ended where i would meet up with alot of boys everyweek, i started seeing a few but it never worked out coz they were all just ... (312 words)

I'm not sure how he feels. Do you think he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiyaaah I really really like this guy! He's a year below me in school and before I knew him properly he asked me out but I said no because I don't date guys unless I know them quite well and plus I didn't really like him much, but now I do I really like him I only speak to hi... (183 words)

He is doing everything possible to show me how much he loves me but his betrayal is all I can focus on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - Hi Aunts, Don't really know why I'm writing this. It's cos I need your help and reassurance again I suppose. If you know me you will remember my text cheating husband and the rest of the saga. Although I am managing to avoid bringing it up as much, the hurt is still as raw... (127 words)

He's left me holding the baby while he goes out and cheats!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a 3 month old baby girl, we are engaged and living together. I'm 17 years old, he is 22 years old... i love him with all my heart and now i feel hopeless. lots of different girls have been calling him late at night, he goes out ... (272 words)

I would love to have a threesome with two BBW's!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is a bit of a different one. How can I convince two BBW's (Big Beautiful Women) for a threesome.. My story started in 5th grade a long time ago.....(70's ) We we in line going to recess and we were lined up girl boy girl etc in a certain spot, as luck would have... (437 words)

Can I do something more to help her without feeling like I'm betraying my other friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really sure where to start with this to be honest. Basically my friend is going through a hard time right now. She has just gotton out of a relationship (her first one) and seems to be taking it pretty rough, and she was going out with a mutual friend and the mutual f... (378 words)

I'm not sure how he feels...

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23 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I really like this guy but I'm not sure if he likes me. All of my friends think he likes me, but I'm not sure. When I see him he always says hi. He can tell when something's wrong and then asks about it. He's always nice to me, (he's not nice to everyone) the only problem is, ... (108 words)

Am I transgender... or is this just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all, please don't judge me by my age, so many people have and it gets annoying. I'm a fifteen (almost sixteen) year old girl, and the thing is I've been in love with one of my best friends (who is female) since I was thirteen. I know its not just a crush, I would l... (274 words)

Help! I can't orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I am wondering if you have any advice for me - I can't orgasm. I enjoy sex, foreplay and masturbation and have a few sex toys and vibrators, but nothing seems to make me come. I get to the point where I feel like I'm about to come, I get a hot flush and feel tingly through ... (113 words)

Squirting problem...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 42 and for 9 years while having sex I will squirt. I would like to know if this is normal and if there are other women with this problem?... (31 words)

Falling for boyfriend's best friend and open relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 1/2 years and met his friend about 4 years ago and started to fancy him. He went away for a year and I was really glad because I could forget all about him. He came back and started to become really good friends with my boyfriend. The ... (728 words)

How much do fertility treatments cost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for about a year now and i don't seem to be getting pregnant.Is there something I should be taking or doing..?? Does anyone know how much it cost to have his sperm put inside me for a better chance of becoming pregnant??... (53 words)

Should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i think my best friend likes me, i would go out with him if he asked me but hes not the most confident of people so i dont think he would be able to ask me but if i asked him an he said no then everything would be dead akward between us but the more i think about us together ... (82 words)

If we're mates like he says we are what with the going hot and cold all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Somethings just seem to be beyond a mystery. Im just wondring if you couldfigureout a reason for this. This guy is a good friend of mine, ok hesone of my best friends, ive never told him that though but before when things have got awkard through people saying things about us ... (548 words)

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts. Please Help. A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son. Hes 16 im 20. it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another. my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left. i was devastated. now they ar... (163 words)

I'm Falling for a Married man, "my boyfriend"...I Need Some Advice.(affair)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im Falling for a Married Man,were having an affair. Ive allowed him to consider me as his girlfriend, and hes my "boyfriend" Ok, I will tell you all the informantion i think you need to know to understand what im going through, from beginning to recently. I met my boyfrien... (861 words)

Does he like me, or is he just fooling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. Popular himself. Anyway, we ... (230 words)

I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my father's mother who mentally ... (80 words)

We just met on the phone and he's talking sex, kids, and marriage!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I spent a whole night...last night...talking to a friend I know on the phone. I don't really know what happened, but we started talking about sex after I described the outfit I was wearing. We met through a mutual friend of both of ours and though we haven't met, he's like ... (77 words)

Whats the first step after releasing yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him and boys in general? (No ... (176 words)

I am having an affair and want to end it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 years old and married. i am having an afair with a 25 year old person. he is of lower financial class than I . i have a child that i adore. i want to stop this afair and i can not sometimes i dream of being with this guy for ever but i know i can not. how do i stop ... (288 words)

She makes out with me and then tells me she just wants to be friends! I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so this girl and I have been talking for over a month now. I really like her! she says she likes me. however I'm not sure and just wanna confirm it. we have partied together a few times and every time she has found me and been right next to me wherever I go. this last tu... (309 words)

Pregnant and feeling rejected!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for 2 years although we broke up for 10 months and got back together in june not long after we got back together i found out i was pregnant. 5 months have past and everthing seemed to be going fine until a few... (143 words)

Is it wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it Wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin? I have liked him since i was very young, around 14 or so, first it was wishing i could kiss him(which ive never done) but since i turned 17 its been to actually have sex with him...(ive had many sexual fantasies with h... (152 words)

Any tips for learning to drive a car?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i'm VERY nervous! :| i've only eve... (120 words)

Do you think I am the cause of his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello i love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too, been together for some time and we are very tight, we are always together. its just he isnt very confident with himself, he covers up alot and looks anxious at times, i ask him why he does this and he just said its because ... (253 words)

Her boyfriends a jerk but she won't leave him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who is quite frankly becoming a bit pathetic. She's been dating this guy for four years and he is so toxic it's unbelievable. He cheats on her like it's his job and he's just the biggest creep ever. Worst of all he hits on her friends and has sent me several ... (264 words)

Why is he unhappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels empty, etc. He didnt ask for the ... (308 words)

Do you think he is interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - i was chatting with this guy i really like. we are good friends. he sort of appears outgoing but is actually quite shy especially with women. i,ve known him ages and he has never had a girlfriend. (he's not gay) we were recently joking about what is 'man talk' and he laughed ... (216 words)

Torn between my boyfriend and my life long best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First, let me introduce you to two men: Boyfriend: He is strong, smart, and the sweetest person I know. He always has great advice and never gives an answer that is anything less than thoughtful, though he is stubborn and will take it personally if you don't accept his advic... (1488 words)

How should I react to him saying "I love you"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been speaking to this guy since June/July, and we're getting along really really well. He's really nice and all that, but the only thing is that he keeps saying 'I love you', and not just in the friend way. He really thinks that he loves me. Now, I'm not the type of perso... (132 words)

Seeing my ex opens up old wounds

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - [moderator note: not a question as such, but the in-depth background provides the jist for one] Hi, I split up from my ex-girlfriend of a year whom i see at University a year ago after she gave some "its not you its me excuse". I was really shocked and totally devastated a... (289 words)

Could "spotting" mean pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and it was the first time in about 6 months. I have went a year without sex before and this has never happened to me! I started spotting today, just barely. I am kinda worried. I think that pregnancy cannot happen that ... (89 words)

I'm a girl but I don't trust women at all... please help!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't trust women at all (yes, I am a girl). I know why: I was bullied because I couldn't speak much English when I was younger, most of my girl "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and my grandmother abused me mentally. It's gotten so bad that I've started question... (82 words)

Does my boyfriend love me or not? And why does he look at other girls like he's never had sex in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Two questions from the same writer combined into one here, as the information in one seems relevant to the other.] my boyfriend doesnt trust me, if i look at a boy he gets jelous and very angry and sometimes he even wants to leave for that. i allready told him... (160 words)

My friend told me he loves me, but then says he's unsure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male friend who i feel extremely close to, i can talk to him about anything. The other day we were having a normal conversation on MSN and i asked what gossip he had to tell me in conversation. He messed about and said things like 'haha its a secret' so it made me beg ... (493 words)

Is he a "Phony"? Am I being taken down the Primrose Path? HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - What do you think of the situation where you IM and text daily and where a man and woman have exchanged telephone numbers as well, but every time I try to call him, it goes to voicemail (both cell and house phone), and when I ask (via text) if I can call at that moment, there ... (302 words)

He was married for 23 years and now she wants him back! Should I run or hang on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I am falling in love with him. We spend at least 4 days and nights together every week since we met. Everything is great. Here is the problem. He was married for 23 years. He was deeply in love with her. Now, she wants ... (139 words)

Bf's ex started calling, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am in need of some advice on if I should say something to my bf or not. Ok so we have been having problems lately. Mostly trust issues that I have, for good reason. Anyhow it was just this past month or so that things got really bad. We decided to wor... (368 words)

He asked for a naked pic of this girl he used to talk to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: This post was edited out of textspeak which is discouraged here; please try to use standard English spelling and grammar for the benefit of all our readers. Generally I would reject this question but I had a little extra time today. Thank you.] I’ve been in this... (82 words)

She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. she also said that she was ... (202 words)

Dating help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Yesterday he called me and said he realizes I am wanting us to be in a relationship but he is not ready for that. Although he loves going out and doing stuff with me. He is young 24! But I am not sure I am taking it the wrong way but ... (152 words)

Why doesn't he want me to meet her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Also, he has a female friend which I have no problem with. But, he has never introduced me to her. He talks to her frequently and says that she is her friend. But, has not found the need to introduce her to me. He said that his ex wife was jeleous of her and could not ... (105 words)

Should I call and say hello or just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been getting this strong urge to call the guy that I can't seem to get over. He was my first and unfortunately he did me wrong even though we weren't in a relationship. He knew I wanted to be with him but once we had sex it all changed. When I had sex with him ... (239 words)

I want my girl to feel sexy and be sexy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My long distance relationship has just eclipsed the 3 year mark. I love my girlfriend, but the distance has been a substantial challenge for us both. We are working to resolve this issue but there is no foreseeable resolution given the current job market and immigration red ... (796 words)

My Boyfriend's Brother hates me and its been violent!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend's brother hates me. They tell me he doesn't, at least at first they did. But eventually they all started to see what I've seen for a while now. I've know both guys for about 5 years now, we all went to high school together. Before my boyfriend and I got togeth... (733 words)

Will Karma punish me for not telling her sooner that her boyfriend was cheating on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My bestfriend cheated on his girlfriend and I fell in love with her plus I knew about his cheating from before but didnt want to tell her because i couldnt however she fell in love with me and decided to leave him for me and she needed a good enough reason so I told that he was ... (91 words)

Why is my wife not as tight as she was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it. do you think she is cheat... (79 words)

Can anyone suggest some exercises I can do to make me last longer next time I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for ages. When I was with my girl we'd have sex about 3 times a week and that went on for 2 years until she broke up with me. I literally last about 10 seconds when having sex. As soon as I enter her vagina I fee... (206 words)

Is sex painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?... (37 words)

Why does my fiance keep hiding the fact that he's been in touch with his ex wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am getting married soon to a man whom I love very much. He is older than me, but it does not affect us. My problem is his ex-wife. He has always been a little quiet about what went on with them. Doesnt say much. I have a problem with him talking to her, not because... (335 words)

Is it possible that one day he will fall in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy and he says that he really likes me. But he's afraid that he is not ready for a committed relationship with me, a single mother. He says that he finds that he cant mentally let go with me because he's afraid if he does he wont be able to handle the consequences ... (153 words)

I cant get my ex's best friend off my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

- hi i know i already posted this question before but nobody replied and i am really needing some advise on it. okay so im having a bit of a problem. about 3 years ago i met my ex and we were together for a year and a half he was my first love. he introduced me to his... (528 words)

She covers herself up during sex and I have no idea why!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with my partner for over 9 years now, everytime we are having sex she is always covering her breast and folding her hands round her chest with her eyes closed, never allow me to kiss her, I find it difficult to make her contribute and such make her reach ... (72 words)

For the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with images of women with great bodie... (177 words)

Does he fancy my best friend and only talk to me online because he is bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out. He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we talk at least once a day, he ... (281 words)

I never know where I stand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I really hope you read my question and I really hope you all leave some honest advice as I really need it. It is a complicated one, I split from my girlfriend (for the second time) 3 months ago as she said we were arguing too much and each time it was getting har... (343 words)

Was this my period or do I still need to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for me to be pregnant? i had unprotected sex(yes i know, its my bad so no lectures or rants please) a week ago yesterday, last sunday, the 15th november, took immediate action by going to the local minor injuries unit to get the morning after pill on the tuesday ... (229 words)

Does no sex mean no call???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F)

age - Hi.. this past weekend I went on my date that I met online. He was very nice, I was a little nervous.. he was very confident (he's used to dating) he said he enjoyed my company... we met for coffee, we talked, and joked. He is a straight shooter... he goes after what he wants ... (487 words)

I'm beginning to doubt my boyfriend loves me any more...

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a committed relationship for 4.5 months now. He stays 9 hours away from my house but we really love each other. Nowadays he doesn't seem the same. Recently I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and his best friend.. the phone was on ... (154 words)

How can we get to grips with these terrible rows we're having? I know it's just pressure...

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23 November 2009 (F)

age - I am having terrible rows with my partner. We have got to the stage where we row about everything. He is a really nice man with children from previous relationships and in the main is fair and decent. Try as I might I don't like the fact that he already has children. ... (327 words)

Is he looking for a family or mother?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks for all the help. Ok so I have been dating this fellow for a year. As of three months ago he moved into my house with my son and I. I do think it's a bit fast however he lives a hour away and was here evey-night anyhow.. Most of his stuff I told him to leave at his hou... (421 words)

I feel kinda stuck with what to do next...

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, So many problems haha, same guy. Still not sure if he likes me, we talk a lot more than we used to and he's given me a lift home in his car. i'm still shy around him and i really want to know if he likes me. certain things make me think that he might like we were at ... (178 words)

Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more upto 6 ft. Also the best and ... (78 words)

To divorce or not divorce...?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - to divorce or not to divorce?? me and my wife of 4 years have talked about our marriage (we already have a 1 year son) which has been a fine marriage in every think except sex. Throughout the years of our marriage we only had sex about 15-20 times.. i have a very high sex... (224 words)

I realise just how much I'm growing to like this woman but what do I do now?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have been hanging out with this graduate student from a local university for a few weeks now. She lives right above us and we hang out off and on. The past two nights, we stayed uo late chatted about each other and the same again last night, after she had cooked me ... (132 words)

I'm losing trust in this woman...

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Please help me. In reference to my earlier question, I've been seeing this girl, who I liked, she didnt tell me about her past, in spite of me asking her, she told me she had a boyfriend, but nothing happened. Later on she tells me she kissed him and after that not even a ... (230 words)

I'm too scared to say anything to him just in case I am reading too much into the situation!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male coworker who lives in another city, we worked closely together for a couple of years, but only met on a work weekend away (last year). We seemed to have a lot of chemistry. Although there were about 100 of us on the trip, he spent a lot of time seeking out my c... (567 words)

How often per week should a couple have sex?

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23 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day down the pub to brag. ... (67 words)

Are there any home remedies for oral yeast infections?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a oral yeast infection on my tongue. I have used a full tube of gel for it and am well into a liquid stuff I put in, swish around and swallow BUT it isn't getting any better, it is getting worse. I have reduced my sugar intake, avoided bread and the last few days av... (129 words)

Is this a normal kind of "fetish" if you could call it that...?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So, the other day my friend asked me what it was that women found attractive in men. He had asked me for specifics and so I gladly proceeded to list those men I found attractive, and for what reasons. Upon completion, my friend and I happened upon a pec... (178 words)

My girlfriend wont have sex with me anymore

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl(24) and I(21) have had a, ON and OFF dating history over the past 3 years but over the past 11 months we have been realllly serious. When we got back together (11 months ago) we used to have sex alllllll the time, im talking like 4-5 times a day. after 6 months we ... (384 words)

Family or Lover? Torn between both.

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have fallen in love with a married men. He isn't happy with his marriage and wants to end it but it's complicated. We want to be together more than anything, but our relationship wouldn't be accepted by most people, I'm 22 and he's 60. Other people don't bother me ... (83 words)

He made me have an abortion - should I forgive him or move on with my life?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - he made me make an abortion and he keeps on telling me dat he love me,i do really love him but im not sure if he really love me after what he has dan to me. i dont know if i should give him another chance,is de any guy dat wil drove his girl to make an abortion becoz of thier ... (88 words)

How do I change myself so he stops taking me for granted?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months, everything's great and I love him very much. The problem is, when we started out, he'd call and text me all the time, take me out, buy me little gifts just because, but recently that's all stopped and he's got too comforta... (308 words)

Heartache at 40..feeling 16!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm approaching 40, divorced for almost 2yrs....had a boyfriend after divorce for about 8mos...he dumped me. Was pretty cold about it....why do I think of him daily? Was very close to his children, they still call me....I think about him every night....can't seem to get my ... (177 words)

The love in our marriage has been replaced with hate

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My life is a mess - I have decided to leave my wife as I can no longer tolerate her constant nagging, neagitivity and derision.The problem is we have a 15 month old daughter and she is 4 months pregnant. I am torn because I love my daughter to bits and know that my wife needs ... (335 words)

Life after wife's mastectomy? Anyone been through this?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age - A couple months ago my wife was diagnosed with breast cancer and she had a mastectomy on one side last week. We think it was detected early, the doctors are quite encouraging, and she seems to be recovering marvelously from the surgery. Final test results should be in by ... (365 words)

17 and in love with my best friend

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year, I transferred to a boarding school and there, I met my eventual best friend, who I have since fallen for. It all started this summer when we were both away from each other and I missed him every day. We talked every single day (text, IM, skype, etc). So recent... (338 words)

Should I not ask girls for their phone number?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am having girl problems. i think i have a problem, i asked two different girls for their phone numbers last week and one was a flake and the other did not respond to my text. i don't understand because i could tell both really like me and even get a little nervous a... (157 words)

Blow jobs and riding..need advice!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there are 2 simple things i need help with... The first things i would like help with is as follows: I'm nervous about oral sex. "Blow-jobs". I don't really know why. But is there any way to make me feel a bit more comfortable about it? I always feel embarressed or n... (158 words)

Why do I always have to stimulate myself during sex to have ogasm?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this issue. I cannot "cum" or have an orgasm during sex. We usually spend a while on forplay n stuff before actual sex but then i have to rub my clit during, or i won't cum no matter how good it feels. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. And it ... (124 words)

I told her I seen a woman naked from porn and now she doesn't trust me!

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well, recently my girlfriend of only one month has become extremely upset with me. Why? Personally, I think it is because she is very over emotional, but many girls are. I care very much about this girl, much, muchhh more than any other girl I have dated. So you ar... (255 words)

How to decrease the pain from sex?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all after having sex for the first time the other day, my girlfriend and i were both sore as we expected is there anything we can do in between having sex next time to decrease pain? (ie stretching foreskin heaps, i dont have any problem retracting it when flaci... (61 words)

My girlfriend dumped me and I'm still devastated

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im so hurt! My ex gf broke up with me on Nov 4 after dating for almost 2 yrs. I always treated her like a princess and loved her like crazy. I found out on a txt msg she sent me by "accident". It devastated me bcuz even though we had been fighting, I still loved her with all my ... (335 words)

Do men feel the same way about dating as women do?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age - I have enjoyed reading the posts on this site. I am wondering in the dating world, do men or women have an easier time finding a mate? I am curious what men and women think on this topic? Personally, I have always found it hard to meet a man, I feel chemistry with and coul... (73 words)

Our relationship seems so one sided!

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23 November 2009 (F)

- I have recently met a guy,who expressed some interest...though I approached him first (at the uni night club). I would very much like to get to know him, and while it was his idea to swap numbers and he has been lovely to me(and the fact that we have spent a few nights toget... (200 words)

To those with LDR experience is lack of emotional trust normal before meeting?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my ldr to death, really, and as cautious as I am to even let myself feel this way, I feel like I might be falling in love for the first time ever. Yet, at the same time, I sometimes feel like I can't believe him when he talks about how attracted he is to me or how muc... (487 words)

Should I save my marriage to someone I do not love or go with someone I love?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Twenty years ago I met the love of my life. At the time we both had just gotten out of a relationship and agreed to date and not get serious, but in the process we both fell in love. After 2 years he admitted to me that he wanted to marry me and I fled. I just could not risk ... (259 words)

The shy guy or the flirty guy?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend, we went out in march, for about 2 months, we didnt go anywhere. we barely even talked.. that didnt work out so i ended it. a few weeks ago i realize i still have feelings for him. and he had feelings for me, and he asked me out. but theres this other guy who ... (168 words)

He wanted to slow things down, so we had sex. How does he feel about me now?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i dont kno what to do ive been talkin to a guy for 7mos. in the begining it was great but then he said he didnt have time for a gf so we slowed down. recently we took the next step and became intimate. i really like him and i wanna kno what he feels about me but sinc... (82 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to show his affection physically?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get my boyfriend become more physical and touchy?... (11 words)

I found out my boyfriend has been cheating. Should I take him back?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I been with my bf for 4 months. I love him more than anything, supported him through everything, helped him a little through his financial problems. Anyway, I kinda always been a jealous gf but never checked through his personal things.(I see him once a week because of 2 hr. ... (556 words)

I drink when my husband is around because I can't bear to be near him

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 15 years. We have 4 children together. I have put up with a lot of verbal abuse from him over the years. Of course There are a lot of good qualities about him such as a hard worker and good provider for the family. He shows he is a loving father ... (173 words)

To blow or not to blow?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive done alot of cyber sex in my day (not too proud either) and lately a guy that i have been talking to for several months now is talking pretty seriously with me as in a relationship...we've never cybered but we do talk openly about sexual lives...anyways, he asked me the ... (154 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm developing an attraction for a guy at work. What do I do?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I love him to pieces. Recently, I met this other guy at my job and we've been talking a lot. I'm starting to have strong feelings for him. Its the best/horrible feeling in the world. No way would I ever cheat on my boyfriend. But its ... (129 words)

How does a woman know when she's had an orgasm?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How does a female know she has had an orgasm? i know that sounds stupid. but my boyfriend is always telling me that i should just let go and orgasm already or are you going to orgasm soon and i dont really know what it is like i dont know how i would tell? any help pleass... (62 words)

How do I build upo the courage to talk to him?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy in my university that I have been noticing for the past few months. I know that he is the same nationality as me. He knows this too but we have never been introduced. I see him only once a week because we have classes that are across from eachother. He ... (176 words)

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats because I know we'll be best ... (133 words)

I'm falling for my best friend's cousin

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i think i am falling for this girl. the only problem is that i cant spend too much time with her because we are both going crazy for that final grade 12 push. also she is my 2 best friends cousin and she lives with them. do you think i would have a chance? how would i th... (72 words)

My girlfriend seems different. What can I do to keep this relationship working?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old, and will have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months in December. We got together in June, and though we originally planned to split up before we left for college, found that by the end of the summer we cared too much about each other to let the relationship ... (511 words)

Men don't turn me on, but they don't turn me off either. What does that mean?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm not really sure about my sexual preference right now. I've always been really attracted to girls but I've also never been GROSSED OUT by guys. I've dated a few girls and I'm still extremely attracted to girls, but while other guys gag when they see... (224 words)

He hinted at bisexuality, initiated intimacy then said he was repulsed. Is he playing games?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 38 now and a gay guy. I have not had many relationships. Have tended to shy away from them after a rejection years ago. The last I had was 10 years ago. Last year, I met a guy at uni where I was doing a postgrad course. He was 19.....ok I know I am alot older but guy says ... (562 words)

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very inexperienced at asking people out. ... (115 words)

What can I do?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what do i do if i am dating a person and my breath does not smell good and i do not have gum?... (23 words)

Boyfriend gave his phone number to suspected interest.

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya everyone. Ok so this may seem like a silly problem and i prob shouldnt be bothered by it, but id like peoples opinions and to just rest my mind a bit. Ok well i live about 100 miles away from my boyfriend. He is moving down here tomorrow! Buuuut i went onto his facebook... (311 words)

Why would an attractive woman like that want such an older guy?

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23 November 2009 (M)

age - A very pretty 37-year-old divorced woman with a 12-year-old daughter has indicated interest in me. However, I think that she is much more economically blessed, based on her home, and I'm a 62-year-old man, like 25-years her senior. Why would an attractive woman like that wan... (51 words)

Is it worth continuing on or am I just prolonging it by staying together??

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey... ive been going out with a girl for the last 3 months and things were going pretty well up until last week. she just got knid of distant. anyway we had a chat tonite and she was saying that its nothing to do with me its all her, she cant help but feel that deres something ... (163 words)

I dare not risk telling him I love him just to loose everything!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just think about the good times..and they'll come back again! Idlove to keep saying that to myself but even the good times depress me. Im in a mess, a big fat mess!! This guys my best friend....but sadly the love of my life! Who i cannot get over. We've had our ups and down... (850 words)

I am accusing her of the same things that happened to me in past relationships!

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23 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi ihave a problem that is new to me. i have been in some really bad bad relationships. well i met my g/f 6 months ago an we were doing great. n then all of a sudden my problem from my past relationships poped up in my head. is she cheating can i trust her is she lieing to me ... (120 words)

I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and while it's not great, it's by ... (435 words)

Who do you turn to when your family isn't there?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do when i cant even trust my family? well i have this issue that i have things to tell my mo but i wanna wait till the right time because if i just throw it all at her she not gone take it so i got to give it to her slow and at the right time. So i talk to my niece ... (250 words)

What can I do to make it up to him and never talk about my exes again?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really love my boyfriend and he loves me to bits, been together for 6 months but i have known him for years, but it wasnt until one night i realised i had feelings for him and we hit it off ever since. a year ago i was hurt really bad by a boy i loved so much, i was seeing ... (311 words)

How can I meet some more independent people?

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23 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have 2 friends and they're nice girls who mean well, but it seems they always have some kind of drama surrounding them. They go through these phases where they meet new people, brag about them and talk about them constantly, stop hanging out with me and our other friends for ... (167 words)

Not attracted to obese boyfriend.

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23 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been with the same guy for three years, we are both in our 40s. When I met him he had just lost 140 lbs through diet and exercise and was running marathons. A big part of my attraction to him was admiration for having lost all that weight and adopting a healthy ... (304 words)

How do I start over quickly, before he leaves?

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23 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm kinda still in love with this guy even though we've had kinda had a rough relationship. Right now, we're not talking( even though I really want to). Lets just say things got complicated. Again. He's leaving high school next year and I'm probably never gonna see hi... (227 words)