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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A few days ago he sweeps me off my feet. Now he wants to be friends. What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted this yesterday but gave everyone the wrong idea by using the word 'intimacy' - I didn't mean sex, I was just trying to describe the feeling of closeness we had, as though we'd been together for a long time... I don't know what happened!! A few days ago I had a grea... (401 words)

Best friend and I like the same guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bestfriend just found out recently that we both really like one of our friends. She had started telling me that I should tell him I like him and ask him out. I refused, even though i'm dying to tell him, because she is my best friend and I don't want to hurt her and ... (207 words)

Why does no guy want to get to know me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why do I feel as if no guy really likes me? Its like I am not good enough or pretty enough for a guy to like me. Its hurtfull because every guy I like turns me down(not that I a couple at once it is through a period of time) What do I do, could it be because no guy wants to get ... (66 words)

I lied to my date about basic info

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm new to the whole online dating scene but I figure why not give it a shot. I'm a very personal person and I did not want to reveal that much information about myself in case I do not like the guy. So I chatted with this guy online and he was asking me my name, where I'm ... (276 words)

My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, who she basically left me for, ... (222 words)

He's younger than me and might be expecting too much, should I stop it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

- This is a tricky question and I thank all who tackle it. I am in my early fifties. I am told I am relatively attractive and am in reasonably good shape. I am attracted to a colleague in his early thirties and it would seem mutual. He is a terrific person and seems to care about ... (204 words)

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I could get them, however, two day... (505 words)

Am I just a fool in love? Why is my wife ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Im starting to wonder if my wife is still in love with me or not. I constantly feel like she is disrespecting me and is simply with me for convienience. Out latest argument was on Halloween when at the bar with her and friends, I would order a drink (jack and coke) and in... (400 words)

Is this incest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her boyfriend are getting married ... (141 words)

Should I date my bad boy best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this will only take a few seconds please help... my best friend is 19 and i am only 17 he says he is in love with me.. i think his really hot and sweet and his a bad boy 2..... but i dont want it to ruin our friendship... i trust him with all my heart.. my question is ... (89 words)

I want to be sexually active but put my defences up before anyone can get close. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm eighteen and I still haven't lost my virginity. I want to become sexually active but I freeze up whenever a potential opportunity arises, and just feel really nervous and uninterested. I always assume guys are just after one thing, and put up my defences before they can get ... (128 words)

Lost for Words. How can I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, just gonna come out with it. Theres this girl I like, she got hammered on saturday and I went to go pick her up cause she told me she was scared and wanted to leave. Just before she got a ride home, she kissed me, I went to her house the next day to see how she was dealing ... (160 words)

I feel so inadequate, but how do I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I happen to like my brother's friend, sort of. I mean, I've met him once, at her house, but prior to that my friend actually told me that she'd showed him my picture and that he thought I was cute, and that I was his type and everything (we're into the same things, ... (317 words)

Help me with my play please, I need ideas.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I need some ideas for a play I will be doing in a group.The teacher put 6 people in a group to act out behavior. The leader of the group choose to make our play on the different behaviors in a restaurant. So there are 6 parts for 6 people. 1)The waitress ... (531 words)

I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) age 41-50 - My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her to compromise and do one of th... (209 words)

I want to date the girl my mum used to babysit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I need help with a dilema. I'm very interested in a girl! But.. she is younger than I, not being a problem, but my mother used to babysit her when she was younger, and My mother, nor her father would agree with us dating. What should I do? Thanks... (59 words)

She likes me, she likes me not. Should I pursue her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey so there's this girl that I like and have only known her for around 6 months, she was a friend of a friend but has now become quite close to me. Every time we meet up on a night out with friends etc we really hit it off. The only problem is that she knows my ex and ... (184 words)

The girl I like was with me and my best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, theres something which has been troubling me for the last couple days.. The other night, it was one of my best mates' going away party thing, and on that night i met this girl through mutual friends. Problem is, so did my friend who the going away party was for. I'm not ... (264 words)

My gay son is dating a married man with kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My son is 17, and came out as gay to us 2 months ago. Me and my husband have no issues with his sexuality. He's in college, studying business systems, and is doing very well. It's his choice of partner that's worrying us though - he told us he's dating this 39-year-old man... (238 words)

Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hear of so many relationships br... (150 words)

His eyes are always on me. Is he flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Simply what does it mean when a man winks at a girl from across the room, more than a few times? We've never really spoken except saying "hi" (in a shy manner) when we pass one another. He is always giving me eye contact like he can't take his eyes off of me, smiling, winking ... (178 words)

We only have sex according to a schedule. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 37 and been married for 9 years. My wife and I went through a rough spot. During that time, she stopped having sex with me. I was hurt. Part of the outcome of marriage counselling was the agreement that we would have a schedule. Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays. ... (143 words)

Why did he dump me and will we get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex for 5 years. We were in an inter-religious relationship and his parents never knew about me. He was invited to all of my family functions and he truly adores my family and the traditions. In July his father passed away and he broke up with me 2 weeks after it ... (236 words)

Do her drunken texts reveal something new?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We all know how blunt or honest we can be when drunk. Here's the scenario. She's 23, at a bar, drunk and I'm at home relaxing from a long day of work. Here's the texts: Me: What's up? Her: I'm at a bar babe... gettin pretty drunk haha Me: Looks like you're already past... (185 words)

How do I get a No-Strings-Attached Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok without going into the reasons why I want one and the up- and down- sides of it: I want a sex buddy. So how do I get one? I can't (and don't want to) ask exes or female friends. How do I even let a women know that's what I want, without coming across as sleaze-ball? I ... (179 words)

I'm flirting with someone's boyfriend. Does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I finally told this boy I liked him, even though he has a girlfriend. He always flirts with me and the other night he was sending me some extremly flirty texts about if he didn't have a girlfriend he would get with me and do stuff. I really like him, does this mean he like... (57 words)

I told his kids how I felt about their dad. What did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known an older guy with kids for at least a month now and there are many things he has done and said that lead me to believe he was interested in me like he would flirts with me and once or twice he has held me in his arms and cuddled me. Since I had known his kids befo... (192 words)

Just wondering...for those of you who were cheated on...how did you find out.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - To those of you in long standing relationships who have been cheated on by your better half, HOW did you find out?... (22 words)

Help!! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I thought this guy liked me and he wouldnt tell me so i took the bull by the horns and told him, he hasnt been sure about how he feels about me for months and has told me he will give me an answer soon, i'm so scared... did i do the right thing? and what are the chances he will ... (77 words)

On a break... feedback needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for two and a half years. I love her more than life itself and vice versa. I just moved a couple of states away, however, for college. Everything is still great between us, but we have mutually decided to take a break until I return in ... (145 words)

Dating and about to quit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well I am 18 and no one ever seems interested in me and I am putting myself out there but I am about to just give up and quit trying to date. I need some help on how to get people. I am bi btw... (46 words)

Is once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - When my boyfriend and I first got together, I asked if he'd ever cheated on a girlfriend. He said yes, once. He said he was young and stupid. I didn't ask further about it until recently. I was curious about specifics, and he told me that he cheated with a girl that he'd ... (264 words)

Why am I hurting down there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply.... (38 words)

Accidentally changed ex's email password!! Should I be honest or deny it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so curiosity killed the cat... I'm really worried of what the outcome of this will be. So please any advice on how to handle this would help. Boyfriend of 2 years and me broke up. We have been seeing each other and things have been up and down...but we are still very m... (220 words)

He thinks I'm boring...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok there is guy that i think i like we have a lot of weird chemistry he calls me a "plain pizza" behind my back and even sometimes to my face implementing that im boring i guess or if anyone has any other ideas what that means?? should i still like him or let go? everyone says ... (95 words)

Just can't figure him out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known each other close to 10 years. ... (432 words)

Communication issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. For the past few weeks, I've felt that there has been an unspoken emotional and physical distance between us. Both of us have been busy lately, and haven't had that much time, which I understand and take into account, but ... (216 words)

I've fallen for a teacher, but I'm no kid. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm falling in love with a teacher! he doesnt teach me and i'm not some hormonal teen, i know the difference between a crush, when he see's me we friendly flirt well at least that's what i think, but how can i flirt in a way that doesn't come across as desprate but in the same... (66 words)

Is this a stupid crush or should I question my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved in with my boyfriend after being with him for just over 3 years and just before we moved in together, I started to get feelings for a coworker. We got on so well and we always flirted. Ever since I left the company (to move in with my boyfriend and I got a ... (93 words)

I miss him so much! Is this a phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello need some advice! I was with my boyfriend for nearly two years, i loved him very much but we started arguing daily and i felt like there was little trust in the relationship.. so even though i wanted to be with him, i knew i shouldnt be with him.. i knew it was for the ... (108 words)

I want to enjoy sex, but he's too big!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My new partner is also a dear friend of mine. Over the weekend we met up and when we came to "doing it" he was too big for me. We had done foreplay beforehand and he was reassuring but i want to be able to enjoy it without it hurting, any advice?... (52 words)

She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions against me. In our 4 year relation... (540 words)

I am want to cry, but he thinks it’s silly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If something is bothering you to the point you feel so hurt and you want to cry but yet, in his eyes, it is so silly, and nothing to worry about. Is it worth getting frustrated over it and confront your significant other and make sure you do not keep it in? ... (52 words)

Am I ok for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well my penis is a little over 4 inches and with that i have no confidence am i ok for sex?... (22 words)

My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing with my daughter, pretending ... (135 words)

How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and do it 4 days every week with ... (110 words)

Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of her two children...apart from ... (501 words)

He can't be with me. How can I cope with my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I started college about 7 weeks ago, and made a lot of friends and there were a few guys I liked. I became really good friends with this one (straight) guy and we started chatting a lot on msn and stuff, then one night he told me he was bisexual, and that he had not ... (718 words)

Help! How do I get my first kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well I'm 18 and I have never had my first kiss or anything. please tell me how I should get it. I need major help so please give me all your ideas.... (33 words)

Has anyone else felt this ache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My period should be due next Week and it comes about every 30-32 days. 14 days after my period I had a ache on one side of my pelvic area. So I think I ovulated then.... Now I have been getting a ache since yesterday and it seems like it could be my ovaries as it is on both... (155 words)

He only wants to have sex doggy style...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi This might sound really weird. my boyfriend and i have been sleeping together for 10 months now, and what weird about it, is he only wants to have sex doggy style,( i enjoy it too) but ive tried to get him to try different positions but he's not really putting an effor... (125 words)

I can't eat or sleep for fear she's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Now that i am aware of my fiancee cheating on me at least once in the past I keep getting paranoid that she is still being unfaithful. Since i called her out on cheating on me (around 3.5 months ago) sex and anything of the nature has been almost completely out of the question. ... (256 words)

Is this emotional black-mail? Is he too possessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [MODERATOR NOTE: Location specifics have been removed. Otherwise the post remains true.] I know this i quite long but I really need your help and I don't know who else to ask! My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and they have been the best 6 months ever! ... (629 words)

Does this mean she wants me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Me and my girl have been broken up for about 3 weeks because my ex wife keeps texting and calling her and it drives her crazy but she wont change her number. she says she needs her time and space and is not interested in anybody else. she keeps texting and emailing me. I ... (161 words)

I can't stand the thought of my divorced parents with new partners, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My parents have recently split up after 30 years of marriage. I think one of them has just started a new relationship and I don't know what to do. I don't want to have anything to do with the new partner but does that mean I can't have the same relationship with my parent? I ... (84 words)

How do I prove that I didnt cheat? I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i was wondering if anyone could help me out here. I have a fiance and hes been away for a while spending time with his sick mother, now I have no problem with that its just now we are both in separate towns. Mind you he is coming to town soon, his mother is getting better. ... (213 words)

My girlfriend has rejected me sexually for over 18 months...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age - For well over a year my gf has been cold towards me. Some of this I explained in my earlier question - not allowing me to say I love you or express my feelings to her etc. Also she as rejected me sexually for nearly 18 months. At the start she used to say that she was feeling ... (362 words)

Do you think I should hang on in here or move on? Hubby is not upset that I miscarried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age - Please forgive me for a long post but my question needs a bit of background. I am 41 and I have been married 3 times. The first two were public school boys and successful businessmen. My latest is the origional bad boy, been to prison, always up to no good but very good looking ... (318 words)

I'm pretty much in uncharted waters with no paddle...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, I work for a hardware store. while I was with my ex and a girl my age was hired. at first we where just friends. I found out she has a boyfriend. I treated her like a friend, basic bullshiting. we became close friends. her boyfriend also works there and he is a ... (382 words)

I have been told she is using me because she already has a b/f. Do women hide their intentions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some familiar problems the last ... (195 words)

LDR: I am happy to be faithful to him but I don't want to hold him back, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys and girls, I'm sorry if this is a long post! Basically...I left home to go traveling for 18 months 6 months ago. I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years and we moved out and I set off.He couldn't come with me because he is doing a PHD in college. We agreed that 1... (687 words)

I'll keep it short:

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age - will i ever be loved... (5 words)

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was cool and told she understands my ... (214 words)

Do I date him? I don't want to be hurt like he's hurt others.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i posted a question a couple of days ago because i was unsure of whether the guy i liked liked me back. i now know that he does like me back but he has made out with two girls recently and is not dating either of them. he has told them this and they have taken it well. thing is ... (84 words)

He says he loves me but is chatting to girls online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been in this relationship for two years now-one of which my boifriend was in the states. he'd tell me he loved me and everything, but after he came back we continued on like he never left. after a while i got ahold of him email addresses and passwords to some ... (127 words)

I can orgasm with my vibrator but not with a man... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this problem that I'm not really sure how to overcome. I know what I should do but maybe need some advice. I hope this isnt too descriptive or anything.. So I'm in my early 20's and I've never been able to orgasm with a male there. I've never had an orgasm during se... (229 words)

What do these mixed signals mean that she has been giving me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this one shy girl I like, who happens to be my best friend's sister. Lately, I have been getting the impression that she likes me (i.e. she'd look at me when I'm not looking at her, act surprised when I say something to her, talks to her parents’ about me, etc.) ... (237 words)

Why do boys prefer skinny gals? And how do I get them to like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - no boys like me. ok, maybe there is someone and im just overlooking them, but if i did look at them, they are the worst possible. all the hot guys prefare stick-insect girls. im not fat. but im not a stick insect! im not ugly! i no im not because this really hot guy i met on h... (92 words)

I'm in a relationship that I feel is not good for me.. I'm stressed and have lost my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hello i have been in a relationship for 5 year's and i know it's not good for me am stressed most of the time ,i lost all my friend's because of him,when i talk on the phone he makes me stress ,so i don't talk on phone now.am 41 he 48 and he control my life .how can i stop ... (61 words)

What could these tiny white lumps be? Are they normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a male 17 years of age and im bi. i have had sex before with both guys and girls but my problem is my male friend who i have slept with before wants me to shave the pubic hair around my penis. so i did this and noticed some tiny white lumps on my scrotum and shaft. they ... (71 words)

We've had a baby together and now he's lost all interest in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and a half. I just had a baby with him about three weeks ago and it seems like he's lost all affection towards me. This was my first baby but he has a baby from a previous girl so that puts a strain on our relationship ... (135 words)

Should I contact him and tell him how I feel, or

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm conflicted, I care for this guy we were together for three yrs. I found out he has another girlfriend now ( and may I say she and i could be twins with exception I'm not trying to be full of myself but I'm way more attractive than she is but our career goals and background ... (290 words)

Should I say something to my Professor about my feelings for him?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to the local community college where I live and I am 17 I am not very good at science, but I feel like I have a thing for my professor. He's older but he's funny and charming in an odd way. I have been having dreams about him, and I told one friend and she kinda just ... (81 words)

Is his text evidence that he is cheating?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw my boyfriend texting this other girl, and I thought nothing of it until I caught a glimpse at the end of the text, and he wrote love you to her. I know that she is not a family member and he told me that he was talking to a guy and not a girl. So sense he was fibbing, I ... (168 words)

Do my actions warrent a breakup?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age - I hope I didn't destroy my relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!! He has epilepsy, brought on by a blow to the head when he was in high school. He is on medication for it and as long as he takes it, he is fine. I hadn't heard from him since la... (462 words)

What can I do about stretch marks?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well im 15 and every since i was 12 or 13 ive had really bad stretch marks, im a very big person or anything. but im veryyy embarrassed of my body, i wont wear girly cloths. i will only wear them if they are long sleeves and i always wear guys shirts! i dont feel pretty im ... (99 words)

Is there a way to check for broken hymen? Out of curiousity and health.

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?i want to see if theres a way.just for curiosity... (23 words)

How do I move on from this older guy?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, I'm 13 and i have known this one guy for nearly 3 years now and at one point in that time we sorta had a thing going on and ever since then i have not been able to get him out of my mind for anything i have tried other guys everything deleting his number but i know it ... (201 words)

Is she avoiding sex? How do I take things to the next step?

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2 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this girl every weekend for about a month and a half. we live a few hours apart. we stay at each others houses in the same bed when either of us visits. she acts interested in me. I want to have sex with her, but every time we hang out she gets REALLY DRUNK to ... (101 words)

How do I get through this bad relationship?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, my ex boyfriend is 16. We started dating November 16/08. I was at a weak state of mind, and I fell in love with our dysfunctional relationship. He has no future, he lives in a dysfunctional home with an alcoholic backround. Ever since I started dating him, my l... (286 words)

I believe I may be pregnant but part of me is unsure even after taking a pregancy test.

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I believe I may be pregnant but part of me is unsure even after taking a pregancy test. The reason is very simple, the man I've been sleeping with has had a vesectomy and we use condoms. Is there any chance that this man could possible produce a child? And that a condom could ... (85 words)

Should I tell him about my past with this other guy?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been "talking" to a scorpio guy I like for a couple months now, but we aren't together in any way. We have hung out 3 times away from work, and we both have feelings for each other. Before me and him met, I had a sexual relationship with a gemini guy he does not get ... (151 words)

He's too big for me to give him oral sex!

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my husband very much and want to do whatever I can to make him happy. He does NOT try to make me does this, it's just I want to be able to do for him as his wife. I have gave other guys head and never had a problem untill my husband came around. He is so big that when I ... (92 words)

Is she jealous of me?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend of over a year has this new girlfriend who has been flirting with him since him and I were going out. I also moved on and am dating someone else. Since I started going out with my new boyfriend, she has been telling my ex not to talk to me, she clings on to him ... (106 words)

27 and never had a blow job!

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2 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm really embarrassed about this but I've never had a blow job or been masturbated by a girl before. I'm 27 and cannot get a girlfriend no matter what I try. But all my friends, even girls, have indulged in this. I'm really ashamed by it. I am a virgin as well. At 27 I should ... (97 words)

Help with mashing the master!!!

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2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well I am curious and I just started masturbating but I don't know how. Will you help try new ways?... (21 words)

My friend is driving me crazy! Help!

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2 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - At first, my friend of 10 years needed help. I gave it to her. The more I gave her the more she expected. Soon she was leeching on, and did not want me to give support to anyone else and monopolized the conversation when others asked me questions and tried to get to know me. ... (257 words)

Baby daddy gone bad!

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. so about three months ago me and my baby's father broke up. We broke up because he didn't want to spend enough alone time with me and my son, so I often nagged about it.. After we broke up I made all of the mistakes you could possibly make, called and txt him all the ... (197 words)

My husband does not want to have sex

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband does not want to have sex. I AM 37 AND HE IS 34, he does not desire any kind of intimacy. ... nor put his head on my shoulder when we sleep, nor any of the normal ... ?... (41 words)

Why the total turnaround???

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what happened!! A few days ago I had a great time with the guy I've liked for around 6 months. We kissed (a lot) and shared a great intimacy... we weren't talking about anything that important most of the time, but it felt so close and comfortable. He told me a lot ... (358 words)

These 2 boys are confusing me, What's your take on the situation?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - All last year I had a really big crush on this guy. There were a lot of reasons that led me to believe that he liked me too, but we are both REALLY shy and never went any where. I thought I would get over him over the summer, but I didn't. This year I hardly ever get to see him ... (368 words)

I'm incredibly lonely and I have no idea how to pull myself out of it!

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm incredibly lonely and I have no idea how to pull myself out of it! I know having a boyfriend doesn't solve everything, but I feel that having someone to spend time with and talk to just makes life ten times easier. I've never been in a real relationship (never had a ... (109 words)

My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.

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2 November 2009 (F)

age - I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a couple of weeks ago but my ... (456 words)

How do you give love bites?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm still a virgin and me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex soon. I just wanted to know how to make love bites (hickey )....and how can i make our sex enjoyable so that my boyfriends keeps on asking for more sex......... (46 words)

Why did I have to fall in love for the first time with someone like him, so perfect but so bad at the same time?

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2 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much and I have put up with a lot from him, and have forgiven him many times, even though he feels what he did was justified. See we have been together for 3 years, and in the beginning everything was absolutely perfect. I think he idealized me way too ... (480 words)

How do I test a woman's feelings?

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2 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I wrote 2 days ago about a problem of mine's. I got 2 direct answers, direct from women. I don't believe that they lie, but I donw want to believe that they are right... Its about a girl that has been coming very close to me in the past few weeks. The hook in all ... (309 words)

I am messed up here...what does this guy want from me?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am so confused about a guy i am seeing. We have known each other about 3months and have met up a few times for casual sex. but he says he wants more than this, and is depressed about not being in a relationship. he usually says this by text message or when hes 'und... (426 words)

He's 31..I am almost 17! Could he get in trouble for dating me?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and ive been dating this guy for about two years i love him with all my heart and so does he, we have been through so much together but theres one problem he's 15 years older than me which makes him 31(im turing 17 in a few days though.) is it even legal? and can he get ... (71 words)

I want to change my life! Should I feel guilty for wanting that?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 45 yr old woman,(age posted wrong?) I have been going through the need for change for a couple years now. I am depressed, lonely, bored and burnt out. I want to relocate somewhere else I would enjoy more. I want a new job. A new start. I have two grown children 22,23 who ... (249 words)

I'm a battered wife and I still love him! I need help!

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do i start? What is the difference between being mentally abused and battered? My husband puts me down all the time. Anything i do is never good enough. He yells and me and calls me names like whore, slut, b****, c***, liar(i NEVER lie to him) and other horrible names ... (244 words)

I love my family, but I don't like them..why am I this way?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is something wrong with me that I love my family but I dont like them? ... (15 words)

I am 37..my husband is 34. Is this a big age difference?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there it is me again, so being 37, AND MY HUSBAND BEING 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the past, they have cheated on me, lied and used me,who knows what they want in life and he does, he tells ... (93 words)

I'm getting tired of my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to get really agitated with my boyfriend's friend. Let me begin by saying I'm in an LDR. We are five hours away from each other. I have asked him to come to this trip that's two hours away for me and three hours away for him. He said yes, well, while he was ... (755 words)

He said he 'loved me' on the phone but he sounded lost. Should I bring it up and discuss this with him?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a few months now. He got locked up 2 months ago. I've been going to see him and help with the things he may need. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks. He calls me this morning and left me a voicemail, asking me to come see him. He saying how he ... (109 words)

He is a father figure to this boy..he calls his son. Not sure where I fit in here?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. I love him and we've discussed moving in together... The problem in our relationship right now is his "son". Six years ago, he began dating a single mother. Her son was only 3 months old when my boyfriend met her. As the ... (288 words)

He wants our life the way it was before his affair!

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2 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Okay here it goes, it has been 3 yrs since my husbands affair, I am in a better place emotionally, problem is he is not happy that I am feeling this way, he wants me to be the same in pre-affair times....everything that I cherished when we were so called happy, like the wedding ... (112 words)

How do I avoid these friends, that I think are bad for me?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do u do when u dont wanna hang out with the group of people you hang out with because your 100 percent sure that they are talking about you..they smoke but i dont. all i do is drink with them never once tried smokin and because they smoke and i hang out with them its gonna ... (187 words)

What did she mean when she just emailed me and said"sparks will fly again"?

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2 November 2009 (M)

He criticizes my weight and I feel very unloved...how do I get him to stop?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice on my marriage. I have been married 6 years and am at my breaking point. My husband has gotton to the point that I get tense just being around him. He is constantly criticizing me about my weight (I weigh 112 pounds and have lost 12 in the past six months ... (276 words)

Am I shallow because I like men, based on their looks?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice/opinions/anything on this issue I have. As long as I can remember I’ve been really attracted to blond/blue eyed/boyish looking men (Brad Pitt when he was young, Jensen Ackles, Patrick Wilson type guys). I’ve ‘chased’ a few guys in the past who look like this ... (350 words)

He said "Hey" to me and asked how was I doing..so is he interested?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so every morning on my way to class i pass this guy on the sidewalk. at first we just smiled at each other and made eye contact but last week i worked up the courage to say hi. the next time i saw him, he said hey to me and asked how i was doing. is he interested? and if he ... (83 words)

Embarrassed to see a doctor about possible damage from anal sex! Advice?

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2 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had anal sex for the first time, and we did it with out lube i said I would try it but it hurt so much i couldnt take it, but my bf wouldnt stop , now im bleeding and in pain but i'd be to embaressed to go see a doctor about it, could i really be badly damaged?... (60 words)