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writes:Heya everyone. Ok so this may seem like a silly problem and i prob shouldnt be bothered by it, but id like peoples opinions and to just rest my mind a bit.Ok well i live about 100 miles away from my boyfriend. He is moving down here tomorrow! Buuuut i went onto his facebook tonight (i have his password i know itss soooo bad) but ive had a few niggling feelings lately. Ive gone home to visit and stuff to see family and friends. I go out with my mates on a friday and have great times. Theres a new girl in the group whos going out with a guy who is also new to the group. Anyways those two recently broke up (theyve been doing it alot lately) My bf seemed quite concerned about it for a while. I felt suspicious for a while about why he was so concerned. He is not a very caring person when it comes to other people. Hes very sarcastic sometimes and certainly doesnt show his feelings....until now. I went into his inbox and surprise surprise theres an inbox from him to her. He offered his number to her, gave it to her, offered to meet up and talk about it. Ill repeat again...he is never like this with anyone while the time ive known him. 2+ years. Im a lil worried he may like her. Fortunatly he is moving up and wont see her unless we visit home together, but its bothering me. I normally wouldnt be bothered about this type of thing if he was friendly in general. Also he had two other emails giving his number to girls to meet up, but they are his friends so i feel fine with it. Its so stupid i know, but should i really be worried??Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): You believe he is breaching your trust and endangering your relationship by giving his number to this and other girls?
What do you think YOU are doing by looking at his private correspondence?
Don't think for one moment that you are justified in doing this because of what you have found out - you are NOT! That is always the female excuse, and it simply won't wash.
You should feel ashamed of what you did and apologise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): You have every right to feel the way you do if you have seen proof in his inbox. However there is no point beating yourself up about it as at the end of the day it is not going to get you anywhere.
Th best thing i reckon is to just simple ask him about why he is giving his number to other girls and let him answer, if you have known him for 2+ years then ya should be able to tell if he is lieing to you.
And don't forget if is he just merely concerned to apoligise but at the end of the day the way is feel is totally normal and i would have the same feelings as you if i found the same sort of stuff on my bf's facebook inbox.
Hope this helped in any ways =]
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