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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the sex andhope it develops into ... (74 words)

What do guys like to have done to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do guys like to have done to them?... (9 words)

Does he want me as much as I wdnt him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i think this boy likes me but im not sure whether hes prettending to the problem is i like him were best mates in p.e. he will feel my bum and penis wat sal ido because im to emberrased to ask him out because he might not be gay... (49 words)

He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not one bit. So, when the Pastors ... (438 words)

Has he just fallen out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi been with my boyfriend seven months now, iv never loved anyone the way i love him. first of all things were great, he was always here for me, never let me down. now i just think hes fallen out of love with me, he still tells me he loves me, but its different, we spend le... (417 words)

Why am I not maturing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 13 but have no pubes i havent had a voice crack either and all my friends are hairy mairy wat can i do to grew my pubes... (29 words)

Am I wrong to tell him no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for 4 years, if he could he would have sex everyday but for some reason i dont want it as often as we used to, if i say no he gets really angry and i often just give in to keep him happy. Is it wrong for me not to want sex as often as he does? It ruining ... (80 words)

Why do women do such things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what: I got my first kiss, that ... (470 words)

Is he still hung up over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my first semester of uni and I met this guy. We get along really well and flirt a lot. We have had out moments such as sleeping in the same bed or drunken nights together. There's definitely some sort of attraction but I also know he is hung up over his ex back home but ... (116 words)

No period since taking the morning after pill!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I took the morning after pill ( levonelle ) and now my period is 6 weeks late. When i was 2 weeks late i went to the doctors for a urine test and it came back negative. Could this test be wrong or can the morning after pill make your period this late? I have had no bleeding or ... (96 words)

Was I wrong to go with my instincts and look in his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months and the other day for some reason, I looked at his text messages while he was in the shower, I found some messages from a girl who I think is an ex. She accused him of cheating on her, and she hates him, then there are some ... (194 words)

I just can't trust my husband... help! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 12 years now and been with my husband for 15 years. In the second year of our marriage he cheated and conceived a child with another woman. He is not physically seeing his child but talks to him every now and then. he lives in another state. I try to deal ... (232 words)

How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I just didnt like the feel of ... (67 words)

Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what happened before. I remember ... (120 words)

I feel so empty and hopeless after our breakup. How can I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this is marcus, I'm gay and I'm having such a hard time trying to move on, my boyfriend decided to end our relationship 5 months ago, and I still love him and miss him so much, he was really rude on our last talk, it was really heartbreaking. So last nite i went to a bar ... (164 words)

I ended it because I felt it was all happening too soon after my breakup, thing is... I miss him sooooo much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently seperated from my husband and I met someone else quite soon who swept me off my feet, I have now ended that relationship because i felt it was too much too soon and I couldn't cope with it all at the moment. This man was so nice to me, I have never been treat... (145 words)

More than friends: Tells me he loves me, now we don't even talk any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been close friends with this guy for about 3/4 years now, and twice in the years i've known him hes came out and said that he likes me more than a friend; both times it went nowhere and we continued as friends, then recently about 2 weeks ago i asked him 'what have you... (367 words)

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough but i always had an uneasy f... (288 words)

Need to get over this lonely feeling...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder had anyone of you felt this before? It is really a difficult emotional struggle for me whenever I see my friends or people of my age getting attach one after another now and it makes me realise the fact that I am still alone. I do hope to get attached soon but the guys ... (194 words)

I want a sex toy and I'm only 16..how do I go about that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why is clitorial stimulation not enough? I want to stay a virgin but when I masterbate I dont just want clitorial stimulation. I am not old enough to get a 'toy' for not just my clitoris but others(vaginal) So my question is what do I do? How do I get other stimulation... (79 words)

Will my awkward kiss, ruin my chances for another date with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on my second date with a guy and we went to a movie. He held my hand (for the first time) during the movie and throughout the night as well. At the end of the night, he kissed me. However, the kiss wasn't amazing. It happened so quickly and I was a little surprised so it ... (168 words)

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his life. He told me that he had 2 ... (352 words)

Back with my ex gf, and nothing's the same! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I got back together with my ex (were together 4 years)after a long drawn-out breakup in which we both had rebounds. We both made mistakes, and we both are willing to address them. She acts much differently now though: passive, unenthusiatic, "doesn't want anything serious," ... (86 words)

My husband has gone impotent...what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) age - Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't believe this as a fact. Like ... (75 words)

Urination pain discomfort during pregnancy..any advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for everyone here about pregnancy. Has anyone here ever had pain in their abdomen while peeing or anything during early pregnancy? Like ithin the first trimester? Its like pressure/a littl pain around the pelvin area when I pee. Any and all advice would be ... (55 words)

It's so painful that I love him and he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for just about a year, and we haven't approached the "love subject" well he hasn't. I love him and haven't said it, im 2 upset to because i no he won't say it back. This really hurts because obviously im in a relationship were the strong feeli... (204 words)

This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up' but I now feel like it's not what... (78 words)

I just want to make her feel good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Latly my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Latly we have been dong this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really gets going when we do this, her ... (138 words)

BF doesn't want me hanging out with her brother, but we do and I lie about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been treading in dangerous waters with my best friend lately (her name is Jane). Several weeks ago her brother came into town and I had been looking forward to meeting him for a while and I finally did. We immediately had a connection and surely enough we... (413 words)

Is is wrong to want to remarry again so soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married to man that i dont love before,i want to be honest i marry him because i want to have a good life,but in 4 years beeing married i am not that happy.i tried to love him, i do my best to be a good wife even my feelings for him is not real love..when we migrate in ... (264 words)

Why do guys always only want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being together though because he's quite ... (396 words)

My wife versus my mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age - My wife and mother tolerate each other but recently when I suggested that it might be nice for my mother if I made an overnight visit, my wife went off into a weekend sulk saying it was a snub. My mother is in her 80's and I have asked my wife how she would feel if our son ... (88 words)

Am I gradually turning gay? Or it is because my dad isn't here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So, theres this teacher(guy) at my school who is very nice, tall and fairly ripped and good looking, alwase goes easy when a student misbehaves and so on. My dad was a sperm donor, so i never met him. I am 13, i dont know how old he is but looks mid 30s, and i think i like him. ... (148 words)

I want to stay and live in Spain but don't know how to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Forgive me for asking a question that isn´t about a romantic relationship, but I really need advice about something! Being an aunt here on this site, I feel guilty asking for advice when I should be giving it, but I don´t know how to deal with this. I´m from Florida ori... (864 words)

Before its too late how do I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm gonna try to keep it short... i really like this girl and we get on amazingly, she broke up with her boyfriend recently and since then we've spoken loads more. She calls me a friend and i think she's too beautiful to fall for me, should i tell her how i feel before it's too ... (63 words)

I'm attracted to my best friend's sister but don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I grew an attraction to my best friends sister. It was fairly standard, She didn't seem to like me back, so I'd get over it then move on. However, this was not the case, and at his party at the weekend we kept finding ways to sneak off for a kiss and a hug. I really don't kn... (118 words)

He's done it all and I want sex but I'm afraid he's too big!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this guy that I really like is a year and a half older than me. I am a virgin, but he has done everything. I would love to do everything with him and I am ready to give it all up for him. The only problem is I've seen his dick on webcam and it's huge! This might sound ... (140 words)

I want to talk to him but can't seem to find the words

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally abusive and insecure at ... (419 words)

Love my ex but there's another guy in the picture now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i was dateing this guy for 7 months. He was my first true love then he lied to me and said that he dont have his phone any more and cant talk to me so he broke up with me. But the truth is he still has his phone and that his parints made him break up with me and were talking ... (134 words)

Fell in love with friend's girl, any stories like mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I fell in love with my bestfriends girlfriend we are soul mates we really love each other the circumstances we got together were not that great because my ex best friend didnt like.I didnt want to betray him but I was really in love and she loved me too we never made an... (245 words)

Good friend I don't want to lose but no physical spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age - Question: Should I still be looking for sex in a relationship? I have been introduced to a very independent lady by a friend. This lady is solvent, lovely, kind, has a caring personality, good job and no children. She was happily married up to 10 years ago when her husba... (586 words)

15 years together and he won't make a comittment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 15 years. We have lived together for 10 years. We have a young family and life is good, apart from one major thing. He will not make any form of commitment to me. We could afford to purchase a house but he won't. We are not engaged. I would... (337 words)

He got cum all over my stomach, am I pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i pregnant!!! the other night i gave my boyfriend oral he ejaculated over my stomach about 1 minute later i ran to the toilet rubbed water and soap on me then showered the soap off is ther a possibility that i could be pregnant x... (50 words)

Even hearing he's ex's name makes me ill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4months and yesterday was the first time i met his 4year old son. It was so weird hearing him call my bf 'daddy'! I'm quite a jealous person and i can't stand his ex (the mother of his son) but they get along very well and do more things together ... (120 words)

How do I feel better about facing people who made my life hell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently got back together with my high school sweetheart after 5 years apart. Everything is going smoothly, but in that 5 years, I moved away to London and he stayed back home. I'm planning on moving back home soon as it is so we don't have to worry about the distance ... (584 words)

I am a girl crushing on my Lady teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i think im in love with my teacher but i dont now the only problem is shes a girls and older than me im confussed and need help ... (28 words)

The baby was born 11 months after I was home, is the baby mine?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question when i was home from Iraq last year 2008 the last time me and my wife had sex was april 4th 2008 when i cam back from iraq ahe told me she was preg and then on March 1st 2009 our son was born her due date was feb 26 2009 now is there any way this baby is not ... (89 words)

We kissed, we cuddled, but since then not even a whisper from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride and started kissing.. i asked him what he wants from me.. he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. i haven't heard from him since thursdays night.. am confused..should I text him anyt... (70 words)

The sex is great but I want a REAL man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't help myself! My on-again-off-again boyfriend is smart, funny, and handsome. But he also smokes and drinks a LOT and rarely has time for me because he's a "writer". Every time I want to do something he has to stay home working on his stupid novel. He won't even let ... (182 words)

I'm always the friend and never the girlfriend. How can I change this around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont get it, I'm always the friend to a boy, never the girlfriend and I hate it, its always "you're a great friend" or "I love you as a friend" never "I just love you" any tips on getting them to change their minds x thanks for the time ... (50 words)

He stole my girl but says he will find me a new one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey my story began 1 year ago i used to had 2 best friendz and we used to share everything even our emails so the contacts are the same. one day one of them gave me a girl email because he said he had fighted with her and he dont wanna to talk with her anymore i said ok . i ... (691 words)

My sick boyfriend is ignoring me, so I am ignoring him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me. For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all. I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell me that he wanted his space... (127 words)

Twenty years later my abusive ex is still following me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - After you have left an abusive relationship that lasted 20 years, and you left nearly 2 years ago, why would the abusive person stil seem to try and follow you around even when they have got a new girlfriend?... (39 words)

I told her I wasnt ready, and that she felt lust not love, will she talk to me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Welcome, This is my life, Im Dave 16 and 6 months old, Tash is 16 and 11 months old Im gonna write the situation, and Id be very thankful if you could give me the next steps I could follow. There is this girl called Tash, her and I are in love, at the moment we ar... (343 words)

Houston, I think I have a "space" problem

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age - what does it mean when my wife says 'i need my own space'?... (13 words)

When we are sober he says he doesn't want a girlfriend, but its a different story when we have been drinking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my best friend. i have been for a year and a bit. it's that simple. i'm just, flat out in love with him. he said he had interest in me when we first met almost 2 years ago. a few months later, i was really dead set on being with him. He went away on a trip for... (377 words)

I say Hi but he acts shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can someone help i like this boy but hes kepts ignoring me for no reason iv asked him if iv done anything wrong and he says i havent at first if he saw me he would have waved or smiled or said hi but now he says nothing and if i see him he looks down and i dont know why does ... (69 words)

He is my friend but wants to be more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey dudes i need ur help!! i have this guy whos a really good friend but he keeps telling me that he has feelings for me, when he is really drunk he starts telling everyone that we wud make a really nice couple and people totally disagree and then he starts hugging me and i... (282 words)

I have a LDR but am drawn towards somebody else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm in a relationship at the minute, have been with him for a month now..although at the minute he's in a different country and he isn't moving over here until next year, so it's a long distance relationship. The way i feel at the minute, because we can't see each o... (236 words)

My ex is blocking me on MSN and facebook and I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this might take long so please bare with me my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text eachother and talked on msn. but last month i ... (447 words)

I am always the guy's friend, but never his girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, well im 18 years old and just feeling down in the dumps lately :( i can't seem to get a boyfriend or even a guy that likes me i dont know what to do now, i just feel really depressed all the time about it. im not a shy girl at all, and i personally don... (318 words)

Hubby went home to mother, but sometimes still sleeps with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi My husband recently moved out and back to his mum's, things hadn't been that great for a while but i never expected this. He recently starting going out with a new bunch of friends ones whom i never ever met and this used to really annoy me. We have been together 15 years... (106 words)

Big weekend planned, but what about my cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm going for a weekend trip with my boyfriend this Saturday but I'll be on period then. I'm on the pill and usually I start my seven day break on the Monday and have my period until the following Monday when I start taking the pill again. If I start my break this Monday a... (91 words)

I have set myself a pattern that I find I cant break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive had 2 relations both onli lasting 18 months!!! they get serious an they say i love u an they give me everything i want an i run 10 miles in the other direction!then wen i see them with a new girlfriend all happy i want them back?but i no ill be board in a month agen!its... (127 words)

Lesbian feeling for jon on the show my name is earl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a straight girl but i have a crazy crush on the charector joy from my name is earl tv show! like i printed out pitures of her and have had sexy dreams bout her shes the only girl iv ever crushed on but im like goo goo eyed for her like if i saw her i would jump on her ... (96 words)

I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i totally want to do my cousin! isnt... (302 words)

My older workmate is flirting with me, and other colleagues are asking questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have become friends with a man who is 10 years older than me. We work together and have gone out together several times as friends (meals, games, etc). For the last six months we have been play-flirting. I like him but didn't take anything seriously as he was in a troubled ... (306 words)

After four years I am still in love with my ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Going back 4-5 years ago i had split with my ex and we both went on our own ways. both she and i have had a few different partners and am willing to look past that obviously, its a long time. the hard part here is that ever since we split as i got new gf's i had always wishe... (265 words)

I have nowhere else to go, so I am stuck, how can I get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having trouble, switching to dad's house to mom's house. I didn't know how to get on my own. I was living at mom's place and things went bad.. I was deciding on if I should live with dad again or stay with mom. I met a guy and we connected. Instantly he saw the things ... (643 words)

His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

29 November 2009 (F)

age - I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. Now 14 years later now i am... (434 words)

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great boyfriend but i feel i put too ... (144 words)

How sensitive IS a woman's vagina?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Lately we have been doing this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really gets going when we do this, ... (138 words)

My university exams start soon and I have left it too late to study

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am doing mba from a well known university....i got the paid seat for 2 million dollars(due to tough competition) as my grades have always been horrible ..... I messed up in my high school and have never been even satisfactory in my academics(horribly poor,not even average)... (226 words)

I want my best friends wife, I already had her friend

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help.... I find my friend's wife attractive and I am afraid that I desire her.... We were watching a game few years ago and when our team scored,everybod was jumping, congrulating each other and me and her hugged each other...It was strong hug....After that,while w... (593 words)

My jailbird husband holds a get out of jail card, but I have moved on

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29 November 2009 (F)

age - I have a very complicated situation. Most people would say it is very clear cut but to me it isn't. I married the man of my dreams, who I was very much in love with. Eight months after we married, he strangled me and beat me up. He called the police on himself and he has been ... (219 words)

I am pregnant and underweight, and need some dietary help

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, and thanks for anyone that replies back to me :) I just had two quick questions. Well three months ago I found out I was pregnant so I started going to the Health Department here where I live for one of there programs. The last I went there was a couple weeks ago and they ... (215 words)

How long should I wait, I have given him a week already

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the best way if we can work out ... (163 words)

He wont tell me he loves me, but I know he does

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my question is i am friends with this man who has been a friend for 30 plus years. we tried to date two times in the pass, but i always went the other way. now he and i has become really close this time and i am really into him. we have a sexual relationship now, but didnt in ... (243 words)

I want to get him the perfect gift...

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is 15 and I'm 16, we have been together for a month and it will be two on December 13, 2009. I want to get him something for Christmas but, i dont know what to get him. He is the sweetest guy i know, i told him what i want for Christmas and he said he was goin... (135 words)

How can I keep our love alive...?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - When you're in a long relationship and you think your lover is falling out of love with you, what should you do to make him stay in love with you?... (30 words)

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 months later were still ... (426 words)

She called me her problem, I want to be her boyfriend

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29 November 2009 (M) age 30-35 - i have this girlfriend(not yet official) who's very cranky. it was 6 AM in the morning and i woke up and i got a msg from her saying that she can't sleep. so i called and asked her why. i was kinda out of my mind cuz i'm still sleepy and at one point, i was half-concentrati... (138 words)

I feel my love is fading while my boyfriend is away

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years, going to be moving in together in about 6months, which I'm excited about, but sometimes I get nervous about my relationship because my bf seems so certain that I am his future, he sees it going on forever, as long as I ... (306 words)

How can I keep my jaw from hurting so fast when I give him oral sex?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm seventeen and have a nineteen year old boyfriend, we have sex a lot and use protection. I feel that our love life is missing something. He does oral sex real good and I think that I suck! I don't know how to make oral sex fun for him. How can I keep my jaw from ... (64 words)

I want to be friends with my married lovers step son

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29 November 2009 (F)

age - i`m a widow of almost 10 months i have been seeing a married man for about 4 months we have kept a low profile as far as his family is concerned, (no small children)now he is telling me he loves me and i believe him, he also states his wife is disabled due to car accidents, any ... (112 words)

I have had two broken dates, and now I think a brush off

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, ok so about a month ago I had a relationship breakup. I am fine with it because the guy was treating me like crap. Well there was a guy (I'll call him J) that him and I were both friends with throughout the time we were together. My ex and this guy didn't always get ... (488 words)

he doesn't trust me, if he cheats on me, how do I move on?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If he cheated on me, how do I move on? Ok, this is my first relationship ever, and we have been together for 3 years, 3 months, exactly. And well, he has issues with my past because he knows a couple of guys I made out with (I was a virgin until I had sex with him). He al... (504 words)

I am ready to move on to the next stage with my girl

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and 3 months now, but we havent gone any further than making out without shirts. We talk openly about topics like sex and such but not about US doing that, and im sure she wouldnt do that at this point and i respect ... (148 words)

I hurt when I pee...how can I prevent this?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seventeen and have sex with my boyfriend who's 19 I hurt alot when I pee and I always have utis what can I do to prevent this ??. ... (29 words)

What can I do to make our 1 year of dating annivesary special?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i really need some help. My 1 year anniversary is coming up in about 2 months, and i need ideas on something special to do for my girlfriend. My friend had this pretty cool idea, it was with those airplanes and they wrote in the sky______+_______ = ?, but i wouldnt do ... (107 words)

I don't want to be gay or bi, but what if I am?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts. I need some help. Im a straight male teen, and i just turned 15 recently. And i know i like gurls but i've always had this bi-curiousity since i was younger.idk..im just confused. Cuz i've never really had a girlfriend...so i wouldnt know. so i dont know what i am ... (154 words)

My younger lover blows hot and cold

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i recently started dating a guy that is 14 years younger than me. he claims to have always dated older women which after careful thinking i was very interested in him. but now after great everything he wants to keep me around but not be in a realationship. at least one minu... (117 words)

My boyfriend wont sleep with me, but keeps me dangling.

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am good at giving advice to others but when it comes to myself; I am useless. Anyway my problem isn't a complicated one but does need insightful advice. I've been with my partner for four months but have known him as a friend for two years and were very attracted to eac... (361 words)

My boyfriend has kept his online dating profile, is he cheating?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and its going really great though he used to have an internet dating profile which he told me about but he still uses it. He says he doesnt go to pick up girls but just to check out the 'scene' to see new members and things ... (84 words)

He keeps me apart from his family life, and wont say "I love you"

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year--but he has not yet said I love you nor has he ever invited me to any function or event involving his family (I have met his sisters through his mom because I work with her but have never been invited to bbq's, birthdays, ... (154 words)

Who "popped the cherry"

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone...I have sort of a dumb question to ask but here it goes. Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex, I'm not a virgin and neither is he. I'll explain more. My first time was over the summer, after a few times..more then a few; it always hurt and I didnt ... (164 words)

Why do I think the grass might be greener on the other side of the fence?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a loving girlfriend of many years. She goes out of her way to treat me great and always does nice things for me. But lately, I am extremely enticed by some of the other women I randomly interact with. What is wrong with me?... (48 words)

I kept it all in the familiy and slept with his brother

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with my current Boyfriends brother about 3 years ago, at the time I had broke up with my boyfriend because a)he moved in with his pregnant gf b)he hit me with my daughter(his 1st kid)in my arms, c)cheated on me with 3 different girls. There's more but I digress. Me and ... (127 words)

I want marriage but he wont be threatened into it

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I realised i have been pressurizing my bf for marriage from the second month of our relationship partly because i thought that would work. i also tried being a doormat (cooking, cleaning, washing and trying to be a wife)in order to make him realise i would make a good wife. i ... (227 words)

I am falling for him, but can't let him know!

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29 November 2009 (F) - hello friends! ...So, I am a singer/songwriter who has recently linked up with a very talented guitar player with whom I am working on a new project with. Thing is, I am 26 years old and am finding myself geting giddy inside and nervous when we have had the last 2 sess... (181 words)

She says one thing, he says another, who do I believe?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 29 years old woman, divorced with 2 kids. I met this guy almost 3 years ago and after 2 years he confessed me that he was still seeing his exgirlfriend behind my back. He accepted he was wrong and promised to change everything. He told me they never had a se... (405 words)

He wants space but wants me to wait. What should I do?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am writing again to ask advice from anyone who can help me. a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my partner, of 12months. He was having a lot of problems with minor depression and drinking, and was honest enough to say I can do this. I understand that with me bein... (248 words)

He is my friend, I like her but she likes him.

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, there's a girl at my school and I love her to pieces. Anyway, I asked her out and she said she needed time. However to my shock, my best friend told me she liked him so now he's in a dilema. Really I am asking the question for him because he's having a hard time, whether ... (95 words)

I left my run for him too late

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a shy girl but, theres this boy and we used to talk for hours on the phone and i felt really comfortable talking to him and then he started saying he really liked me but i didnt want to go out with him because i was scared what people would say. the other day he passed his ... (140 words)

I want to use Tiger Balm as a Sex Aid

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I heard from different people that putting tiger balm on your clit makes the pleasure intensify. Is this true or just something someone came up with? Also would it cause any problems if I tried it?... (36 words)

To snog or not to snog, that is the question

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 13 and im going out with a boy he is 15 and he wants to snog me i have done it before but i dont want to again i get nerves every time im around him and i cant seem to snog him what shall i do thankYou ... (50 words)

I was bitten by a dog, and am now worried about scarring!

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is completely non-relationship related, but I needed some advice. I got bit on the tip of my nose by a dog a week ago. It bled, I put ice on it straight away and my boyfriend called an ambulance, I ended up going on antibiotics straight away and having to stay in hospital ... (170 words)

Am I just a booty call?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here goes I am recently divorced after 14 years of marriage. The last 2 years of my marriage were really hard and I clocked marriage then. I have a crush on my next door neighbor and it has been going on for about 1 year. Recently he has been texting me, calling me, and ... (209 words)

I was not the teacher's pet, I was the teacher's flirt

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A year or so ago, i had some problems with a teacher (lets call him Mr H). Essentially he behaved very innappropriately with me, touching and other worse things. This teacher was married and in his mid forties. There is one thing about it that confuses me; which is how the... (542 words)

Why do girls lead guys on?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive liked this girl for a few months now but only recently have i worked up the courage to ask her for her number, which she gave to me. We ended up txting each other all night and connected really well and our night ended with her coming over and spending the night (nothi... (267 words)

So why did he do this? Why was he involved in these sex sites, and connecting to women?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship for three and a half years now. My man was a very moody person, but I, being passive, could usually take it. Like every other couple, we had our ups and downs. A year ago as I went to use his computer, I saw that he had been on dating sites, c... (1061 words)

My boyfriend is so jealous of my best friend!

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help... i really don't know what to do... I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a half now, and so far, we've never had any major problem. But there's one problem i can't solve. I have a best friend (a guy, by the way)and my bf is sooo jealous of him!! When... (268 words)

Will his record sabotage everything I worked for?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 22 years old with my BS in Criminal Justice. When I was 18 i worked for a Police Department and now currently work for another department. My parents have always been pretty strict with me, which has alot to do with my success. The city I grew up in is ... (402 words)

Is it only false hope, or is there really someone out there for everyone?

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok alot of people say hold out there is somebody out there for everybody.. which is cliche to me. cuz wen i read alot of the post on this website even people of older age have complicated relationships and in real life alot of people go thru lives lonely. and on this site even ... (126 words)

Six dates and no hug, no holding hands nor kissing so far!

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, there is this girl (22) I (25) date, we have seen each other about 8 times, 6 times one on one - which resembles a date for me. Yesterday I cooked for her. She looked me up on facebook, is active in the communication part, asks me when I want to do that or that date. We ... (312 words)

Hair pulled out of head...I never needed advice more in my life as I do now. Whats your thought on this?

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29 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Background first of all, I'm in a relationship that is requiring a lot of work to keep going. I love Sarah to bits but its really hard to make us work. We are together for more than 2 years. We took breaks(not seeing other people) a few times but not longer than 3-4 ... (474 words)

I'm in love with someone who hates me to death!

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29 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a young woman, and I'm extremely in love with someone who hates me to death. I want him dearly, and want him to be happy, but all seems impossible. How can I move on or fix this?... (39 words)