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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really love my boyfriend and he loves me to bits, been together for 6 months but i have known him for years, but it wasnt until one night i realised i had feelings for him and we hit it off ever since. a year ago i was hurt really bad by a boy i loved so much, i was seeing this boy on/off for 2 years, all he done was cheat and hurt me...it took me a year to get over him, it made me ill that i didnt leave the house. in the end i picked myself up and moved on and now im with this amazing boy who treats me perfectly...i am over my ex i know i am, but for some reason i talk about my exes to my new boyfriend to make him jelouse, i talk about alot of my exes to him, i know he dont like it i can tell the way he looks at me when i talk about them he looks hurt. i dont understand why i do this to him, it only happens when im drunk, when im sober i dont mention any of my exes. i love this boy more than anything in this world but i just dont know why i do this to him, iv never loved anyone the way i love him. how do you think he feels when i talk about my exes? im scared now incase he thinks hes second best to all my exes... what can i do to make it up to him and never talk about my exes again? i wouldnt like it if he talked about girls hes been with i would go mad at him, please give me some advice on how to stop and how to make it up to him and show him i love him so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): You are punishing yourself, simple as that.
Alot of people do it. You need to realise that and start learning to love that girl in the mirror again. Remember you are someone special and that you do deserve happyness ok.
As for making it upto him, dont mention the ex,s anymore.
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