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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help! Is this the end of my marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help.. I have been married for 12 years and have 4 kids. we went through hell to be together the whole world was against us and now everything is falling apart. He manipulated me thinking every argument was my fault and my whole world came crashing down after i found out he ... (232 words)

Am I just trying to fill a void because my boyfriend and I broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him a lot tho, yet every time ... (317 words)

My husband doesn't appreciate me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my hubby for 3 years, we have a son who is 15 months old, and it seems as though since i have had my son our relationship has broken down, we dont talk anymore, we are having fininacial difficulties that are stressing him out, but i really feel that he ... (167 words)

Is he lying or is does he just want to get my attention again by hurting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I discovered that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I became a bitch and decided to talk to guys he prohibited me to talk to. It made him even angrier when I told him I don't care anymore if he leaves me for the other girl, I said I was fine with it and I am letting him go. ... (451 words)

Which guy should I focus on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have a few guys on the go at the moment and would really like to focus on one, as a boyfriend likee. But theres little things about them that make me not know which to choose. So, the first one is a boy in 6th form, i'm in year 11 (he's 2 years older) which i don't mind ... (369 words)

I can't decide which one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy that has been in love with me since high school he has seen me in and out of relationships and has always been there for me even now that we graduated we remained grreat friends i can call to go anywhere with me and i love that about him and our personalities click ... (178 words)

We broke up after five years -- is there any hope of getting back together?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with be because she saw a note on msn under the contact list telling a woman that I used to chat with her 5 years go and wanted to talk to her. I used to chat with her befor I met my gf. She thought I was planning to cheat or cheated on her. ... (412 words)

My LDR didn't work out, but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 years old and during the past 10 years I've never been single... until now. In August I broke up with my boyfriend, with whom I had gone out for 2 years. I made the decision because I fell for someone else. The thing is, this guy lives very far away and, naturally, ... (275 words)

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we are still EXTREMELY close. T... (484 words)

I don't want to turn my back on a girl whose trying so hard to fight her addiction, but my wife doesn't trust me with her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 18 months ago my wife who is a social worker asked me to hire a girl that she was working with at my office. She 21 yrs old and was a recovering a drug addict that was trying to get her life in order. My wife convinced me that this girl was perfect for my company so I hired ... (519 words)

What should I get my boyfriend for Hannukah?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been "going out" for almost 10 months. I know that he's getting me something for Christmas and that I'll really like it. We're both 13. What should I get him for Hannukah? He's Jewish and I'm Christian. I want to get him something he'll really ... (67 words)

How do I find a safe sex buddy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Bit of a strange question. I am a divorced woman and have been single for about 12 months. I have a healthy sex drive and masturbate regularly. I have not had sex with a man since splitting up from my husband and is really missing it. Masturbation is not the same as being ... (148 words)

Does it ever happen that the wrong guy is made to pay child support?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine recently found out that he has to go to court for a child support hearing.It was issued through another state,one that he has never been to.And he says there is absolutely no possible way that it is his child,because he was still a virgin 3 months before the ... (92 words)

I'm really excited about this new guy, but suddenly he seems distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I broke up with my ex back in March and we havent been on speaking terms at all for the last couple months (we decided that we cant be friends right now because it would always be more, and he had a new gf) he broke my heart but i am over it now... I am a confide... (558 words)

How do I convince my older co-worker that the age difference isn't a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I prefer the companionship of older women. I firmly believe an older woman and a younger man can have a true lasting relationship. I'm 22 i fell in love with a 46 year old coworker. The woman is an angel. I have strong feelings for her and she for me. she is worried about ... (67 words)

Why is this guy acting so weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, why is this guy acting so weird? Whenever I'm around this particular boy, he kind of avoids me. I never did anything to him! I'm the type of girl who says Hi to everyone.. and if I see you, I will say hi. The first time I spoke to him was the first day of school and ev... (218 words)

How do I make it work given this huge age difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) age - I have just met a young man who is 23 years my junior in age, but very much equal in compassion, commitment, intelligence, support, sensuality and character. I admit, I am very leery, but it is as if it is beyond either of our control. We look forward to conversing and just ... (72 words)

Can geeting completely crushed change you so completly.?..I just don't know how to go on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up. Cliche, I know. You hear it on this site about 100 times a day, I know that also. And I'm sure you have also heard "it's different". Well it is. I was living with my boyfriend and he left last night. At the time it didn't hit me right away. He ... (972 words)

How did I get here? Why would I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've made such a horrible mess out of my life. 6 months ago I had a job that I loved, a beautiful home, a fiance and a dog. Now, I reside in my mothers house, broke, single and dogless. Most people would have picked themselves up by now but I've been in a state of panic... (635 words)

How is the best way to handle her text messages?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a text or two, called and sent an ... (213 words)

Why is manual stimulation just not good enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - A vibrating toothbrush's bristles work better to stimulate me rather than a hand, and I cant figure out why! Does anyone know why this may be? I do use a different toothbrush to brush my teeth...... (38 words)

Should I tell my gf what I'm thinking about the other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had an "emotional" affair which didn't involve any sex but did involve me falling head-over-heals for the other woman. I'm well aware I'm a bastard for doing what I did, but I still need help. The other woman and I discussed things and decided stopping things was the best ... (336 words)

How do I know she's telling me the truth and that nothing else happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met here but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in love i came to know about her past relations throu... (210 words)

I'm scared to give him a hand job in case I do it wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and i've only ever kissed and made out with guys. I'm now going out with this guy who's 18 and more experienced and i want to give him a hand job, but i dont know how to do it and i'm scared he might judge me if i do it wrong. Should i tell him i havent done it before or ... (75 words)

My girlfriend, my "friend" and I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i love my girlfriend we've been goin out for 6 months n its been great...the problem is i lost a friend because of it well this is the story when i met her she had a boyfriend we talked and talked for hours we became really close friends my friend had a huge crush towards ... (236 words)

I need your help aunts... Should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here goes, I'm 13 an I've liked one of my best friends for a year, but for a while he was being a bit off wiv me for a while but then today he was being really nice to me an sitting next to me in class and we were having a laugh, and it was such a good day but its made me ... (84 words)

Help! I don't know if I want to be in this relationship any more... I'm so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

- I've been with my bf for 6 months and we've been having some issues recently. Our relationship has been really intense from the start and in all honesty I believe this is the most serious relationship he's ever had. His last long term gf was 3 year but they only saw each other ... (489 words)

Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I can't do anything about it. ... (135 words)

Should I let this friend back into our lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Do I let a friend back into our lives after I found out some stuff? I had a very good friend (male) who was my best friend for some time. When he was going through a divorce, he stayed with us about 1 or 2 nights every weekend. He stayed with his parents during the work ... (418 words)

Husband filed for divorce, but I don't think either of us wants one. What are some ideas for putting my marriage back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay. My husband has told me he has filed for divorce. We have been separated for 8 months now. The first 4 months he did have interest in us going to marital counseling and working on our marriage. We had been married for 11 months when we separated and before we married ... (921 words)

Does a man NEED sex to be healthy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age - Want to know if a man can do without sex and be healthy?... (13 words)

People are gossiping about me. How can I cope?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! If they got something to say, why the hell don't ... (55 words)

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything even remotely close to it i am a ... (144 words)

We are going to portugal so I can meet his family, but I am nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend we are madly in love everything is going smoothly. he is now planning to go to his country(portugal) so i can meet his family. i am so scared and i dnt know wat to do. im suppose to tell my family that i am going to a trip with school and the truth, going to ... (78 words)

Do I have too much libido?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I wanted to see if i was over sexed so i kept a journal. In 1 yr i had sex with my wife 187 times and masterbated 263 times. And the sad thing is i want more and i dont think i do it enough. There is times even after i please my wife i am still horny that i masterbate.... (62 words)

My girlfriend's texts to her ex-boyfriend confuse me. Is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 10 months and I have go through some serious issues - her manipulative ex disrupting things to begin with, big age gap, medical problem meaning no sex for months, meeting my kids. We've joked about how the things we've go through has made us so strong now ... (450 words)

How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I didn't know what to do as i'm ... (211 words)

My best friend is dating a boy I have a crush on. I am SO confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not in any of the same classes n... (212 words)

Did my ex-boyfriend lead me on or did he change his mind after we saw each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does it seem like ex-boyfriends like to give you the idea that they want to get back together, that they miss you, and when you finally meet up and have a great time, they completely disappear? is it something he is doing on purpose? to lead me on? or he just didnt know ... (70 words)

Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal??... (50 words)

How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we started dating he has been ... (117 words)

How can we be honest with my brother AND gain his support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently have developed feelings for my older brothers best friend. I am 28 and he is 38. We've known each other for 5 years and he has admitted he has feelings for me also. For about a month now we have been having a secret relationship behind my brothers back. How do we ... (85 words)

My friend kissed my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello i have a big problem, i've been going out with this girl for a month, and i love her though its embarrassing to admit. See everything was going well until we started having arguements. one time we didnt speak for three days but eventually sorted everything out thankful... (94 words)

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone constantly. As well as that he ... (421 words)

My wife cheated and I suggested she give herself space to think. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has been having major stress at work and endinced working closely with a guy on a particular project for several weeks and during this time ive been working away for most of it, She has now told me she theyve slept together and thinks she wants to be with him, She is 40 ... (177 words)

Does my friend have a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I tease each other a lot. We usually tease each about each others' habits, likes dislikes, (he comments a lot about my random habits, and I usually tease him about how much he hates me/stuff I do)... we're mean to each other, but in a friendly way. He's even has ... (82 words)

Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. I knew that because I have sta... (153 words)

Crisis with boys and my best friend! Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend Holly!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not in any of the same class... (156 words)

What unusual name to do you have for your privates... and how did you get it?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Mine is petercheese. My girlfriend years ago gave me it. The first time she gave me head she said it squrted out like a can of ez cheese. So she called it peter cheese. ... (34 words)

Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for 6 months before this. The ... (1092 words)

Sexting boyfriend's best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend Ray for 5 1/2 years, we live together but during this time I have fancied one of his best friends (Deryk). I thought I got over him until he started to tell me one drunken night (we were both drunk) that he was masturbating over me and that he w... (538 words)

Is my girlfriend controlling?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

- Hi All Please help My girlfriend of one year has these traits. She is too bossy * Says I do everything wrong around the house * Housework and cooking have to be done her way * If i clean kitchen but leave milk or sauce out she complains * Hates it when I express diffe... (205 words)

Should I indulge her rape fantasies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times lately, and things look to be going downhill fast, no matter what I do. She's 8 months pregnant and I know her hormones are raging, so I've put my selfish needs aside in an attemp to ease her, both emotiona... (261 words)

Why am I not enough for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. when me and my girlfriend get horny and talk about having sex, the last few times she always mentions using her toy and watching porn. should i be worried that she doesnt find me attractive anymore or any good in bed that she needs this extra visual and physical stimulat... (103 words)

I have betrayed my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boy friend has been dating for almost 2 years now. we love each other and we are crazy about eachother. recently i have moved to another country to study. in here im so free, i live alone. my parents live in another country and i have just got my freedom. i hang ... (226 words)

After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he lives. Yesterday, we broke up, ... (217 words)

Does he sincerely like me? Or is to shy to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I don’t see my friend he acts differently because I think he misses me. When I and he pass each other walking in the halls, he won’t look at me or wave if I wave back. He always makes fun of his cousin and it makes me laugh even though she’s my best friend. I was dismissed ... (320 words)

Is it normal 2 years down the line to still get aggravated by my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend cheated on me 2 years ago. We had only been going out for a few months and on one drunken night my boyfriend made out with some girl. The next day he told me immediately and said he was sorry and I chose to forgive him. I'm glad I did because I trust him neve... (183 words)

Should I go back or move forward in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back and say something to him. I ... (265 words)

My views on animal rights are conflicting with my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! Ive been with my boyfriend for about two years now and we are both so happy together. Im buddhist so i have strong views about a lot of things. One of them is animal rights. I know this is a really extreme veiw but i think animals are equal to humans and im ... (181 words)

How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of the "work" in the relation... (149 words)

My boyfriend has gone from being very sexual to not wanting sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He was a bachelor his whole adult life and frequently traveled for international sex, hetro and transexual. He was very sexual in the begining of our relationship but now rarely wants to have sex together and seldom ... (128 words)

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and mature enough to understand the p... (1248 words)

Why do guys say I'm not attractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi SO what to do! I have been told in my ols school i am really pretty and was popular and had many bf but know if we play spin the bottle no guy wants to kiss me. Ok not true they do but WHY do guys say I am not attractive? When I used to get told the opposite.... (65 words)

How can I learn to communicate better with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, I recently started going out (i think...!) with one of my very good friends, and I guess that means things are changing (obviously and hopefully). I (surprisingly, as I'm a girl) have lots of trouble talking, like properly TALKING about feelings, and other bits gen... (185 words)

I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told me he slept with her twice. ... (685 words)

I had just started to get over her and now she texts me saying she wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so my ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I was in love with her and she told me the same. we met in person after a few months and we had a real good time. soon after we got back home to our own places. she broke it off and didn't give me a reason why. I was ... (282 words)

I'm sick of our arguments, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my husband had a verbal argument yesterday. This morning, he got up early and went to office. I had called him almost 15-20 times from morning, he hasnt picked up the call. Seriously i need to clear my head. He can sulk in this way for even a week. Should I respond the ... (87 words)

I no longer feel the same way for him, how could I leave without destroying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. he is 7 year older, our relationship started fast within a month he moved in and after 6 months bought a house. We have been through a lot, his divorce, custody battle (his previous marriage) and him being unemployed for 15 ... (263 words)

My girlfriend's ex is overstepping the line!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age - I met my girlfriend a little over seven years ago. She was still married and living with her husband. We did fall in love, however, I told her I did not want to be in a relationship with a married woman. She told her husband about us and then she moved in with me. For aw... (387 words)

I have waited for her for 2 years, but she tells me to move on!

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She has a possessive bf of more than 3 years. She really want to break up with him but he dosent want. She told him, "how can I be in love with you if you force me to be with you?". She knows I love her and she also knows I have waited for her for almost 2 years. She has feel... (192 words)

Should I check in on my sick ex?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out my ex that treated me bad and we broke up, he broke up with me though he had called, apologising, preaching love and wants me back is sick. He has kidney stones. Is it okay for me to call him a lot to know how he's doing or what?... (56 words)

My cousin is in love with me!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have this really big problem.. i came back to my country this july, and we lived in my cousins house fer a month, my cousin was 18, now 19, and im 15. age isnt rlly a problem. so after a couple of days from wehn we started living ther, he started to kind of flirt an... (336 words)

My friend has changed since being abroad. Should I just give her time?

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11 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My friend just got home from living in another country for 2 years and it seems like she doesn't really want to see me. I admit, things haven't been easy since our circle of friends are being petty with one another and my friend is caught in the middle. But she mainly rolls he... (133 words)

What do men find most attractive about women?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are men really attracted to? now as a young woman i am curious do men like skinny women or do they like a woman with some meat? what is the most attractive aspect of a womans body? do men like curvy or a stick? ... (51 words)

He broke things off and never told me why!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with this boy for almost a year.He had proposed and wed planned for our future, he couldn't have children, so we decided when the time was right we'd adopt. Well just 3 weeks later, everything changed. He was driving me home and we hadn't spoken at ... (357 words)

Why is there always discomfort?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it, that every time my partner uses his hand or mouth to stimulate my clitoris, it feels good for a few moments but then starts to not necessarily hurt, but sort of cause discomfort? It's enough to make me twitch, so to say. Sometimes if I try waiting it out, it stops, ... (102 words)

He has naked pictures of his friends on his laptop

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So he has naked pictures of friends of his who like him and send it to him. He and I broke up but we trying to get back together. I really love him. It really bothers me that he keeps this pictures. I know I have no right to tell him to get rid of them. But if he really wants ... (96 words)

The ex and me--he was bad but sometimes I forget and miss him!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help getting over my ex! He and I dated for a year and a half, but he ended up being a huge jerk to me and a pathological liar, so I ended it about six months ago. We were on and off for about a month after until I finally cut off all contact with him. The problem is... (150 words)

Am I over analyzing our past relationship?

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11 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back together...were apart for a year and have been talking for two months. I was randomly mentioning on the phone that there are two girls at work that still dont say hi to me for whatever reason..sometimes people just dont like others for no reason...... (170 words)

I hate that he has this power over me!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This was a friend of mine for a while, he knew I liked him and ran hot and cold. Playing me. I was quite drunk when I saw him last week, and he made a move on me. I was so happy. But then after making out until it was late I just wanted to go to sleep. He was pressuring me to ... (201 words)

My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just be missing it. Today was... (297 words)

How do I get past these horrible feelings I have?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm disgusted with myself. 5 yrs ago, I got pregnant, it wasn't planned, I was shocked, I was on birth control and there it was. My bf at the time was very supportive, however after a length discussion we decided not to have our child. A year later he cheated and fathered... (374 words)

My husband won't touch me sexually!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age - I have a very much needed please help save my marriage question. Well here goes,I have a very nice husband, except when it comes to being with me sexualy in anyway shape or form. and WITH HIM THERE'S no talking about it either. he started this about 4 years ago, slacking... (715 words)

Did she shoot me down or should I ask again?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, There is this girl I have been talking to in and out of class for the past few weeks (I'd say about a month and a half), and tonight I decided that I would finally call her and ask her out (I had already gotten her number about 2 weeks ago). Upon calling her, we... (203 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about the 'almost kiss'?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right basically, my boyfriend and i have been together nearly 7 months. Just under 1 month after we started going out, he kissed another girl on a drunken night out. Now, he told me about it the day after and i said i forgave him...however, reccently i got really wound up and ... (258 words)

Does she like me as a friend or more?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl about 3 months back through a mutual friend. Went on a few dates and i thought things seemed to go well. Then one night we went out for drinks and i ended up spending the night at her place and we hooked up (no sex). Another two months passed and nothing real... (192 words)

Is Reiters Syndrom the cause of my sexual difficulties?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - When I masturbate, or have sex with my partner, it takes an extremely long time to cum. Is there anyway to make me cum easier. I really need also to really give it a good thrusting before I manage to cum? Also , I have noticed little hard spots on the sheet in the cum... (85 words)

Can I become pregnant without intercourse?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This might seem like a silly uneducated question, but i was wondering if someone could clarify for me whether or not you can get pregnant if you didn't have sex, however, managed to get pre-ejaculate on your inner thighs or on the outside of your underwear (can sperm travel ... (80 words)

Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing a lot and never bumps into me.... (166 words)

The new guy seems suddenly distant. Did my ex say something about me?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I broke up with my ex back in March and we havent been on speaking terms at all for the last couple months (we decided that we cant be friends right now because it would always be more, and he had a new gf) he broke my heart but i am over it now... I am a confide... (558 words)

Dating an older man who won't come to visit me!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I'm in a long distance relationship of 1 and a half years now, with a wonderful man I really adore. He's 40 and I'm 24, big gap but we get on great and he makes me laugh all the time. Basically, I have to go away to uni for approx 6 months of a year. I go back and st... (358 words)

Will our relationship last if he moves half way across the country?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the scenario.. We are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years. I switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends have, and we always ... (219 words)

Should I worry about my fiance loaning his sister money for Christmas?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance' has just told me Sunday (November 8) that his sister told him that she may need him to loan her some money to do X-mas shopping for her 3 kids. Yes, she's married but, why is she looking for my fiance' to help her out? He-- my fiance',is talking about giving h... (109 words)

I feel like we need to take the next step (i.e., phone calls and/or meet) but how do I initiate this?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was referred to a paid online dating site by a close friend and have met someone that I am very interested in...he's charming, funny, well-educated, etc. Because I am knew to the online dating scene, I have a couple of questions. I am hoping I am just over-analyzing t... (181 words)

What would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it?

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11 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - what would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it? any at all? its about 4 days before im supposed to get my period and my nipples are sore, pains in my sides and lower abdomen and insideeee my vagina and im crying all the time sometimes for no reason and an extremely ... (80 words)

It seems every time my bf and I get close, I lose all interest in him! What do I do?!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So...my bf is yet again out of town. Yet again I'm having some weird emotions about someone... This guy that I have known literally my entire life is in town with me. A girl that I met here somehow knows him. They have been talking to each other and... well... I think ... (121 words)

I really think he likes me but I'm not sure what he's waiting for?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've caught him staring at me in class I'll look at someone in the back where he is and he'll look in the direction I'm in When we were hanging out once he kept bumping into me and blamed it on me He's paid for my lunch and movie tickets a few times when we've hung out He ... (253 words)

Should I visit him and see where our love stands?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age - i need help to move on. a childhood friend who courted me since i was 15yrs to 18yrs til i left for canada had reconnected jan 2008. i was still married but seriously seeking a divorce because of abuse and mental cruelty. while husband was on a holiday in the philippines, this ... (748 words)

Should I take charge and tell him how I feel?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so There is this guy that I cant seem to get out of my head. I recently broke up with my bf of 3 years. I am trying to date again, but i just cant. all i can seem to think about is this other guy. This guy was my ex bf's friend. But they are no longer friends because me and ... (379 words)

How does mine compare to yours? Or others you might have seen?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i need to ask the guys on dear cupis a question. i honestly want to know how big my penis is compared to yours/ those you might have seen. currently when erect my penis is 16.5 cm or 6ish inches and when flacis its 11cm or 4 inches. so based on that how does it compare to ... (64 words)

I want to call her, but I'm nervous. Got any advice?

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11 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've known this girl for about two months and I really like her. I met her at a school club, and I got to talk to her a few times. I'm pretty sure she likes me since she keeps looking at me from a distance and when I look back, she quickly looks away. She smiles a lot ... (215 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my ex raping me?

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11 November 2009 (F)

- Should I tell my bf, that my ex bf raped me during my relationship with my ex? I dont know if I should tell him or not. I am afraid of how he will react. At the same time, I also believe that because we are partners we should tell each other everything....bu... (194 words)

Why didn't I bleed?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 19 this year. I'd sex with my boyfriend quite a few times but i'd never bleed before. I did'nt had sex before until i was with him. Can you tell me why i did'nt bleed?... (39 words)

I love my teacher and is that okay?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like my teacher, is this totally wrong? I don't expect for him to ask me on a date. I know its illegal. and its not like i want to go out with him or kiss him or anything! i sometimes blush when i talk to him and idk why! and i sometimes get kind of nervous around him. lik... (471 words)

Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook. I'm not sure what I'm trying to do, if I think that friending him will spark his interest again or if I'm trying to show him I have moved on but a large part of me wants to show him no hard feelings we can still be friends despite how ... (86 words)

Does he think something bad of me? Do I annoy him?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, First off I would like to thank your time and advice. I have a complicated story and my main question is that I don't know what to do or how to approach the situation and/or whether I should ask him what we are... but first I need to set up how we met. We met m... (918 words)

I just don't get him! Why after 11 months is he still so bitter?

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i broke up with my ex of 6 yrs its been 11 months and im over it,we have a 5 yr old son and up until lately we didnt have a problem speaking.ive noticed that the last 4 months he has refused to communicate with me at all only talking and texting with my 16 yr old sometimes ... (175 words)

My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings!

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11 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings. She'll stare at me, walk pass me on purpose, says hi to people that I'm with even though she doesn't really talk to them etc.. NO she is not harassing me, i just want to know why she's acting that wa... (160 words)