A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been in a committed relationship for 4.5 months now. He stays 9 hours away from my house but we really love each other. Nowadays he doesn't seem the same. Recently I was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and his best friend.. the phone was on conference and after some time when I said I'll talk after 2 min.. he said he'll talk with his bst friend!! he rejected me 2 talk with his best frnd! Moreover one day he told me that he would call me at 10pm.. I was desparetly waiting for that call and the call came.. just 2 say that he wast going to play basketball.. can't talk! I am really depressed with his attitude.. don't know why this is happening.. what do I do in this situation? How should I react? Please help.
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 You have a right to be annoyed at waiting for him just to hear him say he can't talk to you...but at least he rang you like he said =)
You said you'd talk to him in 2 minutes...what's wrong, if he's going to wait that he can't talk to his best friend?
Nevertheless you need to tell him about the attitude you feel he's giving you. Let it be known what upsets you and see if he makes any changes/effort from there to think about how you feel when he says/does things.
I seriously think there's no need to doubt.
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