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writes:Hi All,I really hope you read my question and I really hope you all leave some honest advice as I really need it.It is a complicated one, I split from my girlfriend (for the second time) 3 months ago as she said we were arguing too much and each time it was getting harder and harder. The problem is we continued to still talk on the phone, see each other, she stopped at my house, she told me I make her so happy and how she still loved me. She recently moved back home 100 miles away from where I live as she was home sick and wanted to be closer to her family. We again have always continued to talk on the phone meet each other half way for lunch and recently (2 weeks ago) we stopped over at a hotel and spent the night together. When we are together it is so special we talk, laugh and have a truly amazing time. She tells me she loves me how I make her feel special and how she wishes it was like this all of the time. As soon as she is back down home though she changes does not get in contact for days and is very off. It is driving me insane as I never know where I stand I am picturing her with other people all of the time as a friend told me she likes another boy where she lives and has been for drinks with him. I think about her every minute of every day and it is making me miserable as I don't know what to do for the best. I love her with all of my heart I find myself sat looking at pictures on my phone and reading old text messages she has sent me. Please help me as I don't know what to do and I need an outside perspective to help me through this.Thank you for your time and comments
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): I think, she understood that you can't be together because of arguments that you were having, but she doesn't mind spending nights w/you from now and then. But it's just my opinion, talk to her, it's the best way to find out.
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reader, MissPrinn :) +, writes (23 November 2009):
 I have had many experience in relationships like this. Not knowing where you stand in a relationship is one of the most stressful things you can go through. The point is, you have a right to know what is going on in your relationship. and although its easier said than done, asking her directly is the best solution. Sit her down and talk about how you feel and how she makes you feel. This way, if she really loves you like she says, she will take your feelings into consideration, which may then answer some of your questions.
Thank you for your question :) x
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