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writes:Okay so... I like this guy. I don't love him, cause that's pretty much impossible for me, since I have trust-issues... Anyway. He's like the "hot sports-jock" of our level... I mean. I'm the sad little "emo" (according to everyone else) and he's Mr. Popular himself. Anyway, we went on this classtrip to Rome. And he just wouldn't stop bothering/teasing me. He would call my name or call emo out loud. He would make eyecotact constantly, and when I looked at him, he would look at me like I was a freak. And then... Well, I have a few issues, and I just burst out a secret, and he was standing right behind me, and heard it all. So. The secret was pretty serious. And then, one day, he just pulls me aside, and whispers in my ear, that I have to be careful about my secret. And he hasn't told anyone about it, yet... And now, I'm dying here, 'cause I don't know if he likes me or if he's just making fun of me...? And the worst is... I made a bet with my friends. I have to ask him if he likes me, or else my friends will tell him, that I like him... So, please help me! I don't know, if he likes me! And I don't wanna be a complete fool asking him about it... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): I just read your answer.To be cool there are lots of things you could do.Excel in sports,art,dance,drama,help people out.Cutting is NOT an option.I am not here to judge you.I am here to help you.Anyone who cares for you would naturally worry.Please do visit your school counselor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Instincts are very powerful.I am not sure if he likes you the way a guy likes a girl.But he definitely cares for you as a friend.We all need good friends in life.Since he hasn't told anyone about your secret,it means he respects you in some level.Life is beautiful with good friends.Why don't you say "Hi" and smile at him?A smile is a wonderful beginning.
I understand about the trust issues.You are very young in my eyes.Enjoy life with friends.Be happy.Ask your friends not to interfere politely but firmly.Whether its a friendship or a relationship,bringing third people into the equation never helps.
~Mrs.Anon
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Okay, so it's me! Anyway, you don't know who I am, so I guess, I can tell my secret... I cut. And he kept teasing me, until he found out, and then he started to warn me and such... Oh, and he gets "jealous" when I'm with my guyfriends... Like when one of my friends was sad (his crush didn't like him) I took an arm around him to comfort him, and then out of the blue, X (sports-idiot) just comes and says my friend is touching my butt... Weird... Does he watch over me, or what? :S
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reader, Blod  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 Personally, I don't think he likes you. I'm sorry.
There's a chance that he does if he teases you but you also mention that he's a popular guy. So he could just be teasing you and picking on you to make himself seem more popular. If he can keep up his 'Mr Popular' image by teasing you and making other people laugh by doing so, then he'll do it.
He could like you, but I don't think he does. Sorry. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): It sounds to me like now he knows this secret, he has realized that theres more to you than he thought. Its hard to tell if he likes you, but he at least cares about you.
It would be easier to help, if we knew the secret though.
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