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Does my boyfriend love me or not? And why does he look at other girls like he's never had sex in his life?

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Question - (23 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *amira92 writes:

[Moderator note: Two questions from the same writer combined into one here, as the information in one seems relevant to the other.]

my boyfriend doesnt trust me, if i look at a boy he gets jelous and very angry and sometimes he even wants to leave for that. i allready told him that i love him but he never said it back, he knows that i like him but he doesnt trust me at all. we talk on the fone 20 times per day, we spoke about our future, he allways looks at girls even when he's with me and he knows that it drives me mad but does he love me?

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my boyfriend looks at girls all the times like he has never had sex in his life. i get really upset and i told him but he still does it all the times and sometimes even smiles. why does he do that? what does that mean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

alot of boys look at girls when they have a girlfriend, but he shouldnt be doing this as he must know it winds you up, he shouldnt have eyes for other girls, if he loved you he would only have eyes for you. he doesnt trust you so if there aint trust theres nothing. maybe you should have a talk with him and try and work through your problems. tell him how much seeing him looking at other girls is winding you up, but in my opinion if he doesnt trust you then whats the point?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2009):

It means that he is controlling you. Which is not a great sign. It worried me a little that he gets so angry and threatens to leave. That's not healthy, especially since he looks at girls himself and has the nerve to smile at you when you get mad. You need to be strong for yourself here, because otherwise he will treat you badly throghout your relationship and think he can get away with it. I would suggest that the next time he gets angry with you for talking to another boy, you tell him you will not be bullied, and that if he wants you to stop, he has to stop looking at other girls. If he gets mad, run a mile, because this could get worse. You need to be firm with him. If, after this, he is still jealous, then I'd say get away from him so you don't get hurt. Never allow someone to control you.

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