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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Having unprotected sex, could I be pregnant? I know I've been stupid, so no lectures please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for eight months and we have been having unprotected sex (dont lecture me) i know i have been so stupid, i should no better as i use to be a really safe girl and would never sleep with a boy without a condom. we dont have STD's or anything we both ... (302 words)

He used to flirt with me all the time, but not recently. Should I tell him my thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy and i went working away for a few weeks recently.Before i went, we hadn't spoken for a while, i had also removed him from my friends list on facebook, but i dont know if he ahs noticed this.this was because this other woman kept posting comments on his page with ... (516 words)

My sister sent him naked photos, how do I get over this and him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A year ago my bf lied about being home one evening. Something told me he was lying I went to his apartment stood in the middle of it and called him. I asked what we was doing he said cleaning his apartment. Needless to say I got back with him. I never got over it. When my ... (212 words)

How do I give him directions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had sex with my boyfriend. He's kind of on the smaller side. I know I can't really change his size (unfortunately). So I was wondering how I can increase the pleasure I get and what type of things would help him hit the spot better. thanks! ... (51 words)

Should I love him or love him not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I think Im in Love With a Guy and He is one of my best friends, but he is dating my other friend and has a crush on my bFF and my BFF likes him too. Is it wrong to love him?... (45 words)

Does X plus naked pics on pc equal no relationship?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked pictures on his computer of an ... (176 words)

In love with my cheating ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help!! I split with my kids dad almost 2 years ago after his constant cheating, he ran me up loads of debt as well and at the time wouldnt help me with our 2 children. Since we split i have tried to rebuild our lives, I paid my ex's debts off and try my best to be a goo... (277 words)

My X boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... So I've known this guy since we were in 6th grade. We were best friends and dated in 7th grade, broke up and still remained best friends.. We dated our junior year in high school and he broke my heart and i never talked to him again. After my x best friend/ boyfriend ... (218 words)

Masturbating while texting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to masturbate while txting my girfriend while she masturbates, but she doesnt want to. weve talked about it and shes comfortable with it, nothings wrong, so idk why she doesnt want to do it. we would do it at like midight so we wouldnt get walked in on or anything.. so ... (58 words)

A little blood..too much sex? Sex too hard?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the issue, today is November 24th. On the 22nd (2 days ago) When I went to the restroom I noticed a little blood on the toilet paper [sorry TMI], it was a bright red I believe, but it never came out enough to make me need pad, all day. Only on the toilet paper ... (240 words)

Why does my boyfriend have these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me And My boyfriend have been going out for nearly a month but have both liked each other for about 4 months, we've gone out about 3 times now within the past 2 months becuase he says he keeps gettin a feeling that it's wrong but gets Really depressed when we split up and feels ... (111 words)

Stuck with another, but wants to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating this guy, and we were together for a year but broke up when I found out he had another girl. We remained friends, and recently he has been wanting to get back together with me. He has been telling me he loves me. However, recently he came to me and said t... (283 words)

Jealous of co-worker? Or paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me n my boyfriend have been datin now for about two years n a half. he works on the road all the time so hes always away from home. he has different people on every new contract, so he meets a lot of people. most of them r men. once in a while he may have a female inspector or ... (417 words)

Being married to someone who is never happy is very draining!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my husband for roughly three years now and I'm starting to reach the conclusion that I probably never should have gotten married. I had small doubts from the get-go when I told him yes, but I managed to convince myself that I wasn't feeling them. I lo... (685 words)

Want to hear from people who had affairs and what the outcome was

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am writting this on dear cupid lookingf for people who have been in the same situation as me. I am writting a book on my experience but feel I should also do alot more research on the subject before diving in even though I have 7000 words already. I AM NOT ASKING... (445 words)

How do we get closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been with my boyfriend 3 week on thursday. He is very special and i think it could last a while but we need some way to get closer. See, we always go out with our friends and always in a quite big crwod so whenever i get to try and talk to him someone always interupts, ... (159 words)

Why does my ex expect me to wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex always wants to hang out, but she is always late, or makes me wait all night (so I cancel other plans) and then blows me off. Why does my ex always expect me to just wait on her?... (41 words)

At what age do you lose the puppy fat from around your face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really silly question I personally think but I am sure people have the answer. I have a square face shape which means my face will never be really slim however I was wondering what age generally is it that you lose the 'puppy fat' from around your face?... (53 words)

I am crushing on a student of mine! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a teacher. I have recently found myself attracted to one of my 6th form students (only 17 years old :S) I would never act on this but feel continuously guilty. I am in a long term relationship which makes it even worse. What can I do to stop this feeling? ... (51 words)

I am crushing on my math teacher and he found out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well fo starter I'm 14 and in Year 9 at the moment. But, I have the most gorgeous and amazing maths teacher ever! I love him so muchan can't keep him out of my head. We have a good laugh together and he is a great teacher. Anyway, A few weeks back I wrote a heart in my book... (175 words)

Am I gay or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been attracted to girls all my life but shortly after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me(2.5 years ago) I started getting these really strong sexual urges. These urges come by for about 3 days every six months. The thing about these urges is that they are geared toward ... (158 words)

My boyfriend wants to snog me but I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and ive never snogged ive only kissed him my bf told ma best mate today that he wanted to snog me when she told me i was terrified coz i have never snogged and i know he has done it loads of times before this is driving us appart for he thinks i dont want to snog him i ... (86 words)

My cheating man says he will change his ways!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got my man in our house with a lady in our room,they admitted they had sex without condom?it was not for the first he cheated on me.he started cheating on me previously with his ex-girl friends.i do nt find a place in my heart this time to forgive.he say he is deeply sorry ... (83 words)

I have a crush on my older sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm 14 and i have a crush on my sister shes 18 and i cant stop thinking about her i can think of something that has nothing to do with her and in the end i start to think about her again is this normal?... (45 words)

My ex is an emotional vampire!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Sorry if my English is not perfect but I am not English but from Spain…I recently broke up with my girlfriend after two years for the third time this year at least and I am not sure what to do… She is constantly depressed and when she feels down (which is al... (481 words)

Why has he suddenly changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend of five years is beginning to make things complicated for us. I used to really like him, but he made it quite clear that nothing could happen because he had a girlfriend at that point and he didn't think he could ever see me in that way. I didn't think much of ... (486 words)

How do I stand up for myself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this new girl who started my school not long ago. She had a reputation and I didnt want to be prejeduice so I was always there for her and her friend. But the more she started fitting in, the more demanding she became.Suddenly everythings happening so fast and shes... (221 words)

My boyfriend's mother is a problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i have a lil problem with my boyfriends mother. it seems that he can't cut the cord and it creates problems for us. i am close with my parents but my parents aren't clingy like his mother is. i have much love and respect for her and i am sure it's the same from her. ... (197 words)

I want my boyfriend to be more affectionate in public.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly four months now, i know, it dosent sound long at all, but ive known the guy for about a year and i feel alot for him. Ive just noticed that he's not the most affectionate guy in the world. He never just randomly kisses me when were out... (294 words)

Christmas gift for the boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a difficult time deciding what to get my boyfriend for christmas ,, any suggestions??? Thanks x ... (23 words)

Nobody likes me and I don't understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well i have this problem since a few months ...i am 22 and am doing an mba ...all my classmates hate me...they dont greet me or even like to talk to me ....even i try to talk to them then i really feel disappointed by the way they respond...some girls have EVEN INDIRECTLY ... (254 words)

Only 23 and already slept with 40 men, I cant stop cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - iam a 23 year old woman who had slept with about 40 men and am not proud of it, but i cant seem to stop and i need help, i cant stay faithful to one man coz i have a six year relationship that is terrible and my partner cant seem to care and dont take care of me or give me ... (94 words)

What can we do about his troublesome ex-wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I are living together happiness. Our relationship has been so good. He make me so happy and change my whole life with alot of joy. which I never had before. when he got a new job then his ex wife found out where he work. So she decide to work closer to him and ... (262 words)

I want my mom to move out once I get married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I love my mother and we have been through a lot together. Now that I am getting married I want her to have her own place becuase sometimes things get a little ugly with us. Sometimes she doesn't respect my boundaries and treats me like a child even when I am 30 years ol... (186 words)

He already has a friend with benefits and I just want him to leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't I just tell this guy to leave me alone, I have gotton into a situation where I am becoming a FWB with a guy at work so I have stayed away from him but he keeps making an effort to speak to me, it's killing me because I like him so so much I found out he already has a ... (101 words)

Should I be worried about my sudden change in menstrual cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this is one for the girls. The situation is that a few months ago (back in July) i THOUGHT i was pregnant. I realised i wasn't, and even since my periods have become more infrequent. I used to be on an average menstrual cycle (every 28 days roughly) but now i'm going ab... (67 words)

He seems so shy! Should I make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! could anybody help me? well, I use public transport, and I see Mister X almost every day, when we both go to work. we look at each other tenderly, but don't dare to say hello. obviously he wants to talk to me but he's too shy... what should I do? will it be normal for me... (78 words)

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really one of those ‘nice guys’ ... (413 words)

What does foreplay involve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi... everyone i'm 18yrs old boy and i'm a virgin... i luv a girl and we panning to have sex... but i have a few question on this....i want to know what foreplay really envolves my friends say kissing, hugging,licking vagina and even anus....but seems a bit weird to me earl... (122 words)

Isn't he going to say sorry? Doesn't he love me anymore?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I`ve been married for 16 years and I`ve been having some problems recently. First of all my husband says he`s jealous of one or two boyfriends I had in the past (before meeting him, and what is worst 20 years ago!) and sometimes he feels really b... (208 words)

I found pictures of my boyfriend having sex with his ex. Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. So. I stumbled upon pictures of my boyfriend having sex with his ex girlfriend. It was an honest accident, I wasn't snooping. Long story short I was fixing his old computer (from 3-4 years ago) and they were on there. I wasn't, and am not, mad or even upset. More than... (207 words)

I really need your help, is he grumpy because he's a diva?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I really need your help on this one. x Ok, im 13 :) But i actually really do Love someone. I have liked a boy for over 2 years now. He sometimes really seems interested in me.. like he sits next to me in some lessons and will be really interested. But then when he is ... (181 words)

I'm 15 and starting to look old! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and im starting to look old i don't smoke or nothing people think im old enough to be 23 right now and my face is starting to rinkle (it least thats what it look like). I look exactly like my dad and that makes me look even older. I wish I was born with my own look. I ... (76 words)

He is being very very rude with me. Does he still care for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he behaves rude wid me lyk he doesnt luv me never calls me. his frnds tell me tht he really luvs me a lot n puposely behaving harsh wid me so tht i leave him coz my bf thinks tht we cnt have a future together i dun kno whether to trust him or not. now he is not talking to me ... (126 words)

Need to shake this feeling! Please Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid... I am a 21 year old Junior in college (should be a senior but due to poor grades am not) and have been been dating my girlfriend who is a Senior in a private University about an hour away from me. I've been with her for a few months now and have taken notice t... (129 words)

Could I get lead poisoning from drinking from that can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 5 months pregnant and this morning i opened a can of juice after the first drink i realized it tasted weird and through it out. now im worried about lead poisoning and im also waiting 4 my obgyn 2 call back. any helpful and comforting advice needed.... (48 words)

I am frightened about making a complete fool of myself. Am I ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been concentrating on my children for 4 years since I split up from my husband. This year I am finally learning to love myself again and do things for me. I started running and lost weight and I feel good about myself again. Only I feel so very lonely and I wonder if I ... (146 words)

It scares me that he will break my heart and go back with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help asap. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 7 months. things started out going great, he even came to the point telling me that he loves me and wants to have a future with me since I am the only one with him through his hard times and problems. im still there ... (297 words)

Should I start a relationship with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy that recently told me that he is really into me and would like to have a somewhat long-term relationship with him. The thing is, he is 14 years older, and he comes from a culture that differs substantially from mine. He generally tends to invite me over for ... (362 words)

Have her feelings changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things. ... (47 words)

Should I give my ex another chance?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have broken up with my boyfriend because he can not decide who he wants - me or this other girl. Should i give him another chance or not? ... (29 words)

How do I get my self-esteem and confidence back after all life has thrown at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age - When I came to this site, I was rock bottom in life. After going through so much adversity, in my life my self esteem plummeted. After visiting this site, I learned that so many man and women are going through similar problems and issues. My question is : How do we get our self ... (114 words)

Is their relationship against the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - one of my best mates has just turned 15. about 7 months ago when she was 14 she was going out with a 17 year old, they where great together and she was madly in love with him. but he works at a primary school training children after school. they somehow found out about t... (230 words)

Am I in love with my uncle's wife or is this just an obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid I'm 20 years old and I have a big crush on my uncle's wife she is 32, their marriage is not that great and I hear them argue on the phone a lot ,they have one child together, she has a doughter from a past relationship, my aunt and I flirt a lot,we wrestle around, on ... (150 words)

What can I do to make her realise that my life isn't really one to envy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

- ok at the weekend there me and my friend sort of had a heart to heart. I had went down to her house to get ready to go out and we had a bottle of wine as usual, then we sort of had a conversation which left me really ocnfused. She just came out with " you don't realise ho... (405 words)

My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age - I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite around in the bedroom. she ... (110 words)

I'm worried he has developed feelings for my best friend, after he performed oral sex on her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for the better part of 5 years. I recently finished school and he asked me to move in with him so I agreed. It has been 5 months and were both under the impression we were heading toward marriage. For thanksgiving this year we ... (148 words)

Should I foster or adopt a child against my boyfriend's advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

24 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend of six months who is against my idea of fostering a child. My idea is to adopt a child if i dont get married, and i would like to start with fostering. I realise i have been puting my plans on 'hold' waitng for marriage.I havent told him the real reason for ... (230 words)

I'm worried he'll spend every weekend driving his children around and not be a proper step-dad to mine!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

- Hello Aunts/Uncles I really need opinions here. I have been engaged to a wonderful man for 6 months now and although we do not live together at the moment, the plan is for him to move in next year. I have two children living with me from my first marriage and they adore m... (340 words)

How to get over him when he is always around?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy I met at university about 2 months ago. We instantly clicked and became really close when we met. We started seeing eachother but unnofficially after about 2 weeks, so we wouldn't jump into anything too soon seeing as we still couldn't have known stuff about each... (504 words)

I'm in love with a married man who is in an unhappy marriage! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so there's this guy. I've known him for about ten years, infact even longer than his wife. He's actually a family friend and all we have ever been is friends. However about 7 months ago after me, his wife and him went out for some drinks, we went back to his house, his wife ... (505 words)

Should I ask her out even though we are total opposites of each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Look Im in the teen years I really want to ask this girl out be she is like the total opposite to me aka I am a computer expert but not that good in the looks department and she's a beautiful and has a good personality and humor so should I ask her out?... (54 words)

Should I give my virginity to my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basic question is whether or not i should give my virginity to my best friend? hes liked me a lot in the past, and i have liked him at points, but i am the non-commital one. he wants a relationship and i dont. hes never asked me to give it up, and never alluded to the fac... (379 words)

How do I get sex from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I initiated the sexual fun and for 4 months things were on then off then back on. now we are just friends no benefits. how do i get him to want me again? i have tried everything from: talking dirty to saying i want sex all the time, how horny i am, wearing sexy underwear, ... (92 words)

How do I tell my friend that her boyfriend kissed me while she was asleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my friends man kissed me while she was asleep how do i tell her??? here's how it happened... we was at hers with ma friend and her man and some of his mates we was all drunk she went upstairs with him later he came downstairs was talking to his mates i went into the ki... (136 words)

How can I make our break-up easier for the children? They are very upset and confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 16 years has left the family home, me and my two young children. He says he does not feel loved enough by me then says he feels suffocated by me. I am very confused and don't know what to do to get him home. We all miss him very much but he gets angry when I try ... (121 words)

Is it possible for someone to have accessed porn because my router has no password? Or is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I am looking for a little bit of advise. I have a very strong view on porn n I total hate it. Personal reasons of course. Do not want to offend anyone who enjoys it. Anyway, my boyfriend of 4 years knows my view on this but I went for a night out recently and he ... (273 words)

Should I sit back and wait to see if it all works out or should I walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

24 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - long story short i started seein this girl 6 months ago and all of a sudden 2 days ago she came up to me crying her eyes out saying she can tell @ 6months whether shes going to marry a guy or not and she said she doesnt see me as one she would marry.. mind you this girl has got ... (251 words)

Will sex the second time be as bad as the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have posted below post before and now going to have my 2nd time sex. Is it high chance for him to stretch my vagina wall as painful as my first time? Most of my friend said that very high chance to hurt like that again since he is so big and he only stretch my vagina first 3" ... (533 words)

Is my level of anxiety normal or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, im not sure if anyone is able to help but here goes... I recently passed my driving test and got myself a car. The thing is instead if being thrilled of having my independence im terrified of driving. I mean i was confident in my lessons and i passed with onl... (215 words)

I'm scared to go against Indian society and marry a white man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im 25 yrs old indian female. i was in a livin relation with a white man who is 17 years older than me for about 8 months and we didnt have any fights or arguments during that period of time. this was in USA and after completion of my studies i returned to India My home co... (264 words)

How do I get back my 9 inch penis?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had shrunk. I got disturbed and ... (121 words)

Can guys be scared too? Was this the case with this guy I met?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy over the weekend, we go out with some friends and at the end of the night we hit it off really good, hung out saturday we laid around watched tv just spent time together, went out saturday night and it just seemed to good to be true, sunday he gets my number and ... (136 words)

Is two years too long to wait...?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help... I can truly say that I am in love with my girlfriend... we recently broke up because of her father not wanting her to have a boyfriend... we promised we would wait for each other until after high school which is two years from now, she has a crush on a guy ... (94 words)

Could he have a subconcious fear of having sex?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cant seem to get all the way hard before we have sex. He is a vrigin and I am not. And he tells me that it is not because he scared or anything, he just cant get all the way hard. I mean I have tried to do just about everything to help the situation along. But is ... (75 words)

Can you become pregnant just from foreplay?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend touched my private parts for 5 minutes without touching his. Are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of this?... (23 words)

I love both men - my boyfriend AND the other guy!

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok heres the deal..i am 25 years old with two kids and i am with my kids dad have been for about 4 years. about a year ago i meet this guy at work and he seemed to be everything ive ever wanted in a man! so things werent going so good with the kids dad so i broke it off with... (361 words)

One nasty mess - please help me sort through this!

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I can't believe I am doing this, but am desperate to say the least... I will do my best to keep it as brief as possible, but it is quite complicated. Bf of 3 yrs broke up with me 2 months ago, since then I have felt nothing but hurt, confusion, mixed emotions, and an... (1207 words)

If we have to work this hard to change, is a relationship even worth if?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this relationship harder than it should be? My boyfriend is great. He wants to get married and has told me he plans to propose within 6 months. He says I'm the woman he's always dreamed of marrying. He is also an excellent boyfriend and perfect husband material. He does ... (412 words)

How can I help my boyfriend maintain an erection?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever my fiance and I have sex, I notice that, on the rare occasion he "misses" and when I reach to put it back in, that he's a bit soft. I asked him why, and he has no clue. It's been like that and he says he does notice it. Is this normal? If not, what can I d... (75 words)

What happens AFTER you tell someone your feelings and they just want to be friends?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice dealing with a one-sided love I have. I work with this wonderful woman and we are good friends. We joke, flirt around, and play fight all the time. We listen to each other and give each other support. Over the last couple of months I have had increased ... (307 words)

What EXACTLY is clitoral stimulation?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Can anyone explain to me how to masturbate as a female? I've asked this before and people always respond by saying something like 'try clitoral stimulation', which doesn't really help me. I know what and where the clitoris is, but what do I do? Can someone ... (79 words)

Why does he leave things for me to initiate? Is he not interested?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I met this guy a little over a week ago. The first time we talked, we did so for over 2hrs. The second time we talked, we did so for over 3hrs. The next day and the third time we talked, I suggested that meet for drinks and he exclaimed that he was about to suggest ... (503 words)

The Trouble with Mary

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, this one's gonna be a bit long. Before we start lemme say i am not this kinda guy. Normally im a horny sex freak, and all i think about is sex. This is something new to me, cause i actually fell for someone. For time being, im gonna name her Mary, and im just gonn... (580 words)

Why end a good relationship only to come back to the good relationship?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - During the summer, the guy I was seeing for two months ended things with me when his ex came back into the picture. We were only seeing each other, and although I did enjoy every minute I was with him and I enjoyed getting to know him, I understand why he did it- he had a ... (126 words)

My wife moved out 5 year ago because she wanted space. Does this mean it's over?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age - My wife moved out of our home 5 years ago telling me she needed time to sort things out. I thought she was just going through a phase, but the months bumped into a year, and then one year rolled into another. She has never told me where she is living at and I can only reach ... (254 words)

My girlfriend has genital warts, but I don't have them. Does that mean she cheated?

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24 November 2009 (M)

- my girlfriend of a year got pregnant over 7 months ago and noticed some warts on her women area and didnt take much notice now there a group of them. now she claims shes as not slep with no 1 else. and shes not cheated. the doctor as called them gental warts and its a ... (127 words)

He sends mixed messages. Does he like me or not?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invites me to stuff and tells me... (266 words)

How can you tell if you really like someone?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you know that you like someone? i cant tell and im staring to worry that i will never meet anyone who i will like or maybe im just incapable of love. its driving me crazy and starting to scare me.... (43 words)

Divorcing naked creepy ex... What if he does something?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split from my husband 4 years ago after being in a very passionless marriage for 10+years, no kids. I have given him plenty of time to adjust to life without me and now I am filing for divorce. He remains in complete denial. Tonight I dropped by the house we used to share ... (347 words)

Guy feedback please - how much inexperience is a deal breaker?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel a little stupid asking this, but I'm starting to become worried. I've never been an overly social person. I'm the type of girl who would prefer staying home and watching a movie, reading a book, studying, or playing a video game rather than going to party. I'm an i... (472 words)

What happens during an orgasm?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - [Moderator note: Age posted in incorrect.] my sister asked me what happens when you have an orgasm. and i have no idea because i havent. *sarah said that her boyfriend *chris have done alot of foreplay. he asked her if she was getting ready to orgasm and she said idk. she aske... (138 words)

She just admitted she loves me but she is thinking of going back to her ex

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to make this as short as possible, but I might have trouble... I have been kinda seeing a girl for the past few months, who only recently came out of a long term relationship. I know you're probably thinking "rebound" but we did hit it off really well.. This gir... (359 words)

How important is inner beauty?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i know what some people will say that it is about whats on the inside that counts, but does it matter on the outside too? im sort of chubby but not totally fat i have dark brown hair and blue green eyes, im 5'7 and im very pale, and tons of freckles. i have some pimples ... (118 words)

We've been 'dating' for 2 years and he still doesn't want to make it official

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for almost two years now. keyword dating. We have never been official boyfriend and girlfriend, though we act like it and call each other it. we both have made many mistakes in this relationship and have gone our seperate way plenty of times. He has ... (543 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to SAY he loves me and not just write it?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, he writes that he loves me too, but he hasn`t said it. He never hugs me or shows affection. But i want him to. How can I make him do these things ?... (37 words)

I don't know how to be in any other relationshi[?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in September after ten months of being together. We were apart for about a month and a half, until we ran into eachother again, and all the feelings came back. We started seeing eachother no strings attached. (Well, that didn't do any good for ... (261 words)

I broke up with him today...shoul I e-mail him or just let it go?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up today, he's been distant and I just couldn't take it anymore. He asked if I thought I'd be better single and I said maybe even thought I love him more then life itself. After I said maybe I just walked away, the look on his face when I said maybe ... (97 words)

What should I do when I haven't seen someone in ages?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for nearly 2 months now and have only gone out with him once. We chat all the time over the computer and thats about it. He has a job that takes up alot of his time and he sometimes works on weekends. At the moment he has worked every weekend so i haven't ... (108 words)

How do I deal with his infidelity that resulted in a baby? I can't stand the pain.

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years. I recently moved in a year ago with my 2 daughters. During one of our break ups he had sex with a so called friend, results a one year old son. Even though i tried to hang in their it was very hard. I truly believe he is sorry, but ... (205 words)

Circumcision or no circumcision?

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24 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i was wondering what kind of penis do girls like a circumcised one or non-circumcised one ... (22 words)

Bf is changing for the better because of me... will it last?

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I know how dangerous it is to try to change someone, but will it still end up going wrong if they CHOOSE to change from knowing you? I'm told the guy I like has become a much better person in many ways since meeting me. I'm worried the changes he's made in his life will be ... (59 words)

Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women?

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24 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Why are men generally more secure in themselves than most women? I mean, I myself am a very insecure female, especially regarding appearance. I always have a bit of an internal freak out when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend and a naked, big breasted girl appears! And man... (299 words)

Getting past the hurt and loving again... help!

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24 November 2009 (M)

age - I met a wonder fun woman back in the spring. She had just come out of a very personal illness (breast cancer) as well as having been cheated on by her boyfriend during this illness. The boy friend also had a young daughter that this woman felt terrible about not seeing after ... (177 words)

I think he wants to say he loves me, but doesn't because he's unsure of my reaction.

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24 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for about 4 months. In the beginning I wasn't too sure about him and I took things really slow. For the first 3 months I didn't even tell him how I felt. He's slowly been expressing how he feels about me. He says that he's lucky to have someone like me,... (253 words)