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How do I start over quickly, before he leaves?

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Question - (23 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *andyCurves writes:

I'm kinda still in love with this guy even though we've had kinda had a rough relationship.

Right now, we're not talking( even though I really want to). Lets just say things got complicated.

Again.

He's leaving high school next year and I'm probably never gonna see him again if we dont keep contact. Im going to miss him loads so I want to stay in contact. But my problem is how do break that akward barrier with him and start talking now.This will give me time to patch thing up before next year. Cause if I leave it too late, he's going to leave.

( Your probably wondering why Im bothered about this now, when hes leaving next year. The thing is- to rebuild what we had is going to take time. I dont see him that often so I need to startt now)

Any tips on how I can approach him, he probably thinks I hate him so please help me. I dont want to look desperate I just want him to know that I'm there for him and want to be his friend and possibly more. We havent talked since the summer. I see him about but tend to ignore him.How do I show him Im still interested?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

I think you should be honest w/him and yourself. On breaking the ice just do it as time goes by it get's harder..

If your friendship increases to more after you break the ice great if not let it go... Trust me through life we go through cycles do not start these bad cycles (rough relationships or selling your self short)...

Good luck in your choice and good luck in what you do in life!!!

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