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*azzy924
writes:What do i do when i cant even trust my family? well i have this issue that i have things to tell my mo but i wanna wait till the right time because if i just throw it all at her she not gone take it so i got to give it to her slow and at the right time. So i talk to my niece and tell her hoping that she will help me by listening to me at least but in stead she tells her mom who is also my sis than my sis go and tell my mom. so now im just stuck because they tellin my mom stuff which i dont kno wut they sayin and my mom is now acting funny and tellin me that people are tellin her things about me and she hope its not true. But now i just dont kno wut to do i wanna talk to her but also im just frustrated cuz my mom is so hard to talk to. She the one that say wut she has to say but dont finish listening to what you have to say. But i need help so if anyone have any advice for mr that would be greatful. i also feel that i have no one to talk to now since i see that i cant even talk to my family because they just do more than listen and talk so please some one help me cuz its just so crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jazzy924 +, writes (23 November 2009):
Jazzy924 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response as they all were helpful and im still workin on it and also i like the write a letter advice.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 If you find it hard to physically tell your mum, why dont you write it all down and give her the letter?
that way she cant inturrupt you and she will read your side of the problem.
Try not to worry or stress too much as everything happens for a reason!
Goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): you could ask us.
It worked te first time you did it so why not, or try a personal question to the aunt or uncle you think might be able to help.
We are all here to help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): A good friend listens? why dont you try telling them. Your family are not untrustworthy they're jus your family and thats what they do my sister always tells my mother everything i tell her and though it bugs me i know it will always happen.
Whatever it is that you need to tell your mother make sure you tell her before someone else does. If it is important then sit her down and explain the situation to her slowly and tell her that you need her to listen, if it is something that your not ready to tell your mother yet and you have nobody else to talk to try speaking to your doctor or a councillor they can maybe give you some advice of what to do.
best of luck with whatever you decide.
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