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writes: My bestfriend cheated on his girlfriend and I fell in love with her plus I knew about his cheating from before but didnt want to tell her because i couldnt however she fell in love with me and decided to leave him for me and she needed a good enough reason so I told that he was cheating on her. I should have told her sooner though.Will karma punish me for not telling sooner.Is there immorality in this I was in a dilemma of being in love or betraying my friend.
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reader, xynebrutalis  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 Well if he down right wants to kick your ass, personally i'd say he never really was your friend at all then and if it was me i'd let'em try. About the karma thing, it doesn't really matter mathematically. Good always outweighs the bad. Even when it doesn't seem like it, good karma will always come back to you a hundred fold. Sometimes when all you can see is the bad you still have to look for the good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Q, not my usual rant is it. i got a memory like an elephants! gets me in trouble all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Ok, you have posted this SO MANY TIMES ALREADY, either as an anon or as “stage name” (yourself??). We all know it is you!!!!!!!! I cannot handle this anymore. You were very rude to me recently when I questioned you about the repeat posts and this girl. Let me say this again Calmly , i am taking a deep breath : You won (get it, YOU WON), you wanted this mans gf, you used his dirt to get her, You rated your best friend out, he trusted you and you betrayed him, you now have her. And he also had her. What else is there? What more do you want? He cheated on her, you cheated with her. She cheated on him. Now everyone is equal. Simple, no fuss. Why so much of drama?
Sorry everyone, i just had to get this out!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer ex have I done something wrong I just wanted love in my life.
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reader, xynebrutalis +, writes (23 November 2009):
A negative doesnt fix a negative, but if the two of you are truly in love, then does it matter if karma comes back? Don't worry about that because love is more important. If your that freaked about it, try and do something good to cancel out the bad karma you've created for yourself. Try to patch things up with your bestfriend as well, nothing should come between best friends, even a girl. You should explain what happened to your friend, and if he doesn't understand, or take it well at least you tried. Don't tell him your sorry though, because obviously your not, your in love. Just try to show your friend that you still are his friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Sometimes it's better to leave well enough alone. Karma and guilt can be a self fulfilling prophesy. It will only become a problem if you keep worrying about it. Just be the best you can to her and live happily ever after.
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