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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have a few guy-related questions - who knew being single could be so complicated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a few guy-related problems just now - who knew being single could be so complicated! Firstly, I've been hearing a lot lately, through the grapevine, that a guy who works in my building likes me. He and I have barely said 2 words to each other... just the occasional 'hi' ... (336 words)

Will I catch up to her? She's 6 feet tall, I'm 5'9"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and I love her a lot but she's taller than me she's 6 foot. And im 5 feet 9 inches will I catch up or pass her in height. ... (37 words)

What to do when the ex who messed you about wants you back? I never got over him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking up you've found somebody new, ... (137 words)

I have a huge dilemma! Five girls to choose from...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. i have a dilemma (and no it isn't my spellings) right. i'm a bit of an accidental player...in that i'm a flirt. i'm totally in love with this girl (not naming names so we'll call her 1) i love (1). and yet i have 4 other girls trying to get with me. (2)... (336 words)

I need 'alone time'! How do I get this with others around all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I never have time to 'be alone'.... and no I dont mean like sleeping time, like 'me time' to make me happy and explore. My dad or his girlfriend is always here so I can never get done what I am trying to do. How do I get some alone time?... (67 words)

Have I fallen in love with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help understanding myself. I am a man living in the US Who moved here about 4 years ago for work from tokyo after being there for 5 years and meeting a woman. In between jobs had a child with her and built her and my daughter a beautiful house and provided for her and my ... (259 words)

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a horrible past. Five days lat... (256 words)

I get overly excited with my bf...and it's embarrassing! Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Um, so, this is very embarassing. But I can't ask for advice anywhere else but on the internet, because, well, it IS way too embarassing. So, to get straight to the point, I've been dating a guy for 2 months. We've grown really close together, and he's my second boyfriend... (267 words)

Will asking her out...ruin our good friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Folks. I could really use some advice from like the best in the biz. so here it goes. Me and a girl (both 15 years old) are quite good friends like we hug like everyday usually but she hugs other people however i'm in love with her and i'm not saying i'm the most hand... (129 words)

I have to make a choice between 2 men as I'm hurting them..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am torn between two men. The first is my boyfriend of 7 months, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me and is completely devoted to me in every way. We began a long distance relationship in September when I moved away to university, and see each other every weekend. ... (577 words)

How do I get over his past life with his ex gf??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I hope someone can give me some advice about how to deal with this problem I am having with some of my feelings towards my fiancee. My fiance and I have been together for almost three years (engaged for eight months) and I have been feeling increasingly d... (813 words)

He said..I am boring!! How do I become more interesting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i become more interesting? a guy that likes me said im boring. im your typical student i go to school durin the week . then on weekends i hang out with friends and party or whatever comes up... i never liked him rejected him a few times until i started catchin feelings ... (78 words)

I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want to fall pregnant but how ... (125 words)

Any tips for losing weight quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing weight as quickley as possibl... (83 words)

I'm beginning to hate my crush. The fairytale is not gonna happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been having boy troubles! My crush that I have liked for almost 2 years, me and him has been friends. I think that my love for him is slowly fading away. I’m sick of the fact that he doesn’t pretend like he cares about me and I feel hate when I see him. My like for him has ... (280 words)

Smelling sweet... or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question may sound a bit stupid, but do women ever get paranoid of what they smell like down there? I don't smell or anything but when my boyfriend plays with me I get paranoid just in case I do, and even if I did would a boy tell you? I'm just curious because I want to ... (69 words)

Sex with the perfect guy....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Me and the guy I am with have been together for a little over a month now. He is a great guy, he makes me feel good about myself, he's ready and willing to do something with his life, and he has a lot of traits I am personally attracted to, he's perfect for me. There is only ... (175 words)

Can I get herpes from giving him a hand job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a 46 year old man the other night and I am 23.... We ended up making out and things started to go further and he told me he has herpes on his genitals. He said it was over for me to give him a hand job but not oral. So I did. He was not having an outbreak at the time ... (175 words)

My husband's ex wife...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and his ex-wife are going together to a school lunch for their son. Should I worry about her, she is a very manipulative person and I trust her as far as I can throw her. He used to give her whatever she wanted, I use to tell him that she was a very lucky woman ... (131 words)

Could this cause pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just registered now and really need advice. I recently bought two types of condoms to try them out. Anyways, had sex with my gf using one kind... funny thing is that it was smaller. I hadnt cum and my gf asked me to remove it and use the other, before I did, we were bot... (100 words)

My mum calls me fat, now I'm feeling depressed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Most days i feel really down and i think i may be depressed, i cry a lot and the smallest things can make me cry. i feel like everyone around me dont love me, i think my family hate me, i think my boyfriend hates me, i think my friends hate me. me and my mum argue a lot and ... (374 words)

Why has he changed his mind after him asking me if I wanted to do it again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So a few years back, a buddy and I got a little liquored up and ended up messing around. We both consider ourselves straight, but we both enjoyed what happened. We never talked about it. Just wasn't ever brought up. Since then, our friendship really didnt seem to change. We ... (208 words)

How can I tell my ex I love him without making things awkward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so; me and my boy friend broke up and I still have feelings for him, and I don't know how to tell him. I kinda thinks he still has feelings for me too he always flirts with me, and texts me. But I just need to know how to tell him that I still love him, without making ... (70 words)

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and sometimes cant help but hint at it, ... (223 words)

I am struggling with the end of our relationship. I need closure.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am struggling to cope with the end of a 9 year relationship, and need some advice on how to get through it all as my now ex-bf has cut all contact, leaving me with many unanswered questions and no closure at all. We were together 9 years, lived together for 6 years, split ... (362 words)

Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he would take advantage of the ... (98 words)

What's his problem? Why does he act this way around only me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in one of my classes. I've noticed that he will not come near me. Like he needed a spot to work and instead of just going to the one that was next to me he went to the one on the other side, but the whole time he kept looking over at me. He won't talk to me. ... (161 words)

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. because of this is has caused us t... (167 words)

Is being attracted to older men normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my name is dan and i am seeing a guy who is 49 and im only 20 he is worried bout the age difference i am too but dnt tell him im worried about wat people will think of us also ive always been into older guys is that normal please help xxxxxxxx ... (55 words)

My friends keep telling me to move on, but they don't understand. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and 2years ago i dumped the love of my life, for no reason, i tried to get him back and he wouldnt have it and for a year afterwards i fought for him and kept going back but he didnt want anything to do with me(yet he never moved on or found someone else). So a year ago i ... (227 words)

His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking to me. Why? Does she see me a... (167 words)

I am sweating too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, but it has done occasionally. ... (146 words)

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at times. Having said all that we... (147 words)

How do people have interesting conversations via text messaging?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you girls usly talk to your boyfriends about well your texting? And what do you guys like talking about with your girlfriend. Becuse its hard for me to like have a real conversation about any thing well were texting its mostly how was your day and what are you doing. ... (69 words)

I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in middle school to deal with it). ... (787 words)

How do you know if you're REALLY in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if your in love? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we always say how much we love each other... but how do I know if I'm in love? It sounds like a silly uestion because I do believe I'm in love with him as I always want him around and would do anything ... (71 words)

How can you believe someone loves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [MODERATOR NOTE: Two posts from the same poster have been combined into one question.] I Love My Boyfriend So much But When he says he loves me i have a hard time believing he does because i have been hurt in the past. i have been with him for 7 months and could you please t... (192 words)

How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a minor and i am currently 5 and ... (111 words)

How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do you define the difference betwe... (67 words)

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) age - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ... (26 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Been dating this girl for two months and while she appears to be awesome there are things that I wonder about. She was great. But....we live an hour away. She is a nympho. She has druggy friends. She smokes pot. Loves tattoos. I have no problems with that if she is being ... (179 words)

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6yrs prior to us getting toge... (294 words)

Why is my ex-girlfriend blocking me on msn and Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i need to know why my ex is not talking to me for some reason. because last month we had an argument but then i aplogised and she forgave me and said she would give me one more chance. once we had our argument she deleted me from msn but didnt block me and i asked her and she ... (162 words)

Men: Is your wife's depression a bigger concern than getting laid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Men: If your girlfriend or wife was suffering from severe depression, would you be more concerned with her state of mind, or getting laid? Furthermore: If the depression was supposedly because your words and actions towards her during the duration of the relationship, ho... (59 words)

How can I show the girl who rocks my world, how deeply I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Ok i've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly 4 months we've had sex, try to see each other as much as possible and do things together but i would really like to show her how much i care. I reeeeeeeallly love her to bits and want to show her that i dont jus... (97 words)

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand what it was, it was gungy and ... (126 words)

I can't orgasm unless I am thinking of my fantasy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend love eachother and have been together for almost a year. everytime we have sex its good and i enjoy it, but i can only seem to orgasm when i think of this fantasy, it leaves me feeling guilty after because i should be thinking of him (which i do sometimes) ... (111 words)

Does my ex still care? Why do I shake when I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing this boy on/off for 2 years, he was my first love...But all he ever done was sleep with other girls, lie and put me down sometimes, but he was still caring and treated me ok i guess. now its been a year and im over him, im now in a relationship with an amazing boy ... (234 words)

Am I too young to move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we are in love and really care about eachother. im 17 and hes 23, we both have jobs and that. at the moment hes looking for his own place, and the other night he turnt and said to me "you could live with me" i was drunk at the ... (136 words)

Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age - I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate relationship from ours and it ... (68 words)

Am I still with him because I am afraid of being alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for about 3 years now. I love him very much, the deepest love i have ever felt for anyone. We have broken up 3 times and I have been the one to break up with him. The first time we dated 3 months and he was my first. I brok... (528 words)

We are drowning in debt! My husband won't take that into account as we approach the holidays!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age - Before my husband and I got together, he had a wife who got him into debt. After she walked out on him and his kids, he got a girlfriend who completed the process. The hole that the ex-wife started was dug deeper by the girlfriend. My husband is a very kind hearted, giving ... (425 words)

How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has accepted my previous two pre... (259 words)

Should I meet this girl?? I think she could be trouble.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy off and on for 2 years. This year has been great. He told me about this girl he had been friends with. He had told her about me when he first started to see me. Anyway he is friends with her whole family. He does not know I know things about this ... (416 words)

Does he really love me if he needs time to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I spilt up from my boyfriend of three and a half years almost 7 months ago. There has been a lot of hurt and pain caused, and a lot of things said and done and as a results we have found it really difficult to get back together. However, we still love each other. The ... (214 words)

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger, now not so much (or not so o... (225 words)

I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was wonderful - I cannot stress ... (1158 words)

Should I try to make up with him, or should I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met this guy at a party and we instantly clicked and hooked up the same night. We've been together for nearly two months since then and everything was really great. He was really sweet and nice to me and things were going great for us and then out of the blue - he texts me ... (240 words)

Should I continue to feel frustrated, or is there a simple solution to our sexual differences?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship with the sweetest man I've ever met.He is thoughtful caring and loving,but the problem is he doesn't care to make love.He says were at different stages in life where I'm in my 30's and wanting intimate love and he is 40 and not so much after sex.Is there ... (63 words)

What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know the one that girls are ... (72 words)

After 5 years together, is marriage ever going to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age - Do you think that after five years of dating the same person, if marriage is going to occur, it should have already taken place? ... (24 words)

Is there an Islamic solution that would mean a married woman could divorce her husband and marry her true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I loved a girl but she was pressured by her parents to get married two years back, however she loved me so much that she did not let her husband come close to her which means they did not have any sexual relation, her husband is a nice guy but she cant accept him as her ... (112 words)

I love him but his behaviour is emotionally draining. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been accused, verbally abused, and physically attacked by my boyfriend of three years. I have never once been unfaithful in my thoughts or actions in the short time I've been here on this earth - it's just not in my character. However, the daily interrogati... (182 words)

Mum's going bankrupt, I'm the last to know! There's no communication here! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, the short version of the problem i'm having is this: I moved to a new country a year ago, leaving behind my family to marry a guy I love. Everything is great with the marriage but things aren't so great with my family back home! They are very supportive of my marria... (387 words)

Feeling used by lazy future brother in law!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Aunts Heres my problem and hope you can help , Im living with my fiance and his brother , and the problem is the brother , he is 20 and just lays around the house , we all have full time jobs and i do 90% of the cooking and cleaning my fiance does as much as he can but do... (269 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him, but I'm not, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 8 months. We've been through our ups and downs like most couples but essentially we're very strong. But now I have a big problem. One of his so called friends told him that I was messing him about and texting other guys, an... (199 words)

Which guy do I choose, the new guy or the one I have history with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive bin seein this guy for 4 months he split up with his girlfriend the same night i split with my boyfriend an we became quite close and got together however hes got 2 children and his ex announced she was 3 months pregnant just after we got together so we talked an he said he ... (140 words)

Thinking of getting back with my ex but he frequently doesn't answer my calls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back...we have been talking a little over 2 months. We will probably be meeting within the next few weeks..the thing that bothers me is its been about 5 or 6 times when it will be my turn to call and i do and there is no answer and no call back that night ... (306 words)

Will I ever get over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

17 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend ended our long term relationship 2 months ago and i'm still struggling to get over it. We live in a village/small town and so I do occasionally bump into her. Because of this we have kept in contact - maybe once a week/fortnight we might text. i still feel so... (178 words)

Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where i work for training. and i have... (174 words)

Female Ejaculation Problems, Help!!!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been attempting to masturbate for a while now to see if I can have an orgasm since I haven't experienced one with a partner. I watched a video explaining tips on how to ejaculate, so I start masturbating and I reach that point where I'm about to hit my climax, I push ... (122 words)

Is it possible for him to get those feelings back and for this relationship to work?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, A few days ago, my boyfriend of 7 months told me that his feelings have changed over the last few weeks because i dont trust him, and it has eventually driven him away. He was about to break up with me, but we had a long conversation, and I promised I would try to sto... (326 words)

Do I believe that he has learnt his lesson? Or should I walk away?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for a year but a few days ago two girls came to me and told me they had been sleeping with him. i truely love him and i dont doubt how he feels for me but i just cant believe he has done this to me. we had been arguing a lot but i thought we were ... (256 words)

Its exhausting to try and be everything that he wants!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for all of you to try and answer. I have been dating the same boy for over a year now. Things started out great and still are. But when we are in bed, I don’t feel as close as we used to be. He goes in and out of phases with what he likes to do in bed and it’s... (198 words)

36 years old, happily married, but not sure I want kids....will I regret this later on?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear All, I am happily married to the love of my life - I am 36 years old and hubby is 37 - we have been married for 1 year, and together for 3 years. Hubby really wants kids, but I am not so sure. I love the idea of having a child around the house, but am scared of all ... (518 words)

Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Or does he want something to happen despite having a girlfriend?

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17 November 2009 (F)

- I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me. He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always complimenting me, telling m... (134 words)

Why do I want to see him have sex with another woman?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I moved out a month ago because my boyfriend felt caged in and wanted out frankly so did I. He wants to have sex with other women and wants me to be tolerant. I do not believe that he can or wants to establish boundaries with these women that would preserve the integrity of our ... (276 words)

He doesn't want to marry someone who already has a child, can I ever be sure if this relationship is serious?

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17 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi i dont know if u can answer my question. im in love with this guy i really do love him so much, my problem is i have a child and he dont have any and he once told me that he dont want to marry a person who have a child, though it was hard to me i broke up with him and ... (228 words)

How long does it take for a guy to msg you back if hes interested?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how long does it take for a guy to msg you back if hes interested?... (15 words)

Sad I'm not his first love...

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. :( I'm in a relationship, and in love for the first time. However, I'm jealous of my partner. Who had been in relationships, and in love before. He's my first, but I'm not his. And it just bugs me, and I feel like I'll never be as important or special. Can any... (71 words)

I am having a bit of trouble kissing my boyfriend...

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having a bit of trouble kissing my boyfriend...I have the liberty of teaching him to kiss because I am his first, and I don't know if I am a good enough teacher for this since I have only kissed one other guy a year ago! Well we were doing pretty fine until the kisses... (185 words)

Why did my ex text me? What does he want from me?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wish i didnt even care to ask this question but i cant help myself. ive been broken up with my ex since march and just two months ago we stopped talking completely. it was hard since the break up because we would still see each other and he even started dating his ex and he ... (272 words)

How can you go from planning to propose to not acknowledging her?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay..I need some input/advice on my situation. My boyfriend just informed me that a female coworker of his admitted to him that she likes him as in having a crush for him...when the female coworker asked him what he thought... all he said was that he didnt have time to think... (163 words)

My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?

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17 November 2009 (F)

- My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they think topics like that are... (458 words)

Was I a hit and run or did he actually have feelings for me?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last night i went to a club with my sisters.there was this guy i kinda knew he said hi to me and gave him a hug.later on he kept on passing by me and talking to me and everything he would talk his lips were two inches away from mine.then he wanted to meet my sisters and i ... (295 words)

Why are him and his friends staring at me?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this one guy from my class that stares at me in the hallway for at least three seconds. He also smiled at me a couple times or smiled in my direction. In class he will look at me but look quickly away. He used to stare at me for a minute and hold eye contact, but he ... (248 words)

Guys only - circumcision advice needed!

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this is a strictly GUYS ONLY question, so please i suggest that girls, dont read this. i developed a urinary tract infection, so my doc said that it is best if i get a circumcision done, as it will prevent further infections.so the operation is next week. i am 16... (96 words)

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, and i love him for that, bu... (456 words)

My wife is willing to forgive my cheating, I love her but I feel I don't deserve her!

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, I will try to keep this short and to the point but sorry if I linger. I am 35 years old, was married to a great 42 year old woman until 2009-04, unfortunately no children, that was a difficult hurdle in our marriage as we kept miscarrying. I left her for a 22 year old ... (398 words)

I worry that my friend is influenced negatively by her entourage! What can I do?

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17 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My close friend has always been a real individual- star-wars loving, outgoing, person. She is real peppy and bubbly. Well, she's going through some kind of weird transitional phase and she's gotten real quiet and secretive. She started hanging out more with another group of ... (251 words)

After he's done things to hurt me, he still just blames me. How can I make this work?

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17 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I am 19 and I have been in the relationship I'm in right now for almost 2yrs. I have a very big problem with my partner. I have lied to him as well as cheating. I am not proud or happy about what I did, but there is nothing I can do to change what has been done. The thing ... (1644 words)

He seems to feel as though I don't trust him and am being unreasonable. Am I?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been a single mom for 5 years, after the end of a very abusive relationship. I have 3 kids, 2 teens and an 11 year old. I started dating a guy about 7 months ago and he is awesome! He's met my kids, but we've kept it pretty casual and infrequent (movies, park for an hour ... (126 words)

She's engaged, so why would she care if her male friend has been in contact with me?

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17 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - There's this guy that my friend knows from college. He liked her during college, but she said that he isn't her type. My friend still talks to him on the phone and is trying to set me up with him. We started to e-mail back and forth, but when I told my friend this she seemed ... (143 words)

Did I do the right thing by rejecting this guy, or should I have said nothing?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong to like a guy who has repeated called u boring? u like him and he likes u back but u rejected him alot.. becuz your not sure of a relationship with him now.. u tld him when u guys turn 25 u wud be willin to try a relatiinship if your both interested in each other ... (75 words)

Will I be haunted by my ex for the rest of my life?

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a happy relationship for 2 years with a top girl. Every now and then, however, I have these emotionally intense dreams involving my ex girlfriend who broke up with me more than 3 years ago. In these dreams she is either rejecting me again or taking me back.. Even ... (114 words)

One thing finally goes right for me, and now my dad is being unreasonable. Please help me understand this!

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i need some quick advice. Bad. I've had a rough time with relationships. Out of the 3 ive been in, ive been cheated on 3 times. Ive finally found an amazing girl, we've been talking since this past friday, so not so long. But we both think we like each other. we s... (472 words)

I feel paralyzed...how can I move on?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my husband 4 years ago and have been living apart since then. I have no desire to with him anymore, yet I can't bring myself to file for divorce. Everytime I think of doing it, I just feel sick and horrible inside. Yet I know I do not love him anymore, we both ... (227 words)

I'm a virgin and desperate to have sex?

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am a guy of 18yrs old am still a virgin and i have a girl-friend i keep telling her about sex but she ignores me and i need it desperately what can i do to have sex?... (38 words)

I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont even kno why.at most time i ... (133 words)

I'm at a kind of crossroads after losing a dear friend and don't know what to do with my life.

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A dear friend of mine passed away only 2 months ago and i cant help but feel miserable. His other friends know me and have continuously asked me to hang with them and i accept but when the day comes they dont call and ditch me for no apparent reason, days later the re appear ... (109 words)

Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method? I cheated on my bf, and im not sure if my one night stand is the father of my child. I was with my bf 4 days before ovulation no protection and he ejaculated plenty inside me. Then did the unthinkable and ... (68 words)

Help! I'm in love but I barely know him?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, here is my situation. I am in love with this guy. Every time there is even a slight chance of seeing him I get butterflies and my heart races. I can't get him out of my mind and I think I see him sometimes when I'm out. He is very funny, and I feel sooooo comfortable ... (166 words)

I'm having trouble trying to figure out my sexuality...

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and for a long time i've been trying to figure out my sexuality. It's a little confusing and frankly i totally believe that only you know what you want, but i would still love some advice on it i guess. so i do think that guys are cute, but whenever i fantisize or ... (194 words)

Are these the signs of obsessive behaviour?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months, i love him so much, he loves me too. but over the past few months hes turned weird with me, he dont like me going out with my friends he dont admit it but i know he hates it because as soon as im out he rings and texts a lot. if i ... (145 words)

My girlfriend's threesome is haunting me...

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17 November 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend recently let slip that she was involved in a threesome when she was 16. The threesome involved her older sister (age 23) and the sister's boyfriend. Some things can't be unheard or rewound and it is now driving me nuts. The words statutory rape and incest come ... (164 words)

Opinions needed. Did I make the right decision?

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost two years. She had tendencies that bothered me and I believe it is part of her personality and will never change. Part of me doesn't want this relationship to end because I care about her very much, but I would like to try dating ... (206 words)

What should I do after 6 years of dating?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a wonderful man, Bill, for 6 years. He is very caring, kind, romantic and good to me. The problem is that I see no change of status in sight – he has no intention of moving in anytime soon and doesn’t mention marriage. I guess I need to know if I’m being a ... (619 words)

Help! What's wrong with me?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign of pregnancy? or could it be ... (106 words)

How do we move on after my fling?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice. My husband found out that I had a fling with someone else while me were separated. I have apologized and have never down played what I did. I want to know what to do? We do live together now but he is distant. Which I guess is very understandable, but ... (71 words)

He said I just don't turn him on!!!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok first thanks for taking the time to read this. This guy and I started an exclusive relationship a little over a week ago. He has a hard time staying hard during intercourse, and I am very patient with him and I continue to rub him and kiss him to try and get him in the mood ... (209 words)

Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended because I thought "what if he think... (131 words)

Why do I always try to make him jealous???

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with an amazing boy who I have been in a relationship with for 9 months now, in the past boys have treated me badly, but then he came along and it showed me not all boys are the same, its like he saved me from it all. we love each other, I'm his first love and first proper ... (196 words)

Where do I go from here? I'm 30, she's 19 and her mum hates me!

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17 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has grown.... but she asked em not to ... (670 words)

He watches porn all the time and it's doing my head in!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fella watches porn an I've explained to him how it makes me feel, it makes me feel like I'm no good in bed, and I'm wondering is he thinking of those women when we are having sex? I also explained to him that its getting me down. I dont feel the need to look at other men, ... (214 words)

Mom wants me to be with another race!

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, serious problem here... my mom is obsessed with me getting married to someone of a different race of my own, I am african american and she wants me to be with someone caucasian.. She has this thing against african americans because the relationship she has with my ... (170 words)

He never uses a condom. Is he trying to get me pregnant???

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, we love each other very much, we are really happy together, have fun, chat about everything! but every time we have sex we never use condoms... the first time i ever slept with him he said he had one on but it wasnt till after i ... (165 words)

How can I make our relationship work and get him to trust me?

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17 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he said he'd give me another ... (259 words)