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anonymous
writes:im in love with this girl called Emma, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 6 months, shes always on about how much she loves him on her facebook, we do have a bit of history, before she got with her boyfriend i was sleeping with her, i started to fall in love with her but she didnt feel the same and saw it as a bit of fun... when im out and about i see her and her boyfriend walking around cuddling and giggling together they look so happy, sometimes i feel like going up to her boyfriend and telling him what we have done and that i love her and that i should be the one who gets to have her. i have been texting her phone but she never replys, so i kept texting then she text back and told me to leave her alone, she then changed her number, but her friends gave me her new one...im just so in love with her, i day dream about her, i even have a picture of her in a frame from when we use to hang around with eachother, she has nice blonde hair and blue eyes, is a perfect size and is so down to earth, i just miss her so much, i just want advice on how to get her back and for her to leave her boyfriend, coz i just know shes meant to be with me and not that blonde boyfriend of hers who seems to show her off like shes a trophy, he drives and i always see his car parked outside her house, it kills me knowing they are in her room together. i know all of her mates and she never goes out with them anymore shes always with her boyfriend, please help me im going out of my mind to the point where i cant live without her no one knows how i feel for this girl, not even she does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Im sorry to have to tell you but i dont think she cares whether you love her or not :(
she seems like she doesnt want to know you and you way too obsessed you need to move on and forget about her otherwise all your do is break your own heart
cleanse her out of your life by removing her pic deleting her numba and stop checking when her BFs with her
she obviously wants to be his trophy GF if she is still with him.
you'll find someone who will love you back one day rather than having to watch them love someone else
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reader, thome  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 LOve, love, love.
You want to get her back but you dont know how. The first thing for you to do is to let her feel how much you love her in a romantic way. you should know also the things that her bf cant do to make her happy and you should do these things. Let her feel that you love her more than her bf does.
But if you see that they really love each other and they are faithful to each other i think it is better to leave them alone. May be she is not the right woman for you.
If you need more advice, just tell me. I am willing to help you. I will ask some helps from my friends who have a problem like yours.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): hey man, what i would do is try to ease off on the getting in contact with her for a while. Then maybe just drop a text as if your just old mates like havent spoke to you in a while or something hows things? just a general text,if you get a message back id try to make her think that youre just mates at that you wont want to be getting back or anything. if it goes well tell her your situation(but not in so much depth) just something like i dont want to annoy or alarm you but i think im starting to like/fall in love with you again,if theres a posotive reply then maybe shes thinking about your past times too?? hope ive maybe helped a little bit ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): you may love this "Emma" Girl, but she is obviously happy with her boyfriend, and it sounds as if you are a bit obsessed with her as you keep texting her phone, think about how this makes her feel she probley feels annoyed by you doing that thats why maybe she changed her number. ok so you have history, but thats the past, she obviously loves her boyfriend. have you told this girl how you really feel? but you said it yourself she only saw you as a bit of fun, leave her alone and just stay mates. you sound as if you both share the same friends, you could still be friends, and you never know if her and her boyfriend split you could have a chance, but until then leave the poor girl alone
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (24 November 2009):
 tell her coz its happened to me to the point i couldnt take it and ended up in hospital. if she dont take any notice then ur gonna have to get over her its hard i know but it be better for you then you can find some1 that makes you just as happy as her bf makes her. good luck darlin
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