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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said sex is nothing special, i ... (654 words)

I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me bu... (84 words)

Could my drink have been spiked?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to drinking, so in replies please i... (272 words)

My husband is a cross dresser, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years and my husband is a cross dresser. I have try to understand it but it is hard. I do love him the problem is that he is always chatting and texting sexy and dirt talk and talking about crossdressing with women online. I have seen most of them and ... (120 words)

Will expanding our sex life to include other people help or hinder our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be attracted to the other girl more ... (107 words)

Why do guys like to smell a girl's hair!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i was wondering why guys smell girls' hair. I was hanging with one of my guy friends and we hugged and he picked me up and i could tell he smelled my hair. i heard it means the guy likes you. is it true? ... (47 words)

What are the odds that he still loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - From time to time, my ex still gets in touch with me. We have been broken up for several months now. At first our break-up was so messed up, we were bitter towards each other for months. But 3 months ago, he made peace with me that we decided to just let go of the past and ... (309 words)

Can anyone help here? How long does it take to move on...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like some advice on how long it takes to get over a relationship. I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and have since been split up for 6 months. We went cold turkey for a few months then got back into contact. We became very close again and it could be said we were ... (174 words)

Should I tell him how I'm feeling or just ignore it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship that seems to be one sided at times. It's been 3 months since we saw each other and almost a month since we spoke. I decided not to call him and see what happens but I now feel like I'm a burden to him. I have conflicted feelings and to make ... (94 words)

I don't know if I should back of and become strictly friends as we're having such a great time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here is the deal. I met this great guy but I made it clear from the beginning I was not interested in a relationship, which is totally true. It was fine since he has a girlfriend anyway. We became good friends, however we also knew from the beginning we were both sexually ... (312 words)

Am I having an orgasm???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - The past few days, after school I'd get home and there would be a yellowish discharge in my knickers. I recently found out girls cum during sex. I've never had sex so am I cumming? I recently went to the doctors to see if a discharge was anything to worry about. The tests ... (73 words)

I sit there every day and think about him (my ex) and cry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex split over 3 months ago and recently even though he has a new partner he has said he isnt actually happy and he thinks he may be going through a breakdown, because we share 2 children together and we were together from a young age for almost 6 years I`m beginning ... (135 words)

Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me. I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list for a class he was organisin... (311 words)

Am I a slut?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months into our relationship I kissed so... (209 words)

What could be the reason for very bad luck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) age - What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details , as it it is always ... (105 words)

Should I risk the friendship and tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we find each other attractive, but ... (153 words)

Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the "when you touch me too much, it ... (169 words)

I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it out and see if they break up? T... (106 words)

Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together? Or does it just drag me to her level to tell? Background: This girl possibly had a thing for my boyfriend before we got together, but she was ... (156 words)

What do you aunts think? Does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Before i met my boyfriend he had a female friend whom he was proposing to bit she preferred to be friends. They were very close and did everything that lovers do except for sex(so he says). After we got together he told her about me and she was disappointed. My guess is she ... (138 words)

Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a child bt if i am pregnant i'm ... (68 words)

He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks and this weekend he is staying ... (96 words)

The ex or the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age - Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman...in my eyes what he is looking ... (285 words)

What does he mean by 'give it some time'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologized to him, he told me he still lo... (83 words)

How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should be. He goes about it the same exa... (181 words)

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, whenever I wake up in the ... (131 words)

I'm going out with someone new but I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not feeling anything towards this ... (93 words)

I'm in love with my professor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we pass by each other around ... (862 words)

Should I come clean and tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet and he seems fine with that, ... (180 words)

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got married. So I have a few concerns ... (270 words)

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age - Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later, I ran into a friend of hers... (395 words)

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because he alwyas seemed to like me but s... (743 words)

I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ok but all of my family say i a... (119 words)

Why would my boyfriend suddenly exclude me from his birthday plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his friends. im just curious as to why ... (65 words)

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few months for the both of us i have d... (308 words)

I can't see a future with her, but I'm torn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided to go out with her. I foun... (368 words)

My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later and she asked why I didnt ... (651 words)

Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?... (43 words)

What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is favors. No connections or ... (87 words)

My girlfriend is worried about our future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help and i dont wat to do. My gf and i who ive been with for 4 and a half months and we both love eachother, are having a weird issue thats happened b4. We both go to the same school and hang out all the time, however recently, since the Christmas holidays are coming ... (248 words)

I need advice on my cheating girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys im rather upset about this but just wanted some constructive feedback and others opinions on it. last night my girlfriend of 4 years went to her male friends house and just them two were drinking until they were completely wasted and her brother picked her up ve... (324 words)

Can anyone tell me what these secretions are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really fine crystal sort of particle... (79 words)

Has anyone dealt with a passive aggressive man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age - Has anyone dealt with and know what a Passive Aggressive man is? I am in the midst of a two year battle of divorce because he continues to lie and drag his feet to produce things needed for court etc. He says he is " praying for me". He lies about eveything it seems...yet ... (236 words)

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro meet up again. he was ok but ... (230 words)

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online schooling and never get to see hime ... (85 words)

My mother is a compulsive hoarder!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother is a compulsive hoarder. She has been for as long as I can possibly remember, and once my father left it took over everything. I remember rushing to clean my house on my tenth birthday, so the friends I had invited over wouldn't see how much of a mess the house really ... (598 words)

Have I lost him for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First I'm new to this site. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Well would be two years in twelve days. Everything was perfect. he has a child with another women before we met. His daughter is two. In the first two months of our relationship his baby mama had contacted ... (1575 words)

Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight has anyone else had this befor... (96 words)

How can I explain this to him so we end on good terms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, things were going well and so he ... (930 words)

Are there really any good men out there that don't abuse ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There are a lot of evil people in the world. I was abused from the time I was 3 years old until I was 15 years old. I am 41 now. It seems like the abuse never goes away. In my life I always meet men who abuse me. I have been through a lot in life. Sometimes I wonder what ... (93 words)

I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm not sure he feels the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have asked this questions,he doesn't want to marry a person who already have a child,is he using me until he finds someone for his life and i want to stop cheating but he dont satisfy me sexually.all this questions are from me and it speaks of the same person,i really love ... (149 words)

How do you forget the person you are in love with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi to all. Anybody who can give some effective tips on how to forget a person whom you love so much that you can't live without him. I am waiting for your tips. Thank you.... (41 words)

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a very intensive program, and for ... (1383 words)

My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I had to accept living there, ... (436 words)

Should I question him about this or leave it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age - Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is and he is always kind and ... (196 words)

He doesn't show any emotions even though we are on a break! Do you think he loves me or is he just hiding his emotions to appear "manly"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are on a break. I've been sad, but he doesn't feel any emotions at all. He's broken up with me at least four times, and each time he wasn't coming back. Each time he told me he doesn't love me anymore, but in the end, he comes back to me. I feel so sad wh... (150 words)

I'm jealous of his past! Will I always feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've been together about two and a ... (203 words)

Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding what love feels like. It's just hard ... (303 words)

Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we are not together. If we are not ... (66 words)

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a lot, I've done research on... (158 words)

Sexually frustrated new mom... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are very young. We have been together for two + years, I got married when i was 18 and my husband was my first sex partner! I just a few weeks ago had a baby, our first. I am very sexually frustrated, (you can't have sex for at least six weeks after child ... (293 words)

How to stop liking your teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am a student in my sophmore year in high school. Last year, during grade nine, a new teacher came to the school halfway through the year. Ever since then, I have had this thing for him. He's 27, so I would definitely be jail bait. He just makes me laugh, especially ... (94 words)

Phone sex making fiance sleepy... am I just a sexual relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that every time after we have phone sex my fiance gets very sleepy afterwards. I mean well have phone sex a couple times a day sometimes, then shortly afterwards, he's over there snoozing. Am I the only one that this happens to. When he falls asleep, I tend to hang ... (85 words)

Bf has 11 inch penis... how can we make sex more comfortable for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing. He has an 11 inch penis, which I d... (89 words)

In love with my friends girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?... (49 words)

I bled after masturbating - what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i told my boyfriend stop now i ... (97 words)

I'm paranoid he's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for seven months now, we love eachother alot, well atleast i hope he does, he tells me alot that he loves me. i have been hurt in the past by a boy and i now find it so hard to trust my boyfriend, but do i have a reason not to trust him, i t... (356 words)

He's a great guy, but I'm still afraid of being used for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

20 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf are together since 8months, though i went away to university and haven't seen him for these last two months. when i was there, we used to kiss and he gave me oral too. i tried to give it to him but couldn't. he is the most amazing person, takes care of me(still), ... (424 words)