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Men don't turn me on, but they don't turn me off either. What does that mean?

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Question - (23 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm not really sure about my sexual preference right now. I've always been really attracted to girls but I've also never been GROSSED OUT by guys.

I've dated a few girls and I'm still extremely attracted to girls, but while other guys gag when they see gay people making out in school, I just don't find it that gross. I get a little uncomfortable but I just look away and it's not a big deal.

I've never had sex with a girl but I really do want to and I watch porn all the time. I like watching lesbian porn but when I see a penis getting pleasured I'm also pretty turned on. I think that may be because I'm picturing the man as myself. But I honestly have no real interest in men, but somehow I can't get it out of my head that I'm supposed to be turned off gay people. I've never found myself attracted to a boy, but I've been able to comprehend when I see an attractive male celebrity (like leonardo dicaprio, christian bale, etc.) But I've never wanted to ever BE with a man in any way. But am I gay for even spare any of these thoughts?

Sorry if this is a dumb question.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (23 November 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntOnly guys afraid of their sexuality claim to be repulsed by men. They don't think it through because how then do they look in the mirror long enough to shave?

A straight man is indifferent to men. A straight woman is indifferent to women. And in reverse for homosexual people.

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