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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. Before that I'd never had a relationship last more than 2 months. I've gone after the wrong guys and been hurt bad.My current bf is amazing. He treats me well, respects me and the other day said he couldn't imagine his life without me in it. I haven't slept with him, although we do other things, and he's ok to wait.The only thing is that I get insecure sometimes. I know he's busy with all these other things but sometimes when he doesn't message or call me I get all paranoid. In the past the guys I was dating would first stop calling and then break up with me, so I get the same feelings when he doesn't call.Logically I know this won't happen but I can't stop thinking the worst. How do I calm down and not get so insecure?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Thanks guys, your answers help me realize that I'm just insecure and need to work on that myself.
Trip, your answer has really made a difference. Thanks :)
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reader, Trip +, writes (24 November 2009):
Has he ever given you reason to feel like he wants breakup? From what I've seen he loves you like mad since he can't imagine a world without you. Don't worry so much about him breaking up with you, and try to just be in the relationship. The best piece of advice I can give you is to talk to him about it how you've been feeling lately and let him know how he feels different to you.
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reader, rose the relationship solver  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 you say he loves you and treats you right and if he didnt he would not be with yo, do things try and get your mind of it turn of your phone or read till he does
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