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26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT.So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him and boys in general?(No I dont hate boys by the way ,its just that they blag my head. I dont need that right now, I have enough on my plate.I know some boys can be really nice. The only thing I'm looking for rightnow is friendship)Im still young and I want to focus on things that really matter. I want to enjoy my teenage experience properly without worrying about relationships because I'm not ready. Problem is I'v based my world around guys(I dont even know If I'll live without fancying someone) Help! Now that I'm free from him what do I do? Whats the first step after releasing yourself?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 November 2009):
You basically need to find yourself.
At 13 - 15 you are just finding out who you really are and really want to be in life.
So spend some me time on yourself. Think about what you like doing, and what kind of person you want to be. What kinds of women do you think are really cool?
Models, actresses, people who run businesses, people who save lives, people who fight crime or injustice, people who care for other people, people who work with nature or travel.
Talk to your friends and see what they could imagine you being one day.
Get some interests and dreams and then go exploring them. Join some groups and clubs and make lots of great friends and you are set for life.
Friends really are the most important things to have in your life. Boys come and go and you may be lucky and find your soul mate one day, but it's your friends who you still want to hang out with and be yourself with.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (23 November 2009):
 Now that you have moved on, and have realised how mnuch hard work boys really are, just get on with your life.
go out there and accomplish your dreams and do what you've always wanted to experience. I don't know what kind of person you are, but just go out and hang with your mates. Have some sleepovers with a few of your closest girls, just gossip, tell stories, tell your pass, anything you feel comfortable with. go shopping , theme parks all of those days out.
whatever you do; don't go looking for a boy, he will come to you. so keep your options open :)
good luck
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