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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He lost interest but I can't forget him, even though I'm now seeing a great guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please get some sense into me? I went out on a date with this guy and we really hit it off. He's in the airforce and the day after our date he left on a three week assignment. During the three weeks he was away he messaged me every day and called me every two/thr... (310 words)

He asked to see naked pictures of another woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i just want to ask you lady's out there what you would do if you caught your boyfriend out, that he had been asking your BROTHER to see NAKED pictures of my brother's girlfriend. My boyfriend says that its just natural for a lad, and i would look at a naked lad if my fr... (184 words)

I sometimes feel bad about not being able to relate to my friends when they talk about guys or their relationships.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I sometimes feel bad about not being to relate to my friends when they talk about guys or their relationships. I've only been in one serious relationship, but they've been in more. They don't make me feel bad or left out or anything, but I just feel like I don't fit in or they ... (227 words)

Whats wrong if a man can only reach orgasm through masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts I have a question for a friend. She recently revealed to me that she is having sex problems with her husband. They have sex for hours but he won't cum. She thinks there is something wrong with her because he can masturbate while watching porn and cum. I asked her if ... (260 words)

How do I deal with roommate temperature problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a roommate who likes it cold and don't get me wrong I like it cool too, but she likes to keep it at 65 degrees Fahrenheit or below with 2 or 3 fans on in our dorm room and the window open even when it's snowing/blizzarding out. I've confronted her about this three ... (92 words)

Help needed! How can I get over her past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 other guys before me. I can ... (249 words)

How do I handle my husband???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my husband have been married for almost a year and a half and we have a 7 month old daughter. My husband just won't communicate with me and I don't know what else to do with out leaving. He always gives me an attitude about something and doesn't like my mother, we ... (399 words)

I feel like the whole world is against me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whats happening to me at the moment. I haven't written on here for ages, and now it seems that evrything that I've built up over the last few months is falling to pieces. With my parents nothing ever feels good enough for them, and they never stop having a go. On t... (286 words)

I'm having a strong desire to run before I am hurt. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Feeling so uneasy with this. He didn't say he loves me back, and I'm afraid of how this is affecting me now. Yes, it's important that he treats me well, and he does. He says he doesn't want to jinx anything. Meanwhile, I'm having a strong desire to run before I am hurt. ... (62 words)

Is there too much trust lost or can it be salvaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Someone I really care about is hurting because of my past actions. I have been seeing someone who I met at work for a year who is much younger than me and we got along really well and enjoyed each others company. About 4 months into the relationship I became pregnant by accid... (564 words)

Why a "secret" relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im having a problem. if you get into a relationship and he/she doesnt wanna tell certain people, does that mean he/she is ashamed of being with you infront of other people or does he/she think those people wouldn't understand?... (41 words)

Am I getting my hopes up thinking he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. Please. I’ve been speaking to a guy I know on msn for about a year. We speak often and get on pretty well. I really like him. We have some mutual friends who we’re both close to, but it’s taken a long time for us to speak. I joined his class a few weeks ba... (394 words)

Boyfriend punishing me for the past....when will it end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 2 years now. He is in the Army and ten years younger than me. 6 months into this blissful relationship he got sent to Iraq for 11 months. On R and R, mid deployment he proposed and I accepted. When he went backto Iraq, ... (378 words)

Is porn to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 and iv been married for 4 years and i love my husband and i do everything i do my hair, makeup and ect. you name it i do it. but in the end i dont feel that hes intrested in me he sais that hes tired and he only wants it once a week, and i found out he looks at porn ... (112 words)

Flirting with a coworker...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I was talking to my bf on skype today while I was at work and I put my headset down to answer the phone. Well the person that called was a co-worker, hes an older guy that flirts with everyone, I was being friendly with him but I know that I wasn't flirting and when I hung ... (218 words)

Do you think this mess is worth working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So I'm going to try to be as real and honest about this as I can be. I have a ex. She just abruptly broke up with me a month ago. We were together for five years and ended up having three really cute kids. We have a lot in common from food to ideas to thoughts. What we don't ... (749 words)

How can I have more regular sex with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly two years now, everything is going well but we have never had a good sex life but this was a mutual decision at first but then we both started enjoying it. But the main problem is over the past month or so she has stopped ... (125 words)

Are women intimidated by an attractive male?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm kind of curious, I work in with a few woman and I not really after pulling them or sleeping with them at all, I've got someone else in my eye! However what I'm curious about it are women intimidted by an attractive male either at work or in general? I go to ask some of ... (187 words)

Is he just liking our low hassle relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5519 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i've been with my boyfriend for over two years now and it's gone so strange. For the first year of us being together he was perfect. Attentive, loving, always there, we spoke every day and he told me how much he cared about me repeatedly. But we've been getting les... (159 words)

Can anal sex get you pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?... (11 words)

Snoring and talking in his sleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What causes a guy to snore and sleep talk, if h never use to do it before?... (17 words)

How to make friends when I'm shy and overweight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there! Friends, i am a student of 9th Class, i am overweigted and shy guy. All students irritate me, laugh at me without any reason and i don't have any in this class but last year i had many friends and they said that i am a good friend. Why is this so OR what should i do. ... (74 words)

What would dramatically increase my chances of conceiving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance are trying for a baby. But four months down the line, still no luck :-( i'm 21 and he's 30. He's not so much of a healthy eater and survives mostly on junk, but I eat balanced meals and alot of vegetables. Getting to my point, i'm looking for suggestions on ... (92 words)

What do I need to do to show her we should be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex (4 years together--a few months apart) and I have been seeing one another again and speaking frequently. She has a new BF, but I love her and want her back. She knows this. Our breakup was due to my bipolar disorder, but I am well now. My ex will not tell her new BF that ... (168 words)

Will she get pregnant even though I wiped the sperm away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i got spirm on the top of my girlfriends virgina but not in it she used a wipe to get it off straight away will she be pregnant or shouldnt i worry ?... (33 words)

Boyfriend vs. best friend situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so im in a confusing, yet silly situation that i seem to have not alot of people to talk to. A not-so-close friend of mine brought up the subject of my bf, who i have just gotten back with after a long break, we had some issues, got back, and it's in my opinion going well. She ... (343 words)

Is it normal for a man to masterbate after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if it is normal for a man to masturbate after sex, even if he cums? also if a man tells me he loves me dring sex, what does that mean? he only said when we were in the act.... (42 words)

How do I make my penis smaller?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't like the size of my penis. It actually gets in the way. How can I make it smaller?... (20 words)

Should I date him despite what friends/family say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok so i am 15 year old girl dating a 19 year old guy we love eatch other more than any thing and life with out him just would not happen.. my aunt says i should end it with him she does not like the age diff. and she is a cop and my ucle her husband works for the news people ... (121 words)

Is this a sign he doesn't want marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I finally did it! I said I love you to him. I couldn't hold it in any longer. He said that he thinks about saying it to me but can't right now, and asked me if that was okay. I said "yes for now", because I didn't say it for him to say it back. He said he is enjoying our ... (242 words)

How do you regain trust after someone smashed it with a jackhammer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you regain trust after someone has smashed it with a jackhamer?.... aka my bf of almost 3 years slept with my best friend of over 10 years. I feel very traumatized by the whole thing, and I had trust issues before this all happened. I think I may be damaged to the point ... (109 words)

How can I gain the confidence to ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i hav been in love with the same boy 4 agez now but neva had the confidentz 2 ask him out. i dicided i was actually gonna tell him soon, i hav known him a long time, we get along well, he is really nice etc. but he's always surrounded by galz n he can really annoy me, he's... (148 words)

Are we expecting too much of friends in the community?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have four children, ages 11, 9, 8 and 4. The issue is that we do not get out very often. It's not really that we do not have babysitters. My family is always willing to babysit. I really like people. I mingle easily and love to get out. It's just that w... (350 words)

Can anyone tell me how to kiss on the cheek?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to master how to, I just can't ... (172 words)

Teenage LDR: any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends have, and we always talk ... (202 words)

How do I remove the invisible tattoo on my forehead that says, "dupe"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age - After breaking up with my bf, who lied to me about being single, I started casually dating. After sorting through some real jerks, I thought I found Mr. Right. Guess what! He's also married. After I confronted him with the evidence ( ad on dating site listing himself ... (220 words)

He wants to marry me but chats online to women..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age - Cupid Aunt, I (45) have been in a steady relationship with a wonderful guy, about 9 years older than me, for about two years. We are compatible in every way possible. He has even asked me to marry me and we have made future plans. However, he frequently chats to woman on ... (75 words)

Need some clarification on her flirting techniques! What did she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, just a quick question about flirting. This girl and I have been flirting for a while, mostly harmless but sometimes more suggestive. Recently, we were flirting by text, and she sent me a teasing message, questioning my sexual experience, jokingly suggesting that I probably... (84 words)

What does first time sex feel like? Are you nervous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Just curious is all....my girlfriend and I have been going out for two years and the topic of sex was brought up, something we talk about alot, but never actually plan to do it for a long time. So, anyway, what does everyone feel the first time? Nerves for example? Does ... (63 words)

I like her and need tips on how to handle myself, on our first date...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've known this girl through an online social site for 3 months. she's a lesbian and is also the first and only girl i have ever liked, and even though we have never met but my gut feeling tells me that if we both pursue further we might end up getting into a relationship..you ... (258 words)

Married man problems..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i got accidentally involved with a married man who is my boss too i m 37 and he's 55 we never did sex but ya bit oral activities i like talking to him as i m unmarried he's ask me not to call before his wife and keeps all measures to hide his affair with me from his family says ... (86 words)

Heard a lot of bad things about this guy...should I drop him or give him a fair shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab...anyways he has a real big crush on me. Keep... (314 words)

Jet water masturbation..does it break your hymen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Does water jet masturbation break your hymen? Is that possible? Am I still a virgin if I do it? That's always been very confusing to me. Help?... (27 words)

Her bf talks dirty to me on msn...is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, A few weeks ago, my best friend got really drunk at a party and got off with this bloke who has been our friend for ages. The next day at school, they decided to hook up. Now personally i dont think that ts right to go out with someone after a drunken mistake.... (303 words)

We made up again, but I am crushed about his fling with another woman when were apart! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a huge rut. I was with this guy for 2 years before breaking up and we each slept with someone else. The difficult part is that for one we were engaged, and also that we had a child and 1 month and a half after he was born, we broke up and I was on my own. It gets worse. ... (665 words)

I'm 13 and wondering if I am a lesbian?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and like boys. But last weekend I stayed at my BFF house like we do sometimes. That night we started talking about boys and sex and stuff. We were talking about what it is like with our boyfriends and started messing around. So we ended up kissing. I was really... (125 words)

Do you think he blames me for him getting to work late? What is going on with him?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my bf was supposed to come over yesterday night, because he needed me to wake him up at 5 in the morning because he has work at 6, he never came over and i called him like at 10 the next morning, asking him why he did not come over again, he said he went out and that he is ... (177 words)

I love him but am willing to let him go...but he has some college books I need and I can't talk to him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i hooked up with mu housemate during the summer but he didnt want a relatiosnhip. recently i saw him agian and it was lovely to see each other but he said its too hard for us to see each other asnd i nearly agree even thio i love him im willing to let him go..but i ... (95 words)

I want to move forward with our relationship, but I won't until I have some sort of commitment! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. so my situation is a little complicated i'm afraid. Basically theres this guy, and me and him have been friends for a long time. And he liked me a while back, but I wasnt interessted cos I was getting over my ex. Now over summer we hung out a lot, which I felt bad about ... (399 words)

Do you think it's okay to send your ex a Happy Birthday message? Or should you just leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Do U think its ok to send your ex happy birthday message or just leave it?... (16 words)

I want to wait to get married, but she wants it now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years, I'm a really bad person because I lied to her, we got engaged then a year later I said I didn't want to get married, I have a habit of oppressing my feelings, I don't open up or say how I really feel, I want to spend the rest ... (111 words)

How can I regain my self worth and self esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age - I really dont know how to put this into words except to say that with my current partner of 14 month, I have just lost it... My husband died alsmost 3 years ago. I never thought that at age 50 I would find someone who matched me so well again. I also never thought I would ... (532 words)

Oral sex makes me too sensitive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've noticed that whenever my boyfriend gives me oral sex my clitoris is really sensitive and it feels really uncomfortable, ive never masturbated could that be why? and how can i stop it? ... (33 words)

How do I get them Naked?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. ok here is my dilema. im male and bisexual. im currently in my last year of school and like 3 guys - one in particular. basically i want to get with them/see them naked so i can satisfy my curiosity. my question is how can i get a striaght guy to comfortably become naked ... (63 words)

I'm in love with my gorgeous aunt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Aunt is a gorgeous redhead with an amazing body. I fell in love with her about three years ago and ever since then I cant stop thinking of her in a sexual way. Every time I see her I flirt with her and sometimes I suspect she knows this and flirts back too. I gaze at her ... (164 words)

Should I tell him I meant it when I said that I loved him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

- Last night I said in my sleep "i love you" to my bf for the first time. We have never said 'i love you' to each other yet before. I sleep talk quiet often, but usally I either just mumble things he cant understand or im yelling and screaming when I have nightmares. But my... (234 words)

I'm dating my lesbian cousin and I'm scared...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm dating my lesbian cousin and i'm scared... i mean, i like her but i'm scared of what the family will do... when i told my mom i was bi, she almsot sent me to a different state to live with my grandmother... if i tell her about my cousin (her sister's daughter) she'... (246 words)

I want her to shave and take more showers, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've seen my girlfriend naked plenty of times and i think she has a wonderful body but theres a problem... I want her to shave...down there... but i dont want to just blurt it out like that... How can i tell her... i mean if i have to just live with it, i think i can... (286 words)

What can I do be ready for lesbian sex?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been planning to lose our virginity to each other soon but there's one problem. I dont know how to be ready... I mean, i take showers everyday if not almost everyday but for some reason i just dont feel like im clean enough... i ondt want to ... (137 words)

I broke up with my b/f because I love my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 16 years old and am in love with my former teacher. I know there is so many questions on this website about this issue, but I just need some specific help. I have known him for 3 years now, and he taught me for two. I moved away at the end of last year to another ... (276 words)

Is she leaving me hanging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently decided to reconnect with my old school friends and most importantly, reconnect with a woman who I had a crush on in high school but never had the courage to ask out. I met her on Facebook and I post chat with her on a somewhat regular basis. mostly these cha... (229 words)

Embarassing vaginal odor - is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I was probably 15 (I'm 19 now) I've had a distinct smell from my vagina. I know it's normal for girls to have an odor or scent down there, but sometimes its strong enough that if I just sit with my legs apart I can smell it. Along with the smell, theres days when I'm ... (240 words)

Is my girl hinting that she wants anal sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my girlfriend and I had tried anal sex a long time ago and she didn't like it, but we didn't do the "prep" work to make it enjoyable, sort of just were spontaneous about it...big mistake. Anyhow, I can care less, but she asked for it then and she now seems to be more... (208 words)

Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and that I wasn't try to replace her ... (391 words)

Busy with sick mum for a week so my girlfriend ended it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Here is the situation, and thank you for reading this and possibly giving me some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now, and we usually spend everyday together. If not then we talk on the phone often and text. I am 20, and she is 19. There are ... (263 words)

My friend is pregnant - father unknown!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have a friend, and yes its actually a friend. im trying to help her out. ok so shes fifteen. shes pregnant. but..... she doesnt know who the father is. she doesnt want to know who the father is. does she have to take a d.n.a. test or is that up to her. she says she just... (79 words)

My boyfriend hasn't touched me for a month. Is there someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Looking for honest answers here: My boyfriend of 4 years and I have not had sex in more than a month. He was away for 3 and 1/2 week on business, but he's now been back for an entire week. We live together, but the first 2 nights he was back, he stayed at his mother's house. ... (214 words)

My boyfriend cheated. Should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Ive been in High School for three years. Ive had 2 serious relationships, that turned out to be lame. Now I found Brad. Brad is seriously awesome, he gets along with my friends, he gives me everything I need, he's known me all my life, he's been there for me when i nee... (429 words)

Boy troubles - which one should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Im dumb with boy troubles. Six months ago, I was suppost to date this guy called Zak whos 16, Im 15. Everything was working out perfect, until we got into a fight, and stopped talking. Then I dated this guy called Dylan for three months, everything was great, we... (245 words)

He will live with his mum so we won't have any privacy, am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back and so I am probably jumping ahead but he did tell me he was thinking of giving up his apartment and just stay at his mom's to save money..most nights he is there anyways so she isn't alone. The idea of it doesn't bother me, still care for him him no ... (325 words)

My lesbian cousin wants to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay..my first cousin (she's 17 and im 16 year old GIRL) wants to date me. We used to do sexual things(just oral) when we were younger but i didn't think this would happen. I know deep down i feel the same about her but i dont know what to do. She also wants to take my virgi... (107 words)

Should I pursue my gay cousin?

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8 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, I am gay, and my 3rd cousin twice removed is as well (homosexual and male), and i'm not going to beat around the bush, i want to hook up with him and have even thought about dating him. 1. Is this bad? 2. What do i do about it?... (55 words)

Should I be a friend while he goes through a divorce or cease contact until it's sorted?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a divorced single mother of 2 little boys, 6 and 8. I recently started seeing a man who is separated with 3 children but his divorce won't go through until he and his ex have agreed on custody and support issues. I was cautious about dating him in the first place because ... (449 words)

All I want is to fall in love with someone that will love me back. Is that too much to ask for?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I was wondering if I could get some advice on how to attract love into my life. I ended up asking a man out and we dated for about six months. Before then I had not dated since before my marriage and have been divorced for ten years. He had only been di... (276 words)

BF has other priorities than a relationship... should I wait for him?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seing this guy for over a year now. its basically an open relationship. it strictly sexual when we first started it. But as time passed by, we both started getting attached. I know he cares for me but the problem is he doesnt show it. He actually started ignoring me ... (92 words)

Eloping this weekend... then how do I tell my parents when we get back?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing an older man secretly for a year my parents know him but don't know about us he is not married he has a farm right next to us and i help him all the time we our going to get married this weekend when we go to a cattle sale in another town how do we tell my ... (101 words)

Why am I still holding on when he doesn't want me?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - April 2009 i moved out of my ex's house and moved in with my mom. it was a very confusing breakup i didnt really understand why we were breaking up but i knew i had to leave. anyway, i still loved him very deeply and he started treating me badly like I didn't exist until he ... (224 words)

Is it ok to be sexually active at 15 years old?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is is ok to be sexually active with your boyfriend at the age of 15 if you two have only been going out for about 4 months or so??... (29 words)

My live-in BF doesn't seem to feel things... How do I express myself without being rejected?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi to all and any who may read this. I am involved in a living arrangement with a man for about a year. There have been a lot of ups and downs as to be expected but I am very uncomfortable with some of what I am experiencing. It seems as though whenever I express an emoti... (236 words)

How can I tell?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I want to have sex with my soon to be husband but the problem is that I dont know if he wants to have sex with me. How can I tell if he wants to have sex with me before the weding? ... (45 words)

Does this guy like me more then a friend?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this guy like me more then a friend? he's a year older then me and during lunch he would come and carry me around or take my stuff so i would have to chase him. this year during lunch he comes to wear i sit (we have different lunches) but his class is in the portables so... (232 words)

I want a family he wants his career and a harem.

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke off with the guy i was seeing last December because i couldn't continue living without emotional security and without being able to express honestly my feelings and emotions with him. I want a family he wants his career and a harem. I said we should still be friends ... (357 words)

I need my man to be sexy AND have brains!

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people.. I recently met a guy ..we have chemistry, but the thing is he's not that educated aka we cant talk about philosophy, literature etc. Sex-wise I'm attracted to him but then again I dont know if I could be satisfied with a sexual relationship. I slept at his ... (176 words)

Was he just being honest???

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that i'm dating. he always says that he is not a liar, that he hates liars, that he's a straight forward person, he tells it how it is and he doesn't hold back for anyone. it's quiete obvious that he appears to be very honest. but the problem that i have with him ... (231 words)

I think my teacher wants me... what should I do?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I think maybe I'm just being paranoid but I'm not sure. I think my teacher may like me. I thought he was handsome the first day of class and I was annoyed by this because I didn't want him to distract me from learning. However, the second time I went to his class I ... (888 words)

Are we too young for sex?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boufriend keeps wanting to have sex w/ me. my problem is that #1 i think were too yong. #2 i dont know how to have sex HELP!!! [mod note: poster presents an age of 21]... (41 words)

I am sick of the arguing... should I move on?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and im a really cool girl and ive been dating this guy on and off for atleast 2 years, but we have known each other since i was in 7th grade. i love him very very much and i would do anything for him. but idk if he would do the same for me. we have been arguing ... (90 words)

Should I tell my best friend I fancy him?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid: I am 15 and he is 15 and his girlfriend is 15. I like my best friend but he has a girlfrind, he is always flirting with me and only me. He touches my leg and lifts me up, and wen we talk online he puts (K)'s and hearts, and he tells me that he is going to kiss me... (215 words)

He's sending mixed signals - does he like me or not?

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8 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here it goes..... i like this guy in uni, we met offically just over a week ago but i liked him before then.. whats been happening is there is some major flirting and chatting when we are sober, and when i was drunk i propa came on to him but he didnt take it seriously!!! ... (287 words)