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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ever since we got really drunk one night and had sex, he'!s been acting weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best guy friend and I got really drunk and had sex one night. He doesn't remember a thing, but ever since then he's been acting weird. Before I go any further I think I should give some background information: Before the sex, we were as close as you could get - we w... (310 words)

I just transferred colleges and now find myself critiqued, marginalized and hearing snide comments about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not someone who normally takes things personally or to heart but I have been overwhelmed lately by the negative reinforcement I have been getting by people I go to school with. I am a senior in college, just transferred, and while some might think my problem is simpl... (232 words)

Why do I always drift away in relationships or is it just fate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years of age and I'v only had 2 proper intimiate relationships. Everytime I get intimate with someone, you would think that would bring me closer to that person but somehow we drift apart. I know it's somthing to do with my extreme shyness, I dont know how... (236 words)

B/f doesn't trust me and thinks I will cheat on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i'm 16 and have been going with my boyfriend for 1year and 9months, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i really regret this and would never be unfaithful to him, however, my boyfriend has trouble beleieving this any really doesn't ... (179 words)

Do I owe my ex closure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) age - [Moderator Note: Additional information posted under heading 'Am I being unfair to my ex-girlfriend?' Link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-being-unfair-to-my-ex-girlfriend.html] Hi I'm in a bit of a quandry. I was with my ex for 6 years and I walked out last Mar... (401 words)

How do I give a good hand job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some tips on how to give a good hand job? what do they like? thanks x... (22 words)

What do you think of this girl? We've been attracted to each other on and off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok question any gender of thoughts would be appreciated.... ok so lets say you like a girl you and you have been attracted to each other on and off.. then last year you took her to her hs prom and you liked her alot... she didnt like you at the time... but you have seen her ... (171 words)

He said we'd talk about it when we were at his house or mine!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so iv been texin this boy for almost 5months and we've been meeting but we have never spoke about our relation ship, we were texin the other night and i asked him what he wanted but when he answered he asked if we could talk about it another time when we were at either my ... (89 words)

Why did he get back in contact ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i after arguing quite abit for a few months (mainly through me not trusting my boyfriend due to his cheating in the past), my ex said that we were over. i said that i did not want any contact if i were to move on he agreed. we had a city break planned for a four days,... (226 words)

Should I trust him again and move forward,or cut my losses and go home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with someone for 8 months. Going in, we discovered early on, that we needed what each other had to offer. We were both burned from previous relationships, and genuinely were grateful to have found each other. I told him about my marriage, and that I was ... (511 words)

Are these reacurring sex dreams a sign that I am a pervert?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having reacurring sex dreams of me and my 15 yr old niece. When they happen i wake up in a cold sweat. Once i even ejactulated while i was dreaming. I would never do anything with my niece and now if i see her or talk to her i feel guilty as if i had done something ... (87 words)

I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel terrible should I come clean ... (75 words)

How do I tell a guy I like I'm not ready yet to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So theres this guy i like at school and hes in two of my classes and i was talking to one of my friends and she told me that he said to her that he realllyyy likes me, and that he wants to ask me out, but wants to get to know me a little better first. So i was really happy ... (149 words)

Why did my wife stop having sex with other men and is unwilling to discuss it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have acted on my fantasy of watch her have sex with other men - four times and three times with one of the guys. I was so turned on! Before this fantasy became a reality we talked about it and she was okay with it because it was for me – as she put it. The ... (320 words)

I think I'm being played by this youger guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in grade 12 girl,and the guy i like is in grade 9 but looks like 20 years old.all the girls think hes handsom and love him off,we started to talk and etc..but one day he kissed me on my lips without me seeing it coming his friend was there and witnessed it.he asked for ... (117 words)

How can I overcome my loss of confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I havent been in a relationship for 6months. the time when the previous relationship ended. i was recently at the bus stop waitin for a bus and there was also an attractive lady. i didnt ask her out cuz i didnt hav the guts at the time. however is it cuz deep down im still not ... (84 words)

Help! I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - I have a lot of anxiety problems and I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night! - I look awful first thing in the morning and worry my fella will wake and see me! I also snore and I worry my boyfriend won't like it! - What should I do as I love my ... (65 words)

Could the pregnacy test be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Like 2 and a half weeks ago i was supposed to have my period...but i didnt, so last weekend i got a pregnancy test at the dollarstore (i heard they work) and took it, and got negative. So i forgot about it, thinking that my period would be coming in a few days, but it hasnt. ... (225 words)

Why do men cheat? Why don't they just leave the relationship if they are unhappy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why do men cheat? is it more likely for an older man to cheat with a younger woman? if a man is unhappy in his relationship why doesnt he just end it? im just curious about this topic, and would love for many opinions, thanks... (46 words)

Do you think he likes me? Why did he say nah?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a couple friends were standing in the hallway and talking at recess, and my crush came in and one of my friends was like "****! she loves you" and he was like "i know, haha" and i turned soooooo red, so i looked away, and she was like "do you love her back ?" and he was ... (253 words)

He texted me 5 times saying he was going to call, but he never did. Why does he bother to text he's gonna call in the first place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now but it became a long distance relationship about 4 months ago (i had to move for school). we argued before but nothing serious, got mad at each other, but nothing that lasted more than a couple of hours. This time was... (522 words)

Should I ask her out or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Alright I have a question that needs to be answered immediately, please. There's this girl that i really like and I think I'm goin to ask her out tonight. just to give her the whole weekend to think about it. The only thing is that were really good friends and if I ask and she ... (93 words)

Late period, and pregnancy test is negative! What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just took a pregnancy test because I'm over a week late for my period, the test was negative... Should i take another one? If yes how long should I wait? And what should I do? I'm normally not this late!... (41 words)

Help! My bf is way too jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im having a jealousy problem with my boyfriend of 8 months. Everytime I speak to lads he gets jealous, but today is his birthday and some lasses commented on his facebook whome are WAY prettier than me, like I don't wannah be in a relationship were jealousy takes o... (63 words)

I really like him but am trying to decide if I should have sex with him, as he has suggested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen head over heels for a guy I work with, we both fancy each other but I am shy and he doesn't want a relationship, we have kind of just been flirting and having the odd kiss and "grope" now and again, after work or sometimes at work, he has just told me he is ... (149 words)

Should I stay hopeful that my friend will return or just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have noticed that my friends have gone through phases where one would kind of deviate from our group and started to hang out with another group. (And completely forget about us/not talk to us as much while they hung out with that group.) Most have come back into our group- ... (171 words)

I'm really paranoid thinking that she is cheating one me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Now this is a tough one. Me and my partner have been on and off for 4 years. I love her more than anything and I wish she felt the same but she has said that she doesnt. I cheated on her for 2 months but never had sex with this girl, I had a phase were I had a split p... (327 words)

I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him face-to-face but I know that he ... (194 words)

Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best friends for about 12 years. On ... (141 words)

He orgasms so quickly!! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question which might sound sad, but I have been meeting this guy on and off for a while and we have kissed and on the last few times he has asked me to give him a hand job, the first time, he came quite quick and I was surprised but the second time, we had only been ... (103 words)

Did you go against your christian beliefs and have sex before marriage? Input needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (?) age 51-59 - This question is for practicing Catholics or christians who were taught that sex before marriage is wrong. I want to hear from those who have went against what their churches teach and have had sex before marriage and have happy marriages. I'd like to hear why you went ... (76 words)

Nausea, fatique, body aches...am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling nauseous just about all day for the past couple days. I've also had head and body aches, and have been more tired than usual. My period isn't expected for another two weeks or so, but I'm worried I might be pregnant. Could I be pregnant? Also, being that it's ... (60 words)

I have a crush on him and he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya there's a boy in my year i hav a crush on but i hav realised he never looks me in the eye. me n my friends often sit near him in class n he'll talk to them but blocks me out. its like i am not there. he'll tlk to me if he's pickin on me (messin around)but then he looks aw... (86 words)

Can I ever find happiness again in life while I am still in this marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Been married for close to 12 years with 3 lovely girls. My husband is an orphan,he had nothing when we got married, i worked so hard to build our marriage, 3 years ago he started behaving funny, between 2006 and late last year he had slept with 4 women including my best friend ... (233 words)

How do I stop the fire from fading in our long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is tuesdai Im currently in a long distance relationship with my Bf it has been a 1year and couple months since we were in this. We love each othe dearly but right now we getting the feeling that the fire in fading how do i prevent this from happenin anymore? :(... (56 words)

If he is ready to move in with me then why is he not spending more time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he has been unemployed for over half of our relationship. he is currently living with family outside of the town we live in. when he first moved in with his parents he started a "routine" of one night during the ... (119 words)

Everytime my boyfriend has sex with me, his penis gets soft.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3750 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 months now, and about 2 weeks ago we were having sex and his penis just got soft. He completely satisfies me sexually, I mean he even makes me squirt. He tells me that it is a turn on for him and that he really enjoys i... (437 words)

Why don't men spend money on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have always dated men who do not spend money on me. They would have splashed out on their previous gf's but not on me. Usually I am the one to get them great gifts but I rarely get anything cool in return, just cards and some random generic gift like candles etc. ... (92 words)

I want her back desperately! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. now we used to talk a LOT in cl... (288 words)

He just up and left me after I helped him. His excuse: I accused him of cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i let my boyfriend of six months come stay with me 3 months ago when he lost his place and soon after his job. at the begin i was thinking he was cheating because females used to always call his phone but the calls stopped after he moved in. then one month after he moved in i ... (121 words)

Does she truely want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heya Well basically i dont know if my girlfriend/bestfriend for 4 years... truely wants to be with me or is cheating. First of all, shes 19 im 18, she wont let me tell anyone we are going out, because her mom would cuss her out she says, and make her life hell. She i... (386 words)

I think I.m in love with the tattoo artist,,should I ask him out for a drink?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - just under 3 weeks ago i had a tattoo done. it wasn't my first tattoo, it was a cover up of an old one. the tattooist was a man in his late 40s, who didn't look like a typical tattooist at all. he was just an attractive older man. he also had a magnetic personality, and now ... (117 words)

I need help on how to initiate sex and make him to want me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im a 22year old female, im going out with a 34 year old male, iv always gone for older blokes, im a confident person, im a big girl, i always have been, problem is i dont have alot of confidence in the bedroom department. i dont 'dare' make the first move. my b.f has been ... (124 words)

My brother scolds me for very small reasons! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15. my brother is 20. my problem is, in the last few days, my brother scolds or whacks me for very small reasons. for example, just asking "what are you studying ?" earns me a verbal thrashing. please tell me what to do.... (51 words)

How can I help my girlfriend with all her issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and I am with my girlfriend, my sweetheart for 2 years now. we love each other a lot. I want her to be extremely happy, singing and dancing as she is always therefore I am a concerned about a problem that is affecting her. She has been having dreams for the past many ... (212 words)

Friend with benefits, why is this such hard work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I saw this guy I knew of through a friend while I was on a night out. Wouldn't have normally spoken to him but he spoke to me and we had a dance and a kiss and swapped numbers. The next week he text me literally non stop and we arranged a date for the following ... (366 words)

I can't compete with his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I have been with my fiance for two years but I cannot get over HIS Ex. When he and I met, he had been single for two years after breaking up with the first woman he was ever emotionally involved with. He lived with her and her child from a previous relationsh... (270 words)

He said he will always love me but we cant get back together because his mother will never accept me!

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I was in an abusive relationship for 10years and was ready to end my life when i had an old boyfriend call me up. He is also in a married . He told me that he couldnt stop thinking of me no matter in which part of the world he was in and he still loves me althoug... (570 words)

What did he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i had a fight a few weeks ago, and he was being very stubborn and said this line "if u really loved me then why are u making this a big deal" ive been thinking of wat he said, and i know he's not great in argueing and tends to say things without thinking it. But this... (112 words)

Why do I feel so unprepared for the beauty contest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am going to be having a photo shoot tomorrow and the pictures will be submitted to this beauty pageant i have been dying to go to. well here's the story last time i was unprepared i din't have any photoshoot pictures so i took my phone and i submitted pictures of me t... (194 words)

Why are men more attracted to me since I have turned 13?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - since i turned 13 years, lots of male friends such as my old and new friends, classmates, even teachers etc... have been asking me to be their girl friend. some of them are obsess of me. sometimes they are so annoying. are they crazy? how will i know which one of them is truly ... (67 words)

Why does my boyfriend want sex all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - y does my boyfriend want sex all the time and am not confortable with that... (15 words)

My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at work, and just landed myself a ... (537 words)

How should I avoid him? And what should I do to completely forget that man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm mentally tortured and need your help badly. The agony of my life started when I've met him and we became close to each other. I thought he is a gentleman guy as he revealed to me all his past. He was married with one daughter. His wife left him and... (742 words)

Am I seeing signals where there arent any?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok there is this guy in work I have a huge crush on but Im too shy to speak to him. Im a shy person anyway but around people I like I completely clam up. Anyway, anytime Im around him I constantly catch him staring at me. Ive actually made a point of not looking at him late... (168 words)

Why don't I always get the right guys?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am into a relationship now this probably my 5th relationship after 4 heart breaks we have jst datted for 3 months and we had a minor misunderstanding bacause he didn't cal me for 5 days i got angry cos it's very unusual of him,so wen he eventually called i didn't respond well ... (125 words)

He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age - I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was due to get married next month an... (331 words)

What if I leave him and it is a mistake....but what if I stay in a marriage that is a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 yr old Mother of 3 girls, ages 18, 16 and 10. I have been married for 18 yrs and up until 2 years ago thought I had a great marriage. I trusted my husband completely and I am not a jealous person. My husband doesn't drink and he doesn't go out with the boys or ... (552 words)

Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like my subconscious is telling me ... (102 words)

My boyfriend's sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm going out with my boyfriend for nearly four years and love him to bits in every way. Over the last year his sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why I'm every bit as attracted to him as I was from day one and would like to make love ... (162 words)

Is he trying to make me jealous, or is he saying we are just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5367 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, i have been friends with a guy who is 30 on and off for about 2 years now, but recently the friendship has become more intense. i like him a lot as a person. We have started to chat online a lot and spend some nights out together with friends, but hes kind of breaking up ... (889 words)

Conflicted in having to choose between my girlfriend and my out of state job offer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll keep it short: I am 20 and I live in Texas. I have an oppurtunity for a good job in New York doing what I love doing. My girlfriend of several years, however, is reluctant to move out of Texas. I love her more than anything, but I'm having trouble finding work where I ... (93 words)

He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a baby at this age. and i always ... (245 words)

How can I please her to the point of orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my question is, i've only had sex with one girl, so i'm not "experienced" like that. How can I please a woman to the point where she could have an orgasm? I heard something about an inch into the vagina, if you put your finger in there and touch the upper wall and slowly ... (109 words)

Do I stay or do I go!? Need help with soul-searching (warning: question is essay-length :P)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts... I have posted one question prior to this; a few years ago, after breaking up from an abusive partner. Well, I successfully found myself a lovely lad after that, and we have been together over a year now, which is the longest I've been with someone so far. ... (592 words)

Met a man from the Internet but now he says he needs to back off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a lovely man through the internet, we chatted via msn and text for quite a while first before meeting. When we did it was gr8 (for me at lesat) I was crazy about him and thought he felt the same! He came fot the weekend said he had a fantastic time couldnt wait to meet ... (127 words)

How do I stop him from going away (after he slept with Thai girls the last time?)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stop him from going away? Hi all, Me and my partner have been together for three years now and have just had a baby together, recently my boyfriend went to Thailand for a nice holiday after coming home from deployment (he's in the forces). I then found out he had b... (224 words)

He just out of the blue changed towards me and it hurts not talking to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 16 years old sophmore im bi and i think im in love with a good friend of mine. hes 17 years old and a senior.he is straight and used to date one of my best friends. now i told him i was bi and he said he didnt really care.things were going really well with us and now they ... (167 words)

He says he likes me, but I do not see any affection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - a friend told me his good friend liked me so I started seeing this guy. This guy emailed me, gave me him number, and invited me to coffee. I think I scared him during out first two dates because I was not sure about my feelings toward him. Recently I discovered that I liked hi... (255 words)

... Or would he keep a respectable distance?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Would a guy ever invade your personal space if he is not interested in you?... (15 words)

Which of these two guys should I marry?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 22 now .i was in a love relationship with a guy for 4 years and we broke up, then I moved back to US. due to my tensions, I flirted with a guy and had fake love relationship for almost 6 months, I introduced him to my family and both his and my family know about us and ... (260 words)

Would it be bad if I kissed HIM first?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not for sure AT ALL right now but this guy MIGHT want to kiss me and is too scared. Would it be bad if i kissed him first? What if he doesn't necessarily want to kiss me and i kiss him first? would he be mad? want more?... (53 words)

I don't know if anything happend in a blackout -- should I still see him as a friend?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I experienced my first real blackout. I ended up one night at a friend's place, and this is what I remember: talking, him teasing me to drink more when I was already too drunk, being sleepy, him kissing me, making out... then we were in his room and he wanted me to ... (199 words)

I'd like her to throw herself at me more.. should I raise this?

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is really stiff and uptight. I'd like her to throw herself at me more. Should i breakup with her , or tell her how i feel and hope she speaks to me again. ... (35 words)

Why do we watch our loved ones sleep?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you think is the reason why people will watch their loved one sleep? I think it's sweet, but I was wondering why they do that?... (27 words)

Its been a long time since I asked anyone out... how do I handle possible rejection?

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties and Uncles...I broke up with my ex over a month ago... And we dated for a year.. I'm finally moving on, being happy with life and such.. I met this beautiful girl the other day and she just got back from Nashville, Her parents found out she was dating an 18 year ... (122 words)

Are there some clearcut signs for leaving a marriage?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to decide whether or not to leave my husband and would appreciate any advice. We have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old daughter. Our relationship was a whirlwind romance, I met him when I was vacationing in Paris, we fell in love, and I moved to ... (263 words)

We can only make ourselves come... are we just too focused on each other?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - neither my boyfriend or I can orgasm though sex,manual sex or oral - only with ourselves lol. We are very much in love, very comfortable with each other and very open. He is slightly older and pretty experienced (used to be a bit of a player lol) - usually just happy the ... (210 words)

My ex has given me an ultmatum: get back together or no contact!

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago because I needed a little break. He's a little clingy and way too insecure and he wasn't really my type. Plus, he's 19, and I'm younger than 18 years old. He took this hard and said he couldn't just go back to being friends. Yeah, I ... (156 words)

Is a school guidance counsellor obliged to tell my parents I might be pregnant?

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13 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - if i tell a school guidance counselor that i think i might be pregnant will she tell my parents? does she HAVE to tell them is what i mean. is this a situation in which she is obligated to inform them or can we jus talk and keep it to herself? thanks! loveee, Lacey.... (59 words)

Does he like me or is he just weird?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so we're both juniors in high school, and have known who the other person is since freshman year. However, we've never really spoken to each other. I sometimes find him glancing at me, and he always trys to get near me when we have to pass each other in the hallways.... (145 words)

My husband is useless in bed...is he gay, masterbating or what?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age - I need more help with this ongoing no sex at all with my husband of 9 years it's been over 2 years since he has even tryed, and when he did it was only because he knew we were in serious marriage trouble becasue i had him go wityh me to a therapist,he admists he ... (933 words)

I told her my feelings too soon and now she's backing away!

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, I wanted to get your feedback on my little dilemma and perhaps guide me to a decision. I've been seeing her for a little over 6 weeks. To be honest, I'm surprised it even happened at all. We live in separate states, she's 23 and I'm 36, and she's coming off a 4 year rel... (276 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend blames my anger on hormones!

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just have a question...how many of you women out there had a baby by a man and felt like he couldnt understand what you were going through? Im getting so fed up with my boyfriend because everytime we get into a fight he wants to blame it on the hormones because im 15 weeks... (151 words)

I'm confident in life, but shy with men

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not shy around people - I'm actually very open and loud. People tell me I'm funny and I have a lot going for me. I feel like I have a lot going for me! I don't think there is anything wrong with me. Most importantly, I think I'm friendly and a good person- my intentio... (166 words)

Have drugs permanently damaged me?

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, my question is about drugs as my girlfriend is very angry with me on finding that i have tried them. I have had probably 10 trips on e or mdma (some of which were bad and may have been mixed with ketomin/speed/acid) over the last 5 years but i am not a regular ... (118 words)

He says I'm 'getting carried away' for wanting to visit him

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!! You guys have to help me!! Ok...so there is this guy that i was/am/could be kinda seeing..but it is a long distance thing...coz he lives in Wales and me in London. BUT...we've only been together a short while so its nothing serious at all...i met him over summer...and ... (388 words)

She says she wants no contact for a month to see if I'm for real

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really can't understand her. She used to have feelings toward me and she told me she is attracted to me. After a day, she has started to hurt my feelings like saying move on, find someone better, we should keep distance and we might not get together. Then recently, she st... (166 words)

I don't feel appreciated as a wife or mother

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mom of 3. To give you some backround we had our first at 19. I am really stuggling with my life, as i feel i do not have one. I am with my children all day, and most nights, by myself. I have friends with kids, but older ones and really am feeling lonely. I know th... (202 words)

How do you keep a man from straying?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what tips you do to prevent a man from cheating?... (10 words)

47 year old with the sex drive of a 20 year old...WHAT DO I DO?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age - i dont know what to i need sex i can have sex and a hour later i want more it is making a big proublem for me and my boyfriend he cant keep up with me i've been this way most of my life i've stayed single but always haveing 2 or 3sex partterns it's just me and him now thats the ... (121 words)

She doesn't seem to want me, but doesn't anyone else to have me either.

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyas, Recently attended an overnight movie thing with a girl I really like at her male friend's place. Originally he only invited her however she told me about this and wanted me to go, so I obliged. I've known this girl for nearly a year and we've been very close for ab... (394 words)

Gift ideas for the perfect boyfriend?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - boys are soooo hard to buy for im 18 and im with the man of my dreams he treats me like a princess and i would do anything for him DILEMMA i have no idea what to get him for christmas i want it to be special, not just cologne or a regular gift. he is on a paintball... (81 words)

My boyfriend flinches at my touch and doesn't like my teenage son. What's wrong?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years,when i first met him he had been on his own for 10 years and had drugs/drink problem and was very depressed. I supported him completely whilst he was coming off the drugs and drink and did everything i could to try and help him... (195 words)

My teacher keeps looking at me. What does this mean?

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13 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have this algebra teacher tht i rlly like. I feel shy around her. During the day, I always see her looking at me with this worried look on her face and when shes talking to me. Today i was the only one who stayed for extra help. While i was doing my work from the corn... (108 words)

Does anyone have information on Goji Juice?

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hello all, just a quick question. has anyone tried or no of anybody who has tried GOJI juice. it is also known as GOCHI juice.... (27 words)

My boyfriend wants me to dominate him, but I don't know how!

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me that he likes it when girls take control of things sexually but im not really sure how to do this. He says he wants me to tell him what to do, or make him do things, but I dont know what to say.... (49 words)

A few years back, my bf pretty much called me fat. Now that he and I are both ready to hit the sack, I can't get over it. Help!

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for almost three years yet have been friends since he was 9 and I was 10. I'm overweight (5'7", 190 lbs) and a few days after we started 10th grade I was feeling down and he said to me "if you did some more physical exercises you will come to be ... (346 words)

I'm young and bored!

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13 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well i am pretty young although i will not reveal my actual age. I know that i will not have sex or serious relationships for a few years but i feel like i really want to... any tips on how to get this nagging feeling out of my head????... (50 words)

I will have my car fixed soon so I can see him, what do I say to make things better in the meantime?

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13 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have currently been talking to this guy ive known him for a year and he is 2 years older than me in college i am still a senior in highschool, i litterally never get to see him. we text costantly and recently it is just about how he doesnt get to see me and how he doesnt ... (125 words)