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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hi, i'd like some advice please..I met a guy on line early this year and since easter we have been in touch by texting about twice a week sometimes more. i'm 42 and he's 48, we both are separated/divorced and have grown up children, but we live 160 miles apart.When i first got in touch with him i had a feeling about him and as we got to know each other with texting we both feel we have a connection and a great rappore as we share the same humour. i'm very shy and have only talked over the phone maybe 4 or 5 times since may. Hes very chatty and outgoing, not particularly good looking though. but his personality is very attractive. our chats have become quite intimate in a humourous kind of way but i feel we have come to a point where we should meet and see if this friendship can go further in reality. we organised to meet this weekend, he's very generous and wanted to book two single rooms in a country hotel half way between us to spend a weekend together. i got a bit worried that he was impetuous and felt it was too much to spend on me as it wasnt a particularly cheap hotel nor very expensive though. and i was worried he might want to sleep with me as our chats could have lead him on maybe.. so i cancelled our meeting next weekend before it was booked by him but now i regret it. i've never been offered a weekend away like that before and i just got scared that he wouldnt like me in reality .my question is do you think i was wrong to cancel the arrangement? do you think its too late to arrange to meet again? and do you think i should go with the flow or insist on a meeting where we meet for the day and then go home at the end of that date? I'm just so inexperienced with dating.. i was married for over 20 years and from a young age so i'm finding it all abit scary meeting a guy i've never met but have been having these conversations with for 7 or 8 monthsthanks x
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (24 November 2009):
 go on the weekend away just see what happenes if u dont want things to go any were then tell him and say good nite u have 2 single roms try good luck
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