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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can't stop thinking about my neighbor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this boy for about 3 years, he was my neighbour and i loved him so much and still do, i cannot get over him its impossible for me. we never went out but we wernt mates either, it was weird . i just love him so muchhhh. i dunno what to do i want him so much but if i... (156 words)

How can I lose a lot of weight before Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i need help my boyfriend lives 2000 miles away and i am going to see him just after christmas the only problem is i haven't seen him in six months and since then i have put on alot of weight and i want to loose weight for seeing him because i don't want him to go off me i ... (91 words)

How do I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 19 and my "boyfriend" is 21. I've been with him since August 2008. Last week I found out that he's been “playing around” with another girl since December 2008. I had my suspicions that something might be going on but I had no conclusive proof, until now. I managed to ... (156 words)

Is this a mutual attraction? He's my boss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship 9 years but it is not going any where and we have not been intimate for months. i teach and I have developed a crush on my principal. He is warm and I have shared many itimate problems with him in relation to work and he has acted in my favo... (259 words)

What do you think about a man who will beg you back into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age - I would like to ask what you think about a man who will beg you back into a relationship, tell you he loves you, then once you feel comfortable in replying with the same response, "I love you", he immediately shuts down. I have been off and on with this guy for a little les... (329 words)

Will we be able to last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends have, and we always ... (181 words)

Who is right in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So i was with this guy for 3 months and he got close with my best friend. Anyways I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me so i broke up with him. The very first person i told about this was my best friend. I came crying to her and she was there to help. I ... (155 words)

Why can't I forgive my ex boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My exboyfriend was my first love. I loved him a lot. We broke up 3 months ago. We decided to stay to stay friends but is really hard for me because I haven't forgiving him from hurting me the way he did. Be broke up becaue "it had to be done" according to him because we had be ... (229 words)

Boyfriend behaves badly while drinking...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend sometimes goes a bit too far with alcohol and does some really stupid stuff but it doesnt rlly bother me except tht he likes to show off his body and wen hes drunk hell strip down to his boxers and dance wiv his friends (some of them like him), i wasnt ther wiv him ... (68 words)

Should I carry on chasing him or stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok the lad i like is gorgeous but i'm not sure about his personality. I havn't spoke to him very much in person, but we were textin and talkin on msn. He was flirtin with me so i was flirtin back, then he was jokin about goin to his house to see him and goin to see him at work ... (226 words)

I lost "the one". What needs to be done to win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of a couple years recently left me. I have come to realize that it was because of my inability to share feelings and connect with her on a emotional level. We had a house together, we had shared everything, financially things have become messy, and I was planning ... (191 words)

My ex wants phone sex but he has a new girlfriend! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex boyfriend of 9 months had this great relationship we split up because of my family we had the worst brake up and said things we did not mean , anyway after a month of us being apart he got back in touch saying he still loved me so we tryed and things went bad again ... (131 words)

What do you think she's playing at?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age - i am a man of 57years and work as a plumber and in the last 9 months have had a 21year old female working with me and we have been getting on like a house on fire but she has been constantly flirting with me ie touching my arms, gentle punching and kicking,pulling hairs on my ... (151 words)

He told me I am loved more than I realise

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What did a male friend mean when they told me that im loved more than i realize?... (17 words)

Is he just enjoying the fun or could he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy who is in my university clique. The group of us always went for short holiday trips during our school holidays and celebrates each another birthdays occasionally. And there is on guy by the name of "I" who has been very sweet and caring towards me during all the ... (282 words)

Should the break up stop me from being in contact with his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone! So my boyfriend broke up with me just over 2 weeks ago and I am still pretty sad about it. Anyways, I was good friends with a lot of his close friends before I knew him and in the past week I've been talking to some of them. I feel like I am betraying him by ... (100 words)

I had an affair with a pastor. How do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age - Help! I had an affair with a pastor friend who I love very much as a person and friend. He needed something at the time and so did I. I want to break things off. I am terriby sick and hurt about it. How can I get past this. Just take time? I still want to be friends with... (72 words)

How in the world can I find him and make contact with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age - I met a man many years ago(12). We lived 2 houses apart.We began talking a lot, out in the yard. My little girl was always there. We were mutually attracted to each other. Nothing was ever said but we just knew it. We were both married and would have never acted on it anyway. ... (112 words)

I'm very worried that my first time sex will be painful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm still a virgin, however when I have met the right guy I would like to take things slowly and enjoy myself when the time comes. However I have explored my body and have discovered that the likeliness is that my first time will be very painful, as i have an especially tight ... (186 words)

Am I being dangled on a string like a puppet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I have been together for nearly 2 1/2 years. Lately, we have been having problems and I am not sure how much more I can handle. I love him so much but he is sending me so many mixed signals lately that I don't know where to start. Our sex life didn't real... (354 words)

Am I just wishful thinking, or could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I recently had sex without a condom and without me being on any form of contraceptive. Ive been experiencing pains in my stomach, and a slight stitch now and again. Ive felt sick but it comes throughout the day and in the mornings however I havent been sick. I wou... (115 words)

I like him so can I get him to understand this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so there is this guy that I really like. He is a senior at my school and I am a junior. He has been trying to get me over to his house for about 3 weeks, but I have been busy getting ready for a death anniversary on November 9. He gets mad easily and when I tell him I am ... (161 words)

I've very shy and quiet.. any tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I'm extremely shy and quiet. I'm in my mid 20's, which is also embarrassing because most people outgrow this stage by now. Some people may think I'm cold or unfriendly or serious, but I'm really just shy and quiet. I stink at making small talk. (I don't know how to keep the ... (143 words)

I want my ex bf back, please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 days a go my boyfriend of 2 1/2 months broke up with me because he is too busy and doesn't want to keep me holding on, he says he want's to be with me and that he does love me but doesn't know when he will have the time to spend time with me. I love him i do, i really do.... (520 words)

What is the fastest way to get over someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the fastest way to get over someone? especially someone you loved and see all the time because you have to? (school) ... (23 words)

Loving two best friends? I need to make a choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...where to start? hmm...i was jus lookin for some peoples advice on ma current relationship status... Early July 2008 i started chattin to two friends over msn...they lived kinda close to where im from in the UK..i fell for both of these fellas, bu it seemed that one ... (675 words)

We love each other, but I'm not sure we have a future together

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21-year-old male, with a 21-year-old girlfriend. We've been together for 7 1/2 months now, and before that we were friends for two years. Since the summer, our relationship has been something of a long-distance one, she lives about 1 1/2 hours away by car (but I have ... (748 words)

My husband seems to be feeding off my jealousy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4428 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never been a controlling person but with my current husband i cant stop doing it. when i dont know where he is at it eats me up. he is flirtacious and does it in front of me. I feel like he feeds off of my jealousy and never stops to think he should be flirting with... (145 words)

Are people hiding things they know from me? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been good friends with my best friend’s cousin for more than a year now. I and he have been very close since the beginning. The past couple of days have really shocked me. I was dismissed one day from school and I said bye to people and he looked quickly at me, we looked ... (421 words)

Shouldn't he be on my side?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been dating this boy Coletun for a month and things were great. This week we barely talked and Friday, finally I called him. He told me he was mad because all his friends were talking bad about me and saying he should dump me because he won’t get any sex out of me. I told ... (298 words)

Is it possible to get your period while you're pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am sexually active with my girlfriend of course. My question is... is it possible to get your period while you are pregnant? According to those menstrual cycle calculator things her fertile days 19-24 of october. And she was supposed to be ovulating on the 22. This month ... (135 words)

We fight everyday and she annoys me. Should I break up with the girl I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i just want to say thanks all of you that have read my past questions and here is a question i have now.. i broke up with my 20 year old fiance and now i have an 18 year old girlfriend that goes to the u of a. i love her but shes starting to annoy me and ask stupid questions ... (91 words)

Will the guy be mad that you didn't tell him that you were a virgin? Or what's the deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20, and i've been talking to this guy for almost a month, and i ended up losing my virginity to him couple days ago, now i'm bleeding non-stop and my stomache hurts.. and i never told him i was a virgin and i feel super bad about it.. and i told him the following day, and ... (128 words)

What do you think he meant by the kiss on my forehead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally hung out with a guy that i have been talking to for the last couple of months. i realized i have a crush on him:) when we were leaving he gave me a hug a kiss on the cheek and one on my forehead. i was just wondering what people think of a forehead kiss? i know im ... (73 words)

How do I get closer to him without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) On bonfire night I met this really funny and nice guy. We hit if off big time and I was wondering how could I get closer to him? He goes to another school in the same town as my school is. We have the same sense of humor and things so that's good. I don't want to seem ... (99 words)

I don't want what my parents want for me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am from India, 16 years and am brought up in a strict Muslim family. My parents have already planned my future for me, get my degree and get married soon after that. But the thing is that I don't want that. I want to continue with my career and do a Ph.D (I will most probably ... (249 words)

I ended the affair with my friend's wife

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in love with my friends wife. We have all been friends for a long time now. It all started when she asked me to take her out to play pool and drink some beer. She asked in fron of her husband and he didnt have a problem with it as long as he didnt have to go. She is ... (757 words)

I think I've lost the love of my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - please help, ive lost the love of my life, ive scared her off, im in love with this girl we have known each other for a couple of months she is definitely interested but i told her that i love her and she has started to pull back and i dont know what to do she means a lot to ... (63 words)

We want to be have a more physical relationship but not sure how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Allo... My girlfriend and I have been together for two years and love eachother very much...we're both 18... Surprisingly enough, we're not really physical people, lol physical meaning the full on making out and such, as we don't really focus on that, but rather on comm... (170 words)

How can I show him that marriage can be a positive thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together since March. We were together for 6 months 1 1/2 yrs before that, but he got scared and broke up with me. We now live together and have talked about marriage but he goes back and forth about whether he wants to or not. Lately he says he ... (302 words)

Last week he loved me, and now it's over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i would really appreciate some help with this one. If it is long i apologise but going into detail might make it clearer to you. A few weeks ago a dear friend of my got back in touch after a long time and after talking etc we realised we had feelings for eac... (370 words)

Would having sex during a girl's period change her cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had sex with my girlfriend on the first day of her period. I Don't mean to say too much, but we were at it for a long time, i don't if that has any affect or not. But on the second day there was no bleeding at all. All i would like to know is what this could mean (pregnancy ... (66 words)

I want to get back with my bf. Can you guys give me some advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, Recently my bf broke up with me which came as a shock because we seemed so happy together and weren't having problems or anything then after church one sunday he said that he really really liked me. I'm wondering if there's any way to get him back. I just can't se... (93 words)

I feel bad because I rejected my cheating ex bf... please give me some encouragement!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with my ex for 2years and he really hurt me.. like he'd be talking to other girls, cheating..lying etc: but i stayed with him cos i was young naive and thought i was in love and the sex was great.. but i finally had the courage to leave him. is been nnearly2yea... (256 words)

I think I might've been raped... or did I consent?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

7 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok sooo im 16. my boyfriend, well ex, was 18 and we jus broke up. we got together 5 months ago. before i got with him, i never rly had the urge to drink alcohol or smoke anything. but in these last 5 months i have jus been wanting it more and more. anytime i drink i cant stop ... (460 words)

Should I meet an Online Friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the sound on mine does not always work,... (350 words)

How do I approach the boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him as we r not as close as we ... (80 words)

We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want to clarify we are NOT having a... (233 words)

Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to jump. I do have a full time job (in... (207 words)

"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson he told me "sort your life out,yo... (166 words)

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i only started seeing this afte... (183 words)

I am 4m pregnant and BF still wants to party every weekend. Please Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunt. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is not taking my feelings into consideration. All he wants to do is go out all the time and wheb I tell him I don't want to go and that I am staying home but he can go he gets angry and says hurtful things As well ... (187 words)

I'm depressed... he's depressed, and I'm paranoid that he'll leave me again... How can I overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I've been um-ing and ah-ing whether or not to post this for a couple of days now because it sounds trivial but it's plaguing me, so here goes... To begin with, I'm 25 and I've had depression since I was about 16. It was a mixture of being bullied in school, bein... (1183 words)

Is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been chattin for almost ages now.... (155 words)

I feel called to love this girl... Should I wait or take the chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now, though I've known her for a ... (1006 words)

Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the person don't have sex or ... (69 words)

Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have gotten more involved. The last ... (252 words)

I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him a lot, but we are not right ... (217 words)

My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been married for 3 yrs together ... (137 words)

My wife is not able to conceive and is under huge pressure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our common frinds have babies not and thats... (131 words)

She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine which was her first boyfriend. ... (699 words)

I love him soo much but should I let him go... and did I push him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, So I have been with the same guy for three years we started going out my sophomore year of high shcool an he was a senior. It was perfect he was the best boyfriedn and we always had fun together like we hung out all the time and surprisingly never got tired of each ot... (700 words)

In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

7 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see on the road... hell ........... (138 words)

How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best friend comes in, we been best ... (302 words)

Feeling down about my friends... they only call when they need a favor or have a problem!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then change the topic so it ... (169 words)

My dad is getting divorced for a second time... Is it unrealistic to hope he could marry 3rd time lucky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i am upset that my dad has to ... (108 words)

He said he was going to change and become less immature... but he never does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this might be long. i have known this guy since i was little, but then i moved here and he stood in our home country(dominican republic). now about 9 years later i see him and he tells me he likes me. things move pretty quickly at least for me. i went to his house to ... (1682 words)

I'm happy that he's interested to get back together with me but why now? And why's he acting like nothings changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided to leave him be. 7 weeks ... (251 words)

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He is 4 years older than me, ... (166 words)

Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?... (40 words)

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each other so much,,..but until such time ... (92 words)

Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance.... (32 words)

How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just anything about this how do i get a ... (74 words)

Does their type of marriage work?

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7 November 2009 (?)

- My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a break from her husband. She ... (243 words)

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i did things with said 1 month ag... (191 words)

What's the dating scene like in college?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i havent had that yet. I constantly ... (187 words)

Can you love someone you don't admire?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I could say that I've admired my ... (352 words)

Are all guys selfish and hateful?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and cook him supper! he has do... (437 words)

Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlfriend told of her feelings... (153 words)

Am I a normal girlfriend?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they always text him how much they lov... (173 words)

My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in effect. The issue i have, is... (217 words)

Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I met this person. For the ... (627 words)

Could he like me?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've known this guy for about six months through work. We don't work for the same company, but see each other in a group setting a couple times a week because of our duties/schedules. Our interactions are usually in front of others, so if he was interested in me I know he ... (281 words)

What to wear going around town with my brother and his friends?

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7 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends with aren't into that whole ... (265 words)

Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?

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7 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in front of the computer. She's ... (391 words)

How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

7 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked and having sex (my son's pe... (113 words)