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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it hurt worse to lose your virginity when you are younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i was wondering if it would hurt worse to lose your virginity when your my age which is thirteen or if it was the same no matter what age you are cause my friend said it was worse when your younger.... (41 words)

Fear of money, yet I work in retail!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I work in retail and have never worked at a register. I am supposed to be trained for the register soon I have a real problem with handling money I always have. I really want to over come this problem. What should I do? I dont have a problem spending it lol... I think I ... (70 words)

He's moved on. Why can't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for him not being in his child's... (322 words)

My friend slept with a guy, then slept with his brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my friend slept with a guy, and then a few months later she slept with his brother. of course, neither brother knows that she slept with the other one. neither of them were her boyfriends (the recent brother she slept with is crushing on her bad though - she's not interested i... (123 words)

Have any other teens gone through this depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting very depressed recently about stupid things and i want it to stop. i can go from feeling content to extremely depressed and just blank within a matter of minutes if i am left alone. its silly as there is nothing drastic in my life that i shoud be unhappy... (125 words)

When I leave school should I tell my teacher I'm in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Now, im going to aplogise for poor spelling firstly (its late at night for me!!) and secondly I am sorry this is another teacher/student crappy topic!! Ok so lets set you the picture. I am over 18, and still stuck in sixth form (3rd year) I am a bit of a failure..but I'l... (503 words)

Was it a one night stand or is he just 'pulling away'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - recently i started dating again and meet a guy in a dance club, we were dancing together and it was hot dirty dancing. he asked for my number so i gave it to him. after a week of talking/texting we meet up for date and ended up having sex, now i dont hear from him. before th... (144 words)

He threatened to put me out of my misery. Should I dump him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Currently, I am not speaking to him. A couple days ago, we were talking on the phone, suggesting ideas about what we should do that day. Well, I put him on speaker phone so I could view my calendar (on my phone), and appa... (308 words)

How do I make sense of this?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - How do you deal with someone online who states they like you very much and want to get to know you better they tell you they want to talk more later on in the day but are in a need to go out now. Then you see them online and say hi, they don't respond. You know they h... (216 words)

How do I get over an intense crush on my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm 18 years old and am in my final year at school. My problem is that I have feelings for one of my teachers who is 28. He has been teaching me since I was 16 and I have always liked him but I knew I only had a crush on him so I figured I would get over him soon ... (229 words)

Straight eye for the queer guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I`m a bi male and recently met assumed straight guy. We met as both of us are business owners in same industry and we found that by joining forces and sharing human resources we can accomodate our bunsiness` needs. Comments from him on how I look followed. Whenever we are toge... (168 words)

Should I ask my boyfriend for a break (so I can pursue another guy)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 21 and have been in a happy, loving relationship for 3 years but recently moved to Spain to study for a year. Before I moved away I realised that the spark in my relationship had started to fade and I felt less attracted to my boyfriend than before, but i ignored these ... (118 words)

He used me for sex and now he ignores me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again, we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried on texting, Halloween we m... (449 words)

What is the best vibrator for a G-Spot orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have never had a g-spot orgasm. Is there any certain vibrators you would recommend to achieve this?... (18 words)

My dad is having an affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help/advice. I recently found out my dad was having an affair, if it was physical I’m not sure but it was definitely emotional. I was the first sibling to found out about it (Or to have my suspicions) but a month later my sister confronted me and we've bee... (355 words)

He only agrees to meet me if I ask him in person. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i met this guy over the summer while i was on vacation, and looks wise, hes everything i told myself i wanted, personality wise, same thing. As soon as i seen him i just couldnt take my eyes off him and i know he felt the same way. He left the group after we said hi ... (284 words)

He's only accessible to me when it's convenient for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I met my current boyfriend, I had just come out of a long-term relationship in which my boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me. I know my boyfriend isn't cheating on me, but there have been 4 or 5 instances now where he just hasn't answered his phone all day/night; either it ... (761 words)

Married woman about to cheat with another woman, hubby doesn't know

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always been bi-sexual, but preferred men. I met my husband 6 years ago and it has been truly great, however he started a new career and is very involved in it, I am so happy for this new step in his life, although he does come home everyday right after work to spend the ... (529 words)

My husband has no morals

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that my husband of 3 years has basically been cheating on me with several different ladies since we met (6 years ago) he has not had affairs as such but flings and emotional affairs, I found out a year ago he did this in his first marriage too and I ... (277 words)

I've never cum when I've had sex with my boyfriend... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now and i genuinly trust him and enjoy our sex life however i don't think ive ever come. i can feel the build up during sex and really enjoy it but then suddenly it just seems to stop or i feel a release but dont actually come ... (56 words)

Am I making a mistake by having an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is an alcoholic. I just found out I'm pregnant. I would love to have the baby but I don't feel its fair to bring a child into the world with an alcoholic father. I already have a 17 year old son who I raised alone. It ... (130 words)

Why would your ex best friend do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would your ex best friend do this? We haven't been friends for a while now and I got tired of trying to be her friend and fix things so I started to ignore her. But as I started to ignore her, then she starts doin these little things to make me mad/hurt me. Like she sta... (169 words)

Not wet enough!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Questions about vaginal wetness. I get wet but not as wet as I would like to be. I've read many stories, questions, and answers. And I haven't gotten anywhere. And lube is okay. But I wanna create my own wetness! I get turned on when watching porn and seeing other females drip ... (103 words)

Help me to manage this situation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid,i met a guy in 1997 named vladi when i was working in a factory,that time we both married,our relationship was on and off because we are trying to correct our faults of being married already until i am totally seperated with my husband. The communication with that ... (406 words)

Will I ever love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently left my emotional bully cheating husband, and emotional I am frazzled and don't want anyone else.. I feel it would do me and my 4 children good if I was alone for a long long time... But I wanted to ask the aunts, if I do eventually decide to get myself back on ... (145 words)

My teacher just got tooooo close!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling for her recently it is reeally we... (82 words)

Help! How do I let him know I'm ready to lose my virginity to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm ready to lose my virginity, how do I let him know I'm ready without saying it? What could I do to get him to make the first move? and can a man really tell it's a girls first time? ... (44 words)

Sex after an abortion...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After abortion how many weeks must I stay before I can have sex, I mean sex without a condom.... (19 words)

Can he really ever love me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of nine years had "more than a friendship" with a girl at work. He claims they never slept together and after a lot of revelations and tears, he is trying to make our relationship work again. He says he has cut off all contact with *her* and was visibly distant and ... (194 words)

Guy friend crossing the line - how do I tell him no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a close guy friend, let's call him D, who also happens to be an ex. We broke up over three year ago. After about a year of not talking we decided to be friends, which worked out because we both had significant others, so our new boundaries were well-defined. Now ... (213 words)

Should I continue to pursue her and should I send her this letter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Letter to Girlfriend My gf and I have recently split, it was her decision. We never argued, always got on really well, we clicked... But we fell pregnant after 4 months and she decided it was best to terminate, and since the initial pregnancy shock, we have struggl... (1489 words)

My girl is an angel!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys.... i am in love with a girl for 5 good years, and its a miracle because i have not met this girl in person. we used to talk on the phone and exchange pics. first let me point out ma girls qualities 1. she is an angel from her qualities 2. her love towards ... (299 words)

Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?... (45 words)

Is it me...? Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my 20 year old boyfriend for 2 years and i still love him more than ever, i just feel like throughout our relationship i have never really been treated. even on my birthday i didn't really get many presents and he complained when we went out for a meal and it ... (142 words)

Do women like chubby guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women like chubby guys? My bmi is 26.3 and at 6 ft I wouldn't say that's insanly bad and it's not obese but it's not great either, so what do girls think of chubby guys? Is it really off putting? Is a beer belly enough to make you not want a relationship with someone?... (55 words)

I feel so much guilt... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would really appreciate some help . I am going through a divorce. My husband left me after 18 years of marriage. We married young as students . Six months ago I started a friendship with a married man I have known for years. We slept together this week and I feel guilt an... (92 words)

I no longer have any feelings for my husband any more... what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and i have a 14 month old baby and I am married... but I do not having feelings for my husband any more. He does not attract me in any way. How do I fix this problem?... (40 words)

Why do I feel so lonely...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so lonely suddenly. Now all of friends are happily attached and I seem to be the only left over ones. I am 21 this year doing my third year in the university. Previously, there are some guys who gave chase to me but things don't work out well and I am still single now. I ... (130 words)

How do you cope with losing someone you love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a great relationship with my "ex." We have talked about marriage, tried to have kids, been everywhere together, life was great. Naturally we had arguments but we worked through them. He decided to take a contracting postion in Afganastain and had ran into some legal ... (220 words)

Help me, I just can't seem to get past first dates!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, hope you can help me i just cant seem to get past first dates i dont know what im doing wrong , my last date was monday with a man i have known for five years i only know him to say hello to but on a night out recently his friends told me he has liked me for years and he ... (261 words)

Was I wrong to be upset, why would he lie and try to hide it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i've been with this guy for about 4 years we recntly had a baby together, since before i got pregnant our relationship was rocky, but we decided to have the baby because we both thought it was the right thing to do, so far our baby is not the issue, the issue is that we both ... (235 words)

How can I persuade her to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (?) age 26-29 - hi. i am 15 year old male from india. we have a maid servant in our house, about 25 years of age. she is very plump and has well developed breasts and hips.she lives in our house itself in a separate room. i have had sexual feelings for nearly 2-3 years . right now my ... (499 words)

Am I falling back in love with my guy friend after a bad breakup with ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Ok this is long so sorry! I just got out of a 3 year relationship in which the last 8months were verbally abusive and miserable. Anyway, before I met this guy I had been so in love with a guy friend. Seriously I fell in love with him when I was 12 up until I ... (532 words)

How can I get myself to orgasm?? How can I get her to make me orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a problem that keeps on bothering my partner. I am a 20 year old female in a relationship with a 21 year old female. We met about a year ago, and have been going out for near enough 6 months. I absolutely love and adore her, and I know she loves me! She is ... (329 words)

Time to leave? She ignores how ill I look and how low I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Is the writing on the wall? Is it time to call it over? My girlfriend and i had a problem on haloween which left me hurting bad. I told her the following day that i needed to talk to her about it as it would fester inside me if i didn't discuss it. She said that she would ma... (243 words)

How do I break up with four ladies I have spent so much time and feelings into without feeling guilty for doing so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend going on 1 year and 5 months. She is a single mother with 3 daughters that I have gotten attached to and love very much. The thing is, I don't really think i'm in love anymore with her. There are many things that led up to my change of feelings ... (393 words)

The eternal rollercoaster ride!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 35 yr. old mother of 3, married 17 yrs. I can easily sum up anyones relationship but when it comes to my own....I get mental block and so I would like your advice. My husband and I have always had a very "rollercoaster-ish" relationship. Even when we got ... (351 words)

I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have them. I have been married since I ... (83 words)

Should I be feeling guilty because of how my ex's life turned out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex fiance was back in contact after 20 yrs. When we were engaged i would do anything for her. We broke up because of unknown reasons. When got back in touch what she told me was disturbing. Here is the list. She was prego by me but lost it. Her mom threatened to kill her if ... (176 words)

How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girlfreinds birthday, but i will be... (150 words)

I really like a boy, he doesn't like me. Yet he tries to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I could do with some advice on a situation im in. Ill try keep it short! Well im 17 years old, and im in college. I was with my boyfriend for 19 months, but finished with him in september, because he had started to become abusive and also for another reason, i starte... (572 words)

Is it possible to rekindle old flames? How should I try to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible to rekindle old flames and old loves? My boyfriend and I broke up after 14 months of dating. We were a great couple until I pushed for the relationship to go to the next level. I pressured so much that I caused so much tension that we drifted at the end. My b... (206 words)

I can't sleep when my girlfriend goes to a party or drinks without me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am extremely worried when my girlfriend goes to a party or drinks without me but my girlfriend says she would never do anything with anyone else and that i dont trust her enough, but i just dont trust the alcohol and other guys, ive tried to explain this to her but she really ... (77 words)

Why does he text me but keeps cancelling when we arrange to meet for a nice evening of sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age - I started seeing a guy in June, we had a month of passion then he dumped me, since september he has been texting me regularly, we slept together once in september, he says hes got commitment issues but i love having sex with him so much that i told him i wasnt looking for ... (184 words)

His ex is controlling him even though he's with me now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend about 6 months now. He has 2 kids and 2 ex wives. Yonger one's mom is very strict with his visitation schedule and I have no problem. But the older one's mom is... she always comes up with plans to be without her kid and ask my boyfriend to take care ... (175 words)

Is it possible she died of a broken heart...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Agony Aunts, A really pretty girl who had a thing for me when we were teens died back in March from a heart problem. We didn't get to know each other as much as she wanted to due to interference by different people I was dealing with. Any girl who makes a pass at a boy ... (102 words)

How can I talk to her and what can we talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, there's this girl in my class and I think she likes me. Today, she came into my classroom too many times that I lost count. It's the way she looks at me and flicks her hair about. How can I talk to her? what should i talk about? ... (49 words)

Help!!! Torn between two men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I am a 30 someting mother of two torn between two men: my boyfriend T(who is the father of my two young children) and F who I have fallen in love with. T and I have been together for 5 years. We met at work and it was love at first sight for him. At first I ... (813 words)

Does it mean anything if the man doesn't wear his wedding ring?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For all the married men out there... Does it mean anything if a man doesn't wear his wedding ring? ... (22 words)

I'm confused whether he likes me or not... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a few months. We started seeing each other in the last couple of weeks of summer and everything was great, we went out a few times and we've kissed and generally just had a good time. Since we went back to uni we haven't seen each other as much, ... (240 words)

I've let him know I like him but feel I've been too direct...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, problem! i've let him know that i like him and everything and i've asked a question that he just didn't want to answer. i think that i was just too direct or it was just a stupid thing to say so i left it for a while haven't pushed for any kind of answer. ... (167 words)

Is being friends with an ex that still loves you cruel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is being friends with my ex too cruel if she's still in love with me after 5 months broken up?... (20 words)

Problem with my wife getting over a twitter infatuation.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age - Problem with my wife getting over a twitter infatuation. My wife recently had an intense 'relationship' on twitter with a man that she just clicked with. We are going through some very difficult financial problems which has put a strain on our relationship. We have been mar... (139 words)

What exactly is masturbation for a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is masturbation for a girl? I've seen many people saying 'I can fit 4 fingers in' but what does it entirely mean? And how do you get pleasure from it? Hope you can help :) xx.... (37 words)

Could this baby be the other guy's???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a 3 month old son who was born in August this year. About a week after my last period, I slept with 2 different men on the same night, one being my baby's father. I took the morning after pill the day after, but i'm now pregnant again. I slept with my baby's fat... (152 words)

First time sex tips, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 15 year old female and a virgin and want to have sex with my boyfriend soon. He's 16 but has had sex alot of times. He knows that i am a virgin and says that when we do it, he will take it slowly for me and make sure that i'm okay with it. I hope you can help me with... (126 words)

He didn't call after we had sex on the 3rd date...should I just forget about him ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age - I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he needed more time. I didn't bother ... (81 words)

He's my fiancee but I am no longer attracted to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year. We have been throught a lot in our short relationship. He has a child from a previous relationship and that caused a great deal of stress in the beginning of our relationship, he was trying to get custody. That use to ... (334 words)

How do I know nothing happened between her and this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met her, but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in love i came to know about her past ... (229 words)

Are my Irregular periods normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and started my period in May 2009. I had it for about a week and then didn't have my next period until September and then just recently started at the end of October and i'm still on it now so, for about two weeks ......it is always really heavy .... Is... (71 words)

Could one little white lie ruin my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my man have been together since may this year and i feel like he does not trust me. For example, yesterday i had to work and had only two dollars to get me to work and no money to get home. I called a couple of my friends to pick me up but they were all busy. So as a ... (155 words)

How do I encourage him to show a greater interest in me, without scaring him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm have just started a new relationship with a man who is going through a divorce. He is still young and has no children - he was only married for a few years before he realized it wasn't working - he has been separated for nearly a year. At first things wer... (302 words)

Can anyone please give me advice on azoospermia?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please give me any advice on azoospermia, which is when there is no sperm in the ejaculate. I know someone, 24yrs married, who has this but needs advice on any possible cure? Please, please help!!... (40 words)

I refuse to be his sex buddy...I want to move forward to the next step. How do I tell him this?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Met a great guy in the summer but as time went by - it was obvious that he just wanted a no strings attached relationship. The sex was amazing but I knocked it on the head and said no - I wanted and deserved more.... Well he recently has been writing to me saying he misses... (217 words)

He's a great guy...but not sure of I respect him enough.

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, some ideas please! I am worried cos with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now (not living together yet but planning to) and sometimes feel bored. Basically I feel I need to admire and look up to him (based on previous relationship) and while I think he is a great guy, and he ... (150 words)

Horrible first time sex feeling, anything wrong with me?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Lawn Care Specialist Reply I am 24 and just lost my virginity last night. Almost all my friend lost their virginity during teenage, so I told my bf that I have had sex with few person before but when I saw his penis size, I almost fainted, he is about 9" and very very thi... (436 words)

I need to save this relationship! How can I show him I am trustworthy?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm having trouble with my boyfriend! We've been going out for a year. I've lied about a few things to him and he found it all out. I've asked for forgiveness and made promises to be better, to be more trustworthy. Unfortunately, i went against my words - broke my promise ... (162 words)

Can you love someone when you are still in love with your ex?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you love someone if you still love your ex and your ex still stays in contact ? How do i move on ?... (24 words)

Should I continue my flirtation with my maid?

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12 November 2009 (?) age 26-29 - i am 15 year old indian boy. a few days ago, i was alone in my house with my brother, who was downstairs glued to the tv . i went to have a bath and thinking who is gonna see me when i am alone, removed my towel soon as i came out. but what DID NOT know was that my maid-se... (289 words)

I don't know how to help her with this grief

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently was on here and asked about my friend who took his own life and his sister brought me out of my seclusion. last couple of days have been different. im not sure how to deal with all this. the morning I went back home to see her. when I got there her mom was there. a... (501 words)

Am I setting myself up for another fall?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 28 and the guy i love is 23. i know him since i started my current job, i started 2 weeks b4 xmas in 2005 he was 19 and i was 24 when i first met him we connected on many levels then at the xmas party we kissed. at that stage he was in a relationship of 5 years and i was ... (518 words)

Is he too good to be true?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this guy through a mutual friend. he thought i was really cute and so did i. i'm 20 and he's 23 and we both go to the same school. our friend eventually had us meet and we clicked right off the bat and the chemistry came so fast. its been almost two weeks now. he's... (230 words)

I'm waiting till I find the one

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12 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Some of my friends have already have sex- some have boyfriends, others are married. I'm waiting until I find "the one." I don't necessarily have to be married, I just want it to be special. I don't know if it's the way I was raised or what, but it just seems like a big deal to ... (169 words)

IN love with my 21 year old soccer coach

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with my soccer coach he is 5 years older then me, he is 21. He is funny, cute and smart. He spends most of his time at training with me and at games he often sits next to me on the bench. I didn't think I liked him till one day I looked into his... (123 words)

Worried about friends internet relationship with older man

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - read all please.i have a really good friend(she is a girl) but i'm a bit concered about a relationship she has over the internet.i don't know all the deatils of the story,just a few,from what she has told me,but i think this could be a bit dangerous.a month ago she met a man(i ... (414 words)

Aftershave care?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a weird q. I shaved my pubic hair for the 1st time... does anyone have any tips on pubic aftershave care? it itches and is very red... oh and how often should one shave and how does one get a smooth close shave like when shaving ur legs? thank you... (53 words)

I feel locked out of part of his life

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ugh. I just don't feel like dealing with this, but I have to. My bf and I have been together for more than 6 years. He says he can't stand any of the guys at his school and he is almost always at my school, but if they ask him to do something, he'll go hang out with them, ... (336 words)

In new relationship but still thinking about ex

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i spoke about this boy before. me and my male best friend of two years just made it official yesterday. i really like him, hes my ideal bf. hes smart, funny, sweet, caring, and everything that this other guy isnt. i stoppd talking to this other guy about 3 weeks ago. ill ... (203 words)

How can I maintain a healthy relationship?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my life change me. I became mean, ... (647 words)

I have insecurities. Are my feelings normal and how do I deal with them?

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12 November 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months we are very in love and very faithful to each other I have had a lot feelings of insecurity and doubt cropping over me these feelings overwhelm me and my mind makes me believe these things would happen egs: i would have to ... (79 words)

I want to date again but have insecurities because of the past

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is kinda a two part situation for me that is really hard for me to get over, so no flaming please =P Well i suppose i should start in the beginning and keep it short =P. Me and my ex dated for a year and a half and after her cheating on me twice i finally broke up... (400 words)

Best friend angry with me now her brother/my bf won't speak to me. What can I do?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ** none of the names are real** All are edited** This is going to seem rather long but i dont know how to make it any shorter. Please bare with me. About 10 months ago, i met Ashley. We didnt get along well and first but eventualy we got to be really really close friends. ... (326 words)

What are the views on poligamy?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I see nothing wrong with it as long as the one that is married to the two or more is spending equal time between them and not playing favorites or compairing each other or trying to force one to act like the others. In other religions or cultures this is acceptable. Even in the ... (76 words)

Bf thinks I am cheating... how do I prove my love and loyalty? I am lost without him as my best friend.

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ugh I hate to say but the man ive been datin for almost a year thinks im cheating on him he hacks into my myspace and things and says im looking for sex with other guys which im not and when i go back and read the thing he sees it says nothin about that but he says it does tho ... (539 words)

What am I supposed to do...wait for years to hear those precious words?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for almost a year, and I love him dearly. He is everything I have ever looked for. His actions show that he cares very deeply about me, however he has never said I love you to me, and this bothers me quite a bit. I have said it numerous times to him, ... (115 words)

Bleeding when having sex or masturbating! Please help =(

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old,Female. I have had sex with two partners. With my last partner I would bleed alot during sex, I was on birth control and the birth control made me have no periods, So it wasnt period. Also everytime i masturbate I get blood all over my fingers : ( I would hate ... (111 words)

I have a crush on her, how do I tell her without making her feel weird?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have had a crush on this girl for almost a year. I am FAR too nervous to tell her, cause I'm a girl too! Can you give me an idea on how to tell her without making her feel weird, yet making it known enough that she understands? Any help that isn't complete crud would be ... (60 words)

Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age - I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband after almost 2 and one half ... (688 words)

Please help me to get a solution to my problem.

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12 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, This is prashu. I have sister, 24 years old, she is in love with my husband's cousin (I came to know that recently).But the problem is he got married and he has 9 year old son. my sister is well educated and she is well settled. how to tackle this problem.? can I tal... (133 words)

How do you respond to such demands???

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a petty issue but I'm really annoyed with a friend of mine. I've known her for about 13 years. We catch up about once a month and she calls me when she needs someone to talk to. She can be a bit rude sometimes but it's almost as if she doesn't know she's saying som... (245 words)

Could this mean she still has feelings for me?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up back in August. However we remained friends. About 2 months later I brought up the idea of hangin out 'just as friends' and she said we could. Well one morning she texts me and says that she didn't want to hang out. Well one hurtful thing leads to another ... (141 words)

He let the girl he cheated on me with make comments about me and my marriage!

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My capricorn man cheated on me and got caught. When we met, I told him I was married, unhappily, and lived a seperate life from my husband. He understood and we have been together 8 months. We recently got a place together, but often times, I must leave and go home. He ... (267 words)

Are we doomed from the start because of religion and virginity?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and am still a virgin. It's never bothered me before until know. I really like this guy but he is quite a strong northern irish catholic and i'm a scottish protestant. I think there is something between us but I just fear that our religious difference would ... (118 words)

Can two people successfully come together again when distance is no longer a factor?

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long distance relationships are incredibly hard and I know that not everyone can handle them. I was with my ex-bf locally for a few months and we fell head over heels in love. Then I moved across the country for work. We were long distance for over a year, seeing each other ... (164 words)

High Maintenance...

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12 November 2009 (F)

- i need some advice mainly from men.. but women please can you give your opinions too.. are men really put off with high maintenance girls? and whenever they classify a girl as high maintenance what exactly do they mean? Personally i always like myself to be looking pretty w... (145 words)

How can I show her she deserves better than some guy who wants to screw other men?

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12 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My sister is 23 and has been dating a guy for over 7 years. A month ago he told her he was bi and had been cheating on her with a guy. She broke up with him but has since taken him back. They now have an open relationship where he can go and be gay then come home to her. I cant ... (97 words)

I need your help aunts... What's wrong with me????

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12 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone and thanks for reading. I could use a little bit advice; first of all i'm a single woman, 20 years old and i dont like myself at all. Nor in the physical angle or spiritual one. Each day i have to go along, standing amid a sea of "normal" people who seem ... (572 words)

I want him back so badly... why do I feel this way?

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12 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - please help. i was dating this guy for 5 months and we just recently broke up. i was really into him even tho our relationship was horrible. some things he said were almost unforgiveable but i still feel the need to try and get him back. an urgent need. when we were together... (605 words)