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writes:Hi, I have fallen in love with a married men. He isn't happy with his marriage and wants to end it but it's complicated. We want to be together more than anything, but our relationship wouldn't be accepted by most people, I'm 22 and he's 60. Other people don't bother me and can think what they like but it's our families I worry about. I don't want to have to choose. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 November 2009):
Well I can't tell you to abandon your family in good conscience as you break up this man's marriage.
It can be as complicated as he likes but the fact is, he's not leaving his wife.
If he's not happy he needs to sort his life out and get single.
After that is all sorted you can tackle the family issue. If it works it works, if not then it's not your problem.
Good Luck!! xx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): easy, stop sleeping with the married man , who is old enough to be your grandfather. there , you choose! what part of HE IS MARRIED, do you not understand? I am sure his wife is old enough to be YOUR grandmother as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Hmmmmm, well it all depends really.
Are you sure that he will leave her, you could end up being the other woman. It isnt all that rare.
Your age gap is large but as long as you are both together and happy then everyone else will soon get used to it.
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