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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend is ignoring me and I don't know why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get over a breakup when you love and care for someone? My boyfriend of 9mths indirectly broke up with me, he just has been ignoring me for the past month and i havent done anything wrong: no cheating, etc...he just stopped texting, replied less to my texts, ignored ... (187 words)

Love triangle, my boyfriend, me and his sister?!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I've been there for him through a lot of family problems. He lives at home with just his sister (with no parents) and he's 19 years old. I just feel like his sister takes full advantage of him, when i try to bring issues ... (449 words)

Why is she doing this now after being so cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was very close to my friend and still have feelings for her. We had had a short romance earlier in the year that sort of turned to friendship. A few months ago, I told her I still had feelings for her and she let me down softly. She said she felt the same way, but didn't ... (327 words)

I told him I had Herpes and now he won't see me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age - Met this guy 5 times and really hit it off. Just before 3rd date I told him that I had genital herpes. He said he was falling in love, and still met me for date, but then told me we could only be friends. I havent seen him for 2 weeks, and last week sent him quite a lot of ... (225 words)

I'm 14 and just into boys... how do I flirt???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Guys, I've never really had a boyfriend before but I really like this guy and everyone is telling me to just flirt with him but how do you flirt? Could you give me tips on stuff I could use because honestly I haven't got anything.... (46 words)

He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant live up to his idea of a perfec... (302 words)

Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference? Don't want to bother with details, but a few weeks ago my bf tried to break up with me for things that I had been doing that hurt him. I didn't know that these things bothered him and for months he didn't... (214 words)

Do other christian girls masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do other christian girls masturbate? i feel like im doing something horrible. I dont have a boyfriend and never even had one. Lately ive been so horny so i wanted to hear more stories about girls my age who do and are strong believers too. I know its not a major sin but it ... (105 words)

He gives me a guilt trip every time I go out with friends...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does anyones husband make you feel guilty for spending time away from the kids and him? I have other married friends and their husbands really dont care what they do and they go out with friends and shopping etc.. Really If i go out i get the guilt treatment for days and he ... (204 words)

Should I reconsider my outfit???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm going to a concert tonight with my cousin (26), her boyfriend (26), and his brother (18). I'm 16. I know this is silly, but I've seen pics of this guy (cousins bf's little brother) and I think hes really cute :) i was planning on wearing ripped jeans and a long sleeve tight ... (102 words)

Bleeding...can anyone explain whats happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im starting to get a bit worried about things. After i masturbate lately iv been bleeding. Im a virgin so not sure if iv broke that bit of skin. Its been happening for two months now. Can someone please explain what is happening?... (43 words)

Commitment phobe or just being practical?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'l try to keep this as brief as possible. I'm 30 years old with a teenage son, i'm currently with a guy and have been for the past 6 months!! My concern is that i could be a commitment phobe; I've had an 11 year relationship and an 18 month relationship; with others in betwe... (316 words)

I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i know for a while but she broke ... (300 words)

Dating again but fear looking inexperienced and self-concious to the new guy! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys...I could really use some help please. I was with my ex for 4 years, and we broke up 2 years ago. It was generally a very happy match and I was pretty gutted when it ended. While I've dated a few other guys since we broke up, I've only ever slept with him. I'v... (198 words)

He forgets to text me and he forgets our dates! Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been texing and meeting this boy for about 4-5 months, last week he told me he liked me but didnt want a relationship yet... all of a sudden since that he's been 'forgetting' to text me or ring me and tonight he even forgot we were supposed to be meeting up, we arranged it ... (115 words)

Two states apart and I feel like I'm losing her, please help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been at college for 3 months now, and it's hard on me and my gf of 3 years. I'm two states away. Recently we took a "break" just to see where our lives were, and we both decided it was a mistake, that we never wanted to be apart. BUT, while we were on break she let this ... (155 words)

How do I leave my marriage without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been married going on 2 years and lately i have not felt anything for my husband, I do not want to be sexually active and I take any chance of being away from him take so extra shifts at work what ever it takes. My husband says that he loves me very much and he always ... (188 words)

I'm dating a guy but I'm not sure if he's after more or just another notch in his belt, how do I figure it out!? Advise please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm active on an adult website and enjoy the privacy of participating on the site without the pressure of meeting someone. I chatted with a New Guy on and off for about 3 weeks and decided to meet him the other day. We immediately hit it off. I flirted heavily with him... (467 words)

I'm jealous as my cousin gets to go out more than I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't get out much often and I get jealous when other people do. My cousins they go places all the time and I get a jealous feeling towards them. My cousin tries to make me jealous because she gets all in my face saying imma have fun and what all is gone happen. When she does ... (127 words)

Turning 16 soon and need ideas on hosting a birthday party on a reasonable budget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal, I am turning 16 in February and my budget is kinda cheap-as my parents aren't rich! I need ideas. I'm thinking of doing an 80's rock and roll themed party-or just a rock and roll theme. Not sure. Any ideas? Also I need ideas on the food, drink, what to wear, ... (69 words)

Is my female house mate just being friendly or is it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key points- -She texts me all t... (274 words)

How can I improve my sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and Boyfriend have a strange sex life. we have sex but im not sure if its enough or too much sex. he likes the whole bondage thing with rope... don't mind it at all. hes also in to sexy clothes and stuff. but my question is i want sex more than he does. he can turn me on and ... (97 words)

Unable to deal with the breakdown in my relationship, will he come around? What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the moment . He though he was pulling me down so he dumped me . But we started talking again and we were joking around about old times then i asked him why cant we try again and he said we cant its to late and he stopped talking after ... (151 words)

My cousin jokes about a future with me in it, are his intentions honourable or should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My cousin nowadays says that if he wanted a girl it would turn out to be only me but later says that he was just joking and the next day he would say something like he would like to marry me because he would like me to be with him throughout his life with him each second,then ... (84 words)

In love with my crush, but he may soon marry. Should I tell him, or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok .. so 5 years ago i had a crush on this guy which now turns out to be love. However, he doesn't know that. I cannot tell him because then the word will spread and that would ruin my reputation. He might get married soon! What should I do? Shall i get over him?! ;[ ... (56 words)

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one point in their lives. And, I kn... (884 words)

On medication for depression but using drugs too, could I be causing myself long term damage? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm concerned about any long term damage i may have done to myself after using drugs occasionally over the last few years. I have tried most things once or twice and have probably taken mdma/exsctasy etc about 15 times in 5 years but now usually only 2 or 3 times a year. I ... (272 words)

He had a huge affect on me but I know it'll go nowhere, please help!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Last year, during a camp I attended, I met the most amazing guy. He is by far the one I ever adored so much. He's good-looking, friendly, nice, plays various instruments, sings like an angel (as cheesy as that might sound), athletic (he plays a lot of sports and is good at ... (433 words)

In love with two different guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 now and in year 9, ive never had a boy friend before and im in love with two different guys, the first guy is someone who i have liked since we went on a trip to france last year an the other guy is my quite a good friend of mine, ive only ever talk to the first boy ... (248 words)

Did she really intend to hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age - For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. I agreed to do the same for ... (463 words)

Anything can start a fight with us now. How do I sort this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, my girlfriend and I have been dating for around four years now. Things have been pretty awesome until recently. It seems that lately everything, from going grocery shopping to our puppy can start a fight. She always accuses me of starting everyone of them as well. ... (202 words)

How do I give him the best blowjob he's ever had???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were talking about what he likes and he tells me that he doesn't care much for blow jobs because in the past his now ex's weren't good at them... So I'm now keen to change his mind, the only thing is that it would be my first time... I obviously know I'm... (90 words)

Second time around 38 years later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age - I love this married woman. We were sweethearts as young teenagers. But trouble at home kept me at bay. I too was like one of the guys in a group. Gradually days without her turns into weeks then turns into months then years. 38 years have past. During this time, I date twi... (209 words)

How do I proceed to go out with this guy... and how is my ex going to take it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was just hoping some people would have some advice for me on a subject. So I had the FINAL/6th breakup with my bf about 2 weeks ago. 6 breakups in 6 months because he was so immature, a liar and a control freak. I have been emotionally detached and havent loved hi... (594 words)

My girlfriend has gone off sex and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Well I've been with my girlfriend just over a year and our our sex life was very good excellent to say the least, I am 36 and my girlfriend is 49 and i love her so dearly but recently she has gone off sex and has lost all interest in making love as if it was over night. I have... (179 words)

Help me! I need to get over him...........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whats wrong with me but I really have come to realize I am obsessed with my former teacher. I thought it was normal to fall in love with your teacher but its already been 4 years passed and i still can't get over this crush. Everytime i look for a guy either they ... (238 words)

He wants to drop child support in case his wife finds out!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a child with a married man. He has to pay child support and he wants me to drop child support because he doesn't want his wife to find out. He tell's me I need to do the right thing or he'll never see his child again (he only see's once a month). We still see each ... (126 words)

Why do guys turn against girls when they really like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question... basically why do some guys, even the good guys... why do they turn against a girl if they like them a lot? Like why are they horrible to them or change the way they are with them depending on who they're with and where they are! Why do they basically not show ... (146 words)

My boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

- My bf, 25 years old seems to have double standards. It is ok for him to flirt with other girls and lead them on, yet its not ok for another guy to even just say "hello" to me. Why does he do this? I dont want to flirt with other guys, but I feel bad and guilty just sayi... (141 words)

Why is she freaking out about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I've been best friends with since like 3rd grade. We are so close cuz my brother and him are best friends and me and his sister are best friends. Anyways recently he's been really like touchy and he's one of the hottest most popular guys at our school so ... (146 words)

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I've tried telling my bf th... (135 words)

How do I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bf been together for four months now. And he has a baby boy at the age of 15. And he sees his son when he wants to or when his baby mama wants him over there. He tells me hes not with her and she already told me i could have him. But sometimes i feel that hes just not ... (127 words)

What am I supposed to do next with this girl I know...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've met this girl recently who goes to my university. She has a boyfriend too (who lives half country away), but this one night she said she was bored. So we spoke for hours then she wanted to meet me. We ended up getting a bottle and going to her place. We were drunk, ... (404 words)

How do I convince him it wasn't me who text him?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone, I need help in trying to convince this guy that I wasn't texting him from another number trying 2 be someone else, It happened to2 be my ex bf doing this, I had only met this guy 3 times and was beginging 2 really like him. The last thing the guy had said 2 me was... (248 words)

What do I do... pressure... or give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all, ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny likes me and she knows that Ii do like her but I havn't said it at all, and I'm 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% for guys in the world! grrr) bec... (284 words)

In love with my best friend and can't live without him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do.... (39 words)

Advice from woman please! Female house mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So heres the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key points- -She texts me all the time dur... (232 words)

Depressed husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Mmy husband is depressed and snaps all the time; I don't react most of the time because I know he can't help it but sometimes I can't take it. When he is nice to me and shows me love I take whatever he gives me and don't blame him for what he does; but I am afraid I'll get sick ... (85 words)

How do I approach the topic of LOVE with my boyfriend?

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21 November 2009 (F)

- How do I approach the topic of 'love' with my bf? He hasnt said "I love you" and neither have I to him. We have been together about 8 months now and I think I do love him and want to say it to him but I am so afraid he wont feel the same way, yet will say it back just b... (253 words)

Will he ever give compliments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wanting to know why my husband doesnt tell me that I'm beautiful or give me any compliments for that matter? We have been together 5 years, married for 3 years and he still to this day doesnt make me feel like im special. I know he loves me, he's never cheated on me and he ... (282 words)

Do I have to change everything about me to find Mr wonderful???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - OK so here is what I need to know ... I am 45, a redhead past menopause and very in tune with what I want, do I have to change everything about me to find Mr wonderful????????? ... (37 words)

My ex boyfriend and my sister.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Two years ago I dated this guy. I really liked him but we got into a stupid fight and broke up. No one knew about us except for my best friend and his younger brother. Anyway, I recently found that he is very close to my older sister. She doesn't know I dated him and he doesn't ... (82 words)

Why does my boyfriend still want to talk with my ex knowing it bothers me?

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21 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My bf talks to my ex knowing it bothers me. I don't know why he's keeping in touch with him after trying to steal me away from him. My main problem is that I feel like garbage. Because my bf basically tries to give me away. Like if I was an object rather than a human of value. ... (122 words)

I am so emotional and upset with every click of the mouse when he looks at other girls!

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21 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My bf looks at other girls in front of me and that makes me very sad and uncomfortable. He also browses for naked girls on the net... and constantly buys porn magazines and videos. It really bothers me! I have told him about it but it just seems like he doesn't care. He was not ... (141 words)

I saw her breastfeeding and it soooo turned me on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We have a maid servant living in our house along with her husband, who is our driver. she gave birth to a baby girl about a month ago. About two days ago, I accidently, I repeat ACCIDENTLY saw her breastfeeding her child in her room when I had gone to fetch her husband to their... (141 words)

Missing my ex bf so badly... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really miss my ex. its been about a month since we really spoke. i mean i seem him twice since then, and he spoke to me, he even kissed me the other day, after telling me a month ago neva to speak to him again. so i havent hit him up and wasnt the first to speak the other ... (164 words)

My friend is engaging in prostitution..should I tell someone so he will stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid This is really more a friendship question more than anything. One of my really close friends has recently been alluding to the possibility that he is prostituting himself to other men. (He is openly gay.)He makes jokes about it, and has told me in confidence that ... (178 words)

If I take my ex to court..can I get sole custody of my daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex and i have been divorced for about 4years. our daughter is now 9. we have split custody but he hardly ever comes to see her, call her and hasnt got her annything for her bday xmas. Or helped with any of her school, personal expences, doctors, etc. we've divorcd. Hes ... (156 words)

Communication, sex.. all of it..is declining in my marriage! Advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age - Now were do I start ... my wife and I have been married for 17 years we have three boys 15, 10 and 9. Our relationship has been steadily declining emotionally over the past 3 years. It has come to the point that our communication is now declining and we are beginning to have ... (135 words)

I'm 25 and never had sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys I am 25 years old and still I had never gone through female sex.Whenever I tried to make sexual relationship with my gf she always ignored me.So pl z I feel myself ashamed right now.Can anyone suggest what should I do?? ... (43 words)

My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and she went to go check on it ... (228 words)

How can I get over my ex and learn to trust again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I miss my ex now? He was not a very nice guy at all, he was untrustworthy, a cheater, and manipulative. I thought he genuinely cared about me, because he would make it a point to tell me so. But when I caught him in lies it was just heartbreaking and I knew I had to... (227 words)

How do I find out if he's marriage material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He has a 3 year old daughter from ... (341 words)

Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select and purchase a pair. is there a ... (79 words)

When my boyfriend is away I get used to feeling 'single'. Does this mean I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together 11 months and 2 weeks. We have a sort of long distance relationship, but when he comes home he lives next door to me. But, ever since our relationship started after awhile i get over him being away and it's easier for me to de... (574 words)

Day trip to with my boyfriend in Montreal. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I wanted to spend the whole day together in late December in Montreal. I wanted this to be really special as we don't get to spend much time together. Does anyone have any suggestions on both indoor and outdoor activities? Something really fun or romantic... (108 words)

How can I convince her I'm not the same as her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

21 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK I am feeling really sad lately. I am seriously in love with this girl. She says, she don't trust me because we haven't talked in person yet but we had known each other for almost 2 years. She has a possessive bf of about 3 year plus. She said she's not in love with him and ... (202 words)

We're very close but he ignores me in public

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designated spot, but then he seemed t... (245 words)

He's odd and I think he fancies me. I fancy him too so how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy. he's really awkward, he does and says strange things. i just find it incredably alluring.. i have the biggest crush on him. he sits with me in class. i think maybe he's interested.. he pokes my hand with pencils, teases me, gets stuff for me, just does wei... (181 words)

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what can i do help... (69 words)

My ex wanted me to have an abortion, but now he wants visitation rights

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old and i have a 3 month old little boy with my ex whose 22. He wants to have some sort of visitation rights but i dont want him to. Since when i found out i was pregnant at 17 he left me for another girl and told me to have an abortion. He never helped in anything ... (118 words)

Can I ever learn to trust my boyfriend?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there i have a problem i would really like advice on. i love my bf, but i dont have trust, i really want to trust him but i keep thinking he is going to hurt me, by cheating on me or keeping secrets from me, i always have this thought in my head that he is talking to anoth... (220 words)

I want a baby and I don't care what my bf thinks! Is this bad to think this way?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is this a bad way of thinking? if i want a baby i dont care what he [my boyfriend of six months] thinks if he wants to be around then he can if not then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot of wealthier women ... (138 words)

Calas solved the erection, but now I can't climax!

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21 November 2009 (M)

age - Hi from time to time i have had problems getting a full erection and staying hard. i have seen the doctor and he says everything is normal and as given me calas. i take about 1/2 a tab. and it fixes my erection (it does however give me a bad head for 24 hours). what i... (95 words)

Where can I meet men?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating since 16 (im 26 now). I've had a handful of bfs and I've been married. However I find bfs to be rare. I've been on more dates than I can count.that lead to a couple, handful or 1 date at most and nothing. It seems I'm always ms right now, Ms youre great and ... (274 words)

Help me decide... what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas???

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for three years, but we've been completely together since March 21st. We always talk about how we're going to have a kid, and a house, and everything. We're both 14, and we do no what true love is. I'm not going to get ... (73 words)

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot of wealthier women who have waste... (104 words)

He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The physical chemistry was th... (879 words)

I work two jobs to pay for everything while my boyfriend has no time for me!

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has changed so much since ive had 2 jobs. He is always busy and now seems so into himself. I had to get the 2nd job to pay for things. He is always busy if i have a night off, has already made plans and doesnt invite me. We live together but it hurts me how h... (145 words)

I can't stop thinking about having a baby, but I know I'm not ready.

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm always thinking, "What if I get pregnant?" and my answer in my head is, no matter what i'd keep the baby since me and my boyfriend both talk about it all the time, we cant wait until we're older to have kids. i never had a good mother, she was never around and when she was,... (469 words)

He says he wants to be a couple, but he doesn't text me as often

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating a guy for quite sometime now, he calls texts me a few times during the week so we can go out on the weekend usually both friday and saturdays. He doesn't mind seeing me even with my friends and gets along with them too. Last week he said he wanted to see m... (323 words)

Lately I've been paranoid about my long distance relationship

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I've been really worried about my boyfriend. I feel like I have an unfounded fear... a couple of weeks ago I tried to break up with him and after I started talking to him I realized that he really does love me when previously I had been doubtful. The reason is that we ... (191 words)

She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?

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21 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had her arms crossed. But she was ... (407 words)

I've met his family but he hides his friends

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 21 years of age, and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I love him, and honestly have never been in such a great relationship. There is one minor problem which gets to me. While he has introduced me to his family, I have not met any of his friends. He has met all of ... (1018 words)

A girl with a boyfriend likes me a lot... what should I do?

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21 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, One of my friends (who has a bf, but doesn't see him much any more) has started hanging out with me a lot, she invites me out to town around once or twice a week, and sometimes sleeps round my house. I like her a lot myself. I can't shake this feeling that sh... (84 words)

I would love to have a real relationship with a girl. (I'm also female).

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have a real relationship with a girl, but i'm really bad at starting up that kind of thing. i tried to find some groups and sites and such to help me meet new girls and get to know them, but everyone just seems to be there for the sex and honestly i want to ... (174 words)

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

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21 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my boyfriend to touch me makes me ... (326 words)

My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!

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21 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me so when my mates say when ... (293 words)

How can I learn to take a step back and 'chill' before I ruin it?

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21 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been single for 2 years.. I had 3 long term relationships and all have cheated on me. This has left me so insecure and when i meet someone i tend to be quite 'clingy'. I fall for that person quite easily, like i crave to be loved..:-(. I'm 35 but look about 26-27, I look c... (153 words)