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36-40,
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writes:Hello everyone,I am in need of some advice on if I should say something to my bf or not.Ok so we have been having problems lately. Mostly trust issues that I have, for good reason. Anyhow it was just this past month or so that things got really bad. We decided to work things out and try again. But My problem is that his ex conviently called couple weeks ago on his cell.(The week we decided to try) He missed the phone call, and I asked why would she be calling. (They are still friends but not friends that call each other) So it was weird that she is all of a sudden calling. I told him to call her back to find out what she wanted. (I had a feeling she got word we were having trouble) He said he didnt know why she was calling and that it doesnt matter cause he doesnt care.I let it go... but last fri she called again and he answered his phone. I asked who it was and it was her. She wanted his sisters number because his sister babysits for her sometimes. I found that weird because she would have the sisters number because she has been babysitting for her for 5 years now. I know it was an excuse for her to call.So I looked into it more and I know that they have been talking to each other on the phone for the past month. (about once a week) The phone calls are only 1 minute long but still. Should I say something to him? Should I be worried I have already asked why she is calling but I dont understand why he hasnt been truthfull and just say that she has been calling lately. I am afraid that if I push this it might make things worse between him and I. Should I just wait and see if it contuies or say something now?
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (31 January 2010):
hi i think you have nothing too worry about if he wanted her if he would have lied that it was her he was talking to on the phone he said it does not matter so he is not interested just trust him otherwise he will go elsewhere if he is getting accused anyway , yes it was just her making a excuse and she is still interested in him but thats not felt both ways he is probably talking to her to stop her bothering him with endless phone calls etc
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