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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i was hurt by my ex it took me more than a year to get over him, he made me ill and i was heartbroken, then i went on a wild thing when me and my ex ended where i would meet up with alot of boys everyweek, i started seeing a few but it never worked out coz they were all just using me and treating me badly, then finally i met my boyfriend who i have now been with for six months but i have known him for years, we love eachother so much, hes so good to me, treats me nice, he would do anything for me, and would never hurt me. im his first love and first serious girlfriend...but because i have been so badly hurt in the past, i find it really hard to trust eventhough hes the most loyal boy you could ever meet, im not use to boys being nice to me, and because hes so nice to me i find it weird. hes already told me i need to stop thinking hes like those boys coz he aint, i know hes right. when he says he loves me i think " how can he love me" i believe that no one will ever love me, i really hate my ex coz hes took everything away from me, my confidence, my trust, its like hes ruining my relationship without doing anything... please help me and give me some advice on how to learn to get my trust back and be that confident girl i use to be. i love my boyfriend to bits and dont wanna push him away but thats all i seem to be doing to him. im 17 and hes 23 by the way, i just wanna move on with my life and be able to trust and forget the past.
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (24 November 2009):
 if he truly loves you then he will give you time but you can find ways of trusting him i had to with mine coz my ex did the same thing with me and i 18 with a kid, its hard to trust another man when 1 has hurt you so bad you dont think some 1 will ever love you again but they will and, u have to put the past behind u gradually.....good luck if u have any problems give me a message kk
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