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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I too demanding or am I stuck in a boring relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years. Like with most couples, the first months of it went by smoothly. But lately, I'm starting to feel a bored with my relationship. I go to school full-time so I don't get to see him during the week, and I make every effort ... (423 words)

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and they only went out for a few ... (131 words)

How do I confront an acquaintance about an untrue rumor she may have spread about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to confront an acquaintance who I know very well about a rumor she told a close friend of mine. Basically, she told him I slept with someone I have not, at a time when I was in a long term relationship (I do not cheat on my partners). I doubt she made it up herself, b... (135 words)

How can I get some 'me' time in this smothering relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my girlfriend is very needy and possessive. We've been dating for 6 months now, and we're both 15. Over the last few months, it's been getting worse and worse. She LITERALLY expects me to hang out with her every second of my spare time, right after school, until she ... (210 words)

My husband is a devoted teacher, maybe too devoted to his....work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't believe it's come to this-posting an anonymous question on an advice forum. I hope someone can help! It started a while ago, four years ago. My husband is a teacher, a very dedicated devoted teacher who is respected and high up in his school. It seemed perfectly... (555 words)

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my friends where I am when I'm of... (512 words)

My ex and I are talking again. Should I tell him I still love him or just leave it as friends?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Alrighty. So my and my boy friend broke up and I really still love him, I've tried to get over him, not talking to him and what not, but it just won't work. Me and him are talking now and I don't know if I should tell him how I still feel or not any advice? ... (56 words)

His "joke" was NOT funny!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) age - My husband jokingly said, "I love this woman... Jennifer", she is always so satisfied with my work... I totally lost it. I felt it was an insult. And he said, oh no it was just a joke, I was just making a funny joke.. Do you think is this really funny? I found it totally ... (120 words)

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he completely ignores me, its unreal! ... (97 words)

He's in a gang, but a sweet guy. Is he using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met *John during the summer in the middle of July through the internet. We have already met in person and after about 2 and a half months of knowing each other, we began dating, which lasted for about 2 weeks. The reason we broke up is because John is 17, which makes hi... (414 words)

My ex seems to be copying me and nw she won't talk to me? What is wrong with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text each other and talked on msn. but last month i found myself a girlfriend and my ex found ou... (410 words)

Porn and masturbation addiction... Desperately need help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I desperately need help. I would say I am addicted to watching porn and masturbating. I am a relationship for 2 years and we do have sex, sometimes amazing and sometimes dull. She makes love the way I want but not always and not everything that I like. I am desperate for oral ... (180 words)

Need help! Love/attention addiction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is anyone familiar with "love addiction"? Like the need for attention/love/affection? As if it's a drug. Dr Drew (the celebrity therapist) was talking about it as a form of sex addiction. But just because you crave love doesn't mean you crave sex. I think I'm suffering fr... (101 words)

Will I ever learn to live alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, never been kissed, not pretty, very chubby and I'm asking: Will I ever learn to live alone? Because of my appearance probably no one will ever want something more than be friend with me.... (40 words)

My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone might of spread it round ... (115 words)

Betrayed by a friend I fancied

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told me he didn't fancy me and told m... (241 words)

Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to annoy me, both way its ... (125 words)

How do I know I'm not just a rebound?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started dating a man who lives 6-7 hours away from me. We met over the summer in my city when we were both in the same month-long professional development program. He is funny and flirty, but he's like that with everyone. I developed a crush on him but he didn't do ... (546 words)

She is the love of my life and the air that I breathe... how can I get her back permanently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this woman on and on for the past 12 years. She is also the mother of our 3 Children. Back in 06, She cheated on my with the guy across the street from our house while I was at work. I found out about it a couple of months afterwards. She told me the reason ... (206 words)

Revenge is sweet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ... (45 words)

My facial expressions give me away all the time, so much so that people can even tell what I'm thinking, how can I rectify this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - To some this might seem very silly. I am feeling really sad about it. I have such an expressive face and eyes. Everyone (all and sundry) end up knowing what I am really thinking. I was hoping someone could help me to correct this problem. It's creating havoc in my life. ... (64 words)

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. He wants to break up but I ... (186 words)

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when he's there, so I know it's ... (141 words)

Will a married man ever leave his wife if he doesn't have any children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in June I met a man at a convention while on a business trip, although it was just friendly. We exchanged email addresses to be in contact about work-related questions. At the time I was engaged to be married (I have been with him for 3 years) and the other guy has ... (739 words)

Help me... I want the life back that I just lost...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in hell. 2 months ago in one fell swoop i lost my partner of 2 and a half years, my job, my home (we ran and lived in a pub together), and my dog. I was left penniless, with 2 children (not his), nothing to focus on and living at my parents house in London. I am 31, I was ... (225 words)

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the party, she made promises that ... (239 words)

I feel he is too old for me... should I end it with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age - I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my misery and divorced him. I have g... (147 words)

How can I manage to feel more comfortable around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I had a drunken one night stand with a guy from uni 3 weeks ago, who I had only known for 3 weeks beforehand. He is fairly shy and its quite uncomfortable between us. He asked my friend whether I had a bf, what my interests are so I think he likes me. I like him too. ... (101 words)

First Christmas together, What do you get a boyfriend when your 5 months pregnant and lingerie doesn't fit the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months now, we are planning on getting married in the next 2 years. On top of that I am 5 months pregnant with our first child. This Christmas will be our first together, and I have no idea what to get him. Since I am pregnant ... (142 words)

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is this very pretty girl that has... (597 words)

I faced my fear and gave him oral but I couldn't handle it if he came anywhere near my face...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this might seem like a weird question but here goes - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old daughter together. I had never ever given oral sex before i had met him to anybody (fear). I faced this fear recently and decided to give it a shot. ... (154 words)

Do men like to kiss as much as women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do men like to kiss as much as women? For me, I think kissing somone passionately is a true sign of showing somebody your feelings - but currently my guy only kisses me as and when. So does this mean he doesn't enjoy kissing or do men just like to cut straight to the sex?... (56 words)

Forceful sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came inside me even tho he knows that ... (84 words)

How dare he try to dictate her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I met 4 months ago and are totally in love. Her husband left her for another woman 1 year ago and their divorce is in progress. Unusually, my gf is on very good terms with her in-laws (she's known them 26 years). The in-laws don't like he's split up a famil... (153 words)

He wanted me to take the job and now he doesn't trust me!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend are together for 2 years and at first everything was perfect but after like 5 months he asked me to go and try to go dancing at the strip club, so I was thinking about that and went. I work there for 1 year and right now at this point our relationship is ... (91 words)

Hey!!! Is there still a chance I'm pregnant???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We had sex during my ovulation period and my period was 10 days late naturally I thought I was pregnant. My question is once your period comes does it for certain mean you are not pregnant? It came today ten ... (146 words)

He still tells me he loves me even though he has a new gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up 3 months ago due to him having feelings for another girl.he is now seeing her but still texts me every day and tells me he loves me.why would he do this??... (40 words)

To stalk the girls at his school, or to be miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so... here's my story. i like this guy. i'v known him since i was 6. we were best friends. and he lives more than 90 miles away. in 6th grade i went out with him a few times. and for the past two years i've been sad, depressed, and obsessed over him. he said he loved me [thi... (158 words)

Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'm so afraid that there's something... (978 words)

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust me (even though i never ... (281 words)

Why are bigger breasts better?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce more milk or indicate more ... (204 words)

I am just so in love with him, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help. I keep having sexual dreams about my teacher and i really want to tell him. It feels that everytime i see him i will explode because i want to tell him. He is so sweet and cool. He is my p.e teacher so he is in great shape. He has the nicest smile and i coul... (146 words)

Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more likely for beautiful and pr... (59 words)

My son's coach doesn't reply to my texts. Is it because I'm older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator note: age posted is incorrect. Two questions combined into one.] i met this guy two months ago, at my son game, hes the coach, and little by little ive become interested in him. I told him that i though he was sexy and that i love his eyes and smile. he just replied ... (227 words)

I performed oral sex on my best friend. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - At the beginning of this year, I met possibly the most amazing guy at my university. We became almost best friends through the course of the year, we did everything together and talked everyday. However, I had fallen really hard for him. Although he seemed to flirt with me, he ... (304 words)

He cheated and I thought I was over it but I still feel paranoid. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. He is my first true love and I haven't been able to notice any other guy since. I am at Uni now and we are still together as we had agreed (he is still at home). He has cheated on me in the past (ab... (208 words)

Quick advice needed - how do I handle our date tonight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - advice needed asap!!! ok here goes iv recently posted a question about why my man is ignoring me .... the thing is im going to see him tonight. well im hoping hes out. what i want to know is how to handle my situation. what can i say without sounding like a self obsessed ... (63 words)

Kissed at a party, how to talk to her without freaking her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted this question a little while back but it didnt get answered, so here it is again: Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "accidently" rubbing up ... (361 words)

Is she thinking of someone else or can I just not satisfy her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - After a nice day with my girfriend we where making out, I try to go down on her then she said don't do it if you don't want to, I said don't say anything and she said it again, so I'm thinking I don't satisfy her or her mind is on someone else. What do you think? ... (57 words)

Question about masturbating and pregnancy.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Lets say that I was masturbating and I used moisturizing lotion. If I accidentally got some of my pre-cum on the bottle top and my sister used that bottle, could she get pregnant????!!!!! I doubt it but still....... (38 words)

I'm ready to end relationship and pregnancy..help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so hurt I think its time to end my relationship and not continue my pregnancy. Yesterday was my birthday my co-workers bought me flowers and took me to lunch. My boyfriend did nothing for me. When I got to his house from work he had already had some drinks and was having ... (132 words)

Ex and facebook behaviro..need advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, the ex is still the ex. She has done some pretty odd things that I have written about on her many times. It was her choice to break up with me and then get back, then break up after creating some more drama. Since September, a drunk dial, an email, texting at first after a ... (234 words)

Husband never around and I'm falling for his friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, have been married 2years and my husband is a doctor. he remains busy most of the time in his works and gives very less time in home. i tried to adjust in this for 2 years but this days its becoming hard for me. my husband is a good man and he loves me also, i ... (171 words)

Is my boyfriend poor? Or just cheap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is fairly poor. He lives with four other people but his rent is still around $350 a month. He makes a little more than minimum wage at a dead-end job and generally has little spending money that he uses for money and gas. Now let me note, I don't care at all abou... (520 words)

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pub for few months now and know and... (677 words)

I'm sure he didnt come in me, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had my period on 11th november [mine is irregular] and had unprotected sex on 21st november am i likely to be pregnant? what im sure of is that he didnt come in me coz i pushed him away.... (39 words)

Who to choose; my long distance boyfriend who I love very much or the new guy who lives close by?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i do?i love my boyfriend very ... (60 words)

I cant find anyone my own age! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what I should do, she's 17 n i'm 22. Is that too much of a difference? So instead look what Ive done, I found a girl who's 31 :/ Is that too much of a difference?... (41 words)

How do I stop myself in the future from feeling the need to snoop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Im feeling guilty about something bad that i did, it was shady and not very nice, and i am lucky to still have my gf afterwards (it seems). I promised myself i would never do this, but i managed to, hate myself for it, and i got caught out aswell, i guess its g... (478 words)

How can I move on and completely forget this man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I had a short affair with co-worker and end up to a big fight. We became close to each, send SMS and phone each other. He was married with a kid and I'm single mother with 2 kids. He is very vocal to his feelings and running after me all the time. Myself is... (335 words)

I was so angry with my married lover that I sent a letter to his son revealing all about our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, Can love be so true when he is with other women at the same time he is with me? I am 38 yrs old and separated. I met a 68 yrs old married man through internet chatting. I fell intensely in love with him and we shared feelings online intimately for almost 4 y... (644 words)

I'm having problems with my mother, she is just too strict with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I have issues with my mother. Don't get me wrong, I love her dearly and all but most of the times, she's just TOO unreasonable and conservative for her own good. To begin with, she won't allow me to wear make-up. I'm 16 by the way and I think I'm old enough for that. ... (644 words)

I would like to be together with him but how can I make this a reality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i dated last year although he made clear that he wasn't interested for a committed relationship, this year he calls me sometimes to go out together. I usually accept to go out with him although i have told him in the past that i would like a more committed relationship. ... (134 words)

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning and this was the time I used to ... (322 words)

Should my partner tell his daughter that he is her real father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im desperate for someone give some advice about my fella and his daughter.this is going to be long because if i give proper details then you might understand it clearer..my fella (mike) of 8 years told me when i first met him that he had a daughter(julie) with his ex,she is now ... (444 words)

I love him really inspite of how he treated me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello! i just want to share with you 0n what i experienced, honestly because i really d0n't understand.... i have 24 at age going 25 next month. i have a live-in partner for 3 years and having him helped me lot to changed in a way that i am before and because of that i expect... (586 words)

I'm afraid I could be falling for the man I am having an affair with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i had an affair with a guy i met at work. i work at a hotel which he stays there from time to time cause he travels on his job. hes married and so am i but i was instantly attracted to him and we ended up having sex. it was a really good night for us but i cant stop thinking ... (83 words)

Why do things always turn sour once you are married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - why is it always like this? when a women and a man is on the relationship, no matter how long the relationship goes even its 5 or 10 years long or more they are most of the time always in good term. the sweetness, the cares, the dream, the love, most of the time all the ... (139 words)

I'm craving a threesome, with me and two gorgeous men. How do I make this happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've always had very intense sexual fantasies about being with more than one man at a time (a threesome)... I think about it whenever I masturbate or have sex, it's the only thing that can push me over the edge into orgasm. Unfortunately in my real life I have not been able to ... (217 words)

Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, since it happened to me yesterday. Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area, in this case on your penis ?????? Its exactly like one, except if i press it for it to pop it kinda swells. And if not then what could it be ?... (52 words)

It just hasn't felt right since she decided she wanted a break

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my gf for almost a year...we had been friends and hooked up several times in the past...we've known each other for about 5 yrs...a few days after we started dating she got a dui and lost her license...she moved in with me almost rite after that...I've been taking ... (337 words)

How can I get his trust back?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend are together for 2years and at first everithing was perfect but after like 5 months he asked me to go and try to go dance at the strip club, so I was thinking about that and went. I work there for 1 year and right now at this point our relationship is ... (90 words)

Should I be social with her if she does contact me, or am I being used?

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27 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I'm confused about what to do with a certain friend of mine. When her life isn't going well, when she's sad or lonely and she needs a friend she'll call me or e-mail me asking to hang out, but when everything is going well for her she completely forgets about me or calls just ... (118 words)

Breaking up is hard to do

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I was in an eight month relationship. It ended on November second and I was devastated by it. He said he doesn't want his stuff back. But if we're broken up, what's the point of me having it? Everyone I have talked to has said that he'll be back and that I just have to be ... (80 words)

Why does he care if I have met someone when he was the one that rejected me?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so here is my situation..well a couple of months ago i got rejected by a guy that i really liked lets call him Vic..okay so after like a week that he rejected me he would still send me text messages everday asking me about my day and what i am doing..well lately he has ... (67 words)

I'm obsessed with checking my girlfriend's page out on facebook... and don't like what I see

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf, im obsessed with her, and she has a pic of another guy on facebook she's sayin that he is the hottest guy in the world, and some other guy that she likes is mentioned as well . help me dudes... (43 words)

How can I stop being so depressed over my lack of experience with girls?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - 17 never been kissed all my friends been kissed,lost there v had there first proper experiences etc and there happy everyone I know is but I'm not and I have not had anyone ever? closest thing I've ever had to a girl is online twice and I just got played messed around and ... (308 words)

Split from husband and seeing a new man... but still in love with him

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Her is the story long and true and I need help. I am 29 years old. My husband and I are currently seperated and have been since June. My husband and I had been together for 13 years. Married for 8 years. Well we had a very rouch relationship with lots of up and downs. I ... (317 words)

Why can't I make any relationships work, including friendships?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i think i have serious issue. I can not make a relationship work with any one. This includes friends, guys who are interested in me, and even teachers. I was abandond when i was only nine months old and the family that took me in has shown me love and has provided for ... (263 words)

Should I hold on, when my heart and mind say "let him go"

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks in advance for any help you may be offer on this. As is often the case, there is a depth to this story I can't write here solely for the reason that it will take up 100 pages! However, in a nutshell: I have been in a relationship for near on 18months. From the s... (551 words)

Why does he want to see other women if he is seeing someone that makes him happy?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy I am seeing and I am not too sure about what exactly he wants. I met him over a year ago at school. We didn't start to hang out and 'date' until 5 months later. My two previous relationships have been bad and I didn't feel like being played again. So I initially ... (999 words)

Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?... (20 words)

Does a "cougar woman" have more relationships than an older guy with a younger gal?

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27 November 2009 (F) age - Do ''cougar woman"" has less chance on the long run with a younger man, than an older man with a younger woman? Do they get hurt more at the end ?... (31 words)

My period started the day after I had unprotected sex, do you think I could be pregnant?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First I must start out saying that My periods are always the same. They last 3-5 days, and are always a dark red, and very very thick (Kinda like mucus). I also must say that I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 22nd. I started my period on the next day, like 18 hours ... (195 words)

Is it weird that we don't talk on the phone?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - iv just started dating this guy and hes my first ever boyfriend and kiss we text all the time and whenever we see each other at school we talk but we don't talk on the phone at first i thought that there was no problem with that but most of my friends that have boyfrien... (116 words)

We're confused about our new friendship with another couple... any insight?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - background: my wife and i met this couple at a restaurant few (2-3) months back. they have a 3-yr old daughter and ours is 4-yrs. over this time, we have seen each other (mostly couple w/kids dinners or get-togethers) about once every 2 weeks. apart from that, a couple of ... (558 words)

My first time, horror and the irreal fear of her being pregnant

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I know people post the same thing over and over again. But I started panicking yesterday and feel like **** ever since. I meet this girl and we used each other to get rid of the "stigma" (please not hate, I came to believe it was keeping me from getting into relationshi... (450 words)

How should I quit my smoking habit?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this may seem pathetic but its true. simply put im a kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with i seem to make everything worse for myself and because i cant deal with it i smoke. it started out at smoking with my friends just to have a good time but then ... (170 words)

How can I give my girlfriend the most pleasure without going in her pants?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend and just about a week ago I "touched" her down there for the first time and was just kinda lightly stroking my fingers up and down the outside of her pants because with the boundaries that she set im not allowed to go inside her pants (yet) ... (138 words)

Is this abnormal?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if this is rather weird. I think it is. I was raped when I was younger, but that was nearly 6 years ago now. Now with my boyfriend we like having roleplay sex games (that alone may be considered weird, I don't know) and for some reason I seem drawn to th... (74 words)

In love with an actor and it is affecting my real life relationship??

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i am in love with an actor, ryan reynolds. the guy from the proposal, okay? its getting in the way of mine and my boyfriend's relationship. but ryan is so so so so so so so so hot. i have a poster of him in my room. and look at videos of him on youtube everyday. help! ... (63 words)

How can I break this smoking habit once and for all?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This may seem pathetic but its true. Simply put I'm an old kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with I seem to make everything worse for myself and because I can't deal with it I smoke. It started out at smoking with my friends just to have a good time but ... (178 words)

What the hell is wrong with me?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - please help me someone i am pushing my girlfriend away, because i am paranoid and insecure. i have been with my current partner for about 6 months now and she is the best thing to ever happen to me. my last 2 relationships were pretty volatile with both my ex partners cheating... (316 words)

What should I do about my parents rule?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 16 and my bf is 19 and i love him more than anything but my parents have this 2 year rule that i cant date anyone that is more than 2 years older than me but they wont even meet him and give him a chance he is a great guy nd ive been wit him for 9 months idk wat to do ... (73 words)

Is it real? Or just an illusion?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i'v been dateing my girlfriend for about 4-5 weeks. She seems like a really nice girl and she really looks like she loves me. She is always so sweet to me, and says stuff like "your the best boyfriend i ever had" and "your everything i wanted in a guy and your per... (278 words)

Cheated and fell in love..what now?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Here's my predicament... I've been married 17 years, contently, i would say, but not always happily. I love my wife but am not in love. we have two children (14 and 7). Two years ago, I started an affair with a co-worker. She and I each seemed to be missing something at home, ... (265 words)

Tips for getting thru this meeting at work?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HI, not a relationship question really, but very soon i have a meeting at my office. I havent a clue what it is about, but i do know, that one of the people i have to speak to when i get there, doesn't like me and always loves to belittle me. I am a very shy person, wouldnt ... (189 words)

Is it always black and white?

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27 November 2009 (F) - Is it always so black and white when getting back with an ex? Every situation can be different right? If you contacted an ex a year later and left a vmail and they called you back right away and you explained mistakes and regrets etc and they said it would be like starting over ... (198 words)