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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is your marriage over if there's no sexual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 5 years (since i was 18) I love him very much but the last two years of our relationship I find that I'm not sexually attracted to him any more. I just can't help fantasizing about different men. I have no desire to leave him but I'm wondering if ... (66 words)

How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship? Does it even last longer than a few years? I'm asking because there is a lovely guy who's interested in me but he isn't what I'm generally attracted to in the looks department. He's good lookin... (97 words)

My first time and I think I've fell pregnant. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 16 years old and i had sex the other day with my boyfriend. I have not been feeling that well lately and yesterday i was hungery even although I had been eating all day but today im hungery but i feel very sick. My parents and his are weird, i might be pregnant, it ... (73 words)

I don't know if I can get over it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About six months ago, I found out my boyfriend was seeing another girl. In his defense, it wasn't physical, but he did lie to me about seeing her, and I knew he had feelings for her (gut feeling) though he swore he didn't. I was scared of being left, or hurt, so I left him. ... (245 words)

I seem to be missing out in the orgasm department big time!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 in a stable relationship with a man who i am very much in love with and feel totally comfortable around him. i have been sexually active since i was sixteen and had my first orgasm at about 8. my problem is that i seem to be missing out in the orgasm department big time! ... (159 words)

Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life was great, he taught me a ... (855 words)

I have to see her every day and know I'll probably never have her and it's driving me nuts. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a crush on a girl at work, dont speak to her much but I know she's dating online. We went out the other day (as friends/colleagues) and spoke for hours about lots of stuff, I hoped to find her irritating but she's wonderful - attractive, funny, and has more in common ... (137 words)

At a crossroads in my life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I'm 28 single with a good job no children in good shape have my own place. Been single for like 5 years now. Dated on and off but can't really find anyone to connect with. Is it me or am I not trying hard enough and people always think I'm happily married or have a ... (85 words)

I need some ideas! How can I make conversation with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I went to a football game for my high school and I met a girl who is 2 years younger than I am. We held hands for almost 3 quarters of the game and then she told me that her dad was my botany teacher. 3 weeks later I saw her at the next home game and she told my ... (124 words)

Help me leave for good my cheating husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me... I have been married to a man I love very much for 8 years this is my second marriage, I left my first husband because he used to hit me, the day I walked out on him was easy because in the end I hated him....but I don't hate my 2nd husband, he means the world ... (310 words)

Any teachers out there??? How do teachers deal with student crushes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How/what do teachers deal/do with student crushes? For example: if a student had a crush on you, what would you do? and how would you know?... (27 words)

The blame game!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - You know I am not a perfect person(who is?) But man don't stuff like this just make you mad? My husband and I had our car break down. Now I am not the greatest when it comes to fixing stuff like that but I gave it a good try the night before. My car was still not working so I ... (250 words)

Should I call him again? Or is this his way of saying "get lost?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been getting to know this guy through email recently. Emails were going well and we seemed to have clicked, alot of interests same but some differences. Swapped photos and attracted to one another so all good. We had an issue about a topic on religion so were disucssing ... (301 words)

Was I pregnant and did I kill my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I drank with my brother earlier, and i may be pregnant i went to sleep and when i woke up i was bleeding but not really like my period . It was there but it stopped. Could i have killed my baby? Or could it have been implantation bleeding ? :( i wanna have a baby and ill... (89 words)

I've never been out with anyone before... how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, i want to ask this lad out who is also one of my best mates, i asked on here before wether i should or not and somebody advised me to, so i thought meh may aswell (lol)! anyway...the thing is, i dont really know how to do it...im really scared of just walking up to him a... (159 words)

What are some cheating red flags?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a suspicision that my bf did cheat. He may be doing it still (I doubt it). But something happened and/or he tried. Now I have decided to move forward because I dont have any solid proof and I like to give him the benefit of the doubt. I also dont want t... (98 words)

My pre-emptive cheat has left me feeling guilty. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy since about the start of this year but a few months ago we officially got together. And I've never been happier. But He's got this close female friend who I don't like. I don't trust her, because of her bad reputation. They were hanging out the othe... (119 words)

How soon to meet his parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering when a good time to meet the parents is.... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and 1 day...But we have been extremely close for about two months (he was just shy and slow asking me out - everyone said "finally!" when he did.) But he told me ... (96 words)

He's 17. I'm 15 and his parents don't want us together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator Note: Personal information removed] my Boyfriend is 17 and he is going 2 be 18 june 1st and i really love him and want 2 be with him but i am 15 and his parents don't want us together bc of age.. i don't know what 2 do bc we are going out without no1 knowing ... (75 words)

How do I silence my squelching fanny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when i am having sex with my bf my fanny makes a squelching noise. how can i stop this? help... (20 words)

My ex's friend has been making overtures. Should I accept?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

- i broke up with my ex boyfriend about 4 years ago and recently one of his close friends has been trying to come onto me every time i see him. Although its making me wonder whether or not he's doing it just to make my ex jealous. When i was with my ex and we used to be in hi... (211 words)

How can I save my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i love my boyfriend more then any thing. We have been dateing for seven months. He broke up with me once in the beginning of our relationship. He asked me back out and said he made the biggest mistake of his life so i forgave him. Now he told me he wants to break up but ... (129 words)

My teacher wants me to spend time alone with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my teacher whom i had a great respect on is now trying to get close to me he made me sit after classes alone with him and told me that he enjoyed a girl and he told me to stay after classes and talk freely. he doesn't do this to other girls and he is almost 55 and i am in my te... (91 words)

I don't want to come across as desperate so don't want to ring or text him but I would like to see him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy. We talk but things aint going the way I wish it could.. he doesnt ring much..(sometimes every day other times he goes for days without calling) he wanted to see me last week and I told him due to college and all that stress I can only see him on friday... but ... (168 words)

My boyfriend doesn't have time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys :) Feeling pretty low right now and would appreciate any advice :) I've been with my boyfriend a few months now and I met him last night so that I could meet some of his friends and people he works with. I had a bit of an argument with him when I saw him as he wa... (289 words)

Does my lack of trust isolate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is is plainly just chemistry? I have been single for very long and have yet be able to open my heart to anyone now. There are a few potentials one in my life now but I just cannot open my heart. Is love just based on chemistry or is it that I am unwilling to give up my past ... (68 words)

He doesn't respect me. Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in desperate need of opinions! What should I do with my boyfriend? I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months. On one hand, he is a really sweet guy who calls me in the middle of the day to say he's thinking of me, texts me all day, plans d... (257 words)

Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????... (24 words)

Do boys like large breasts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy...... i am 14 years old and i have larger tits than my friends ... i am 1 38dd and i am still growing will lads like em cuz the are so big ??? ... (34 words)

Can anyone recommend a good contraceptive pill?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some female advice, I am 27 (virgin) and currently not on the pill, I have been seeing this guy and we want to take things further, I have never really wanted to go on the pill because I think it messes with the female body, but I also don't want to get pregnant, I have ... (147 words)

I'm pregnant - but how far along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i am pregnant but really would like someone to say how far i am, roughly. i had my last period on the 13th septemeber.... (26 words)

I can't stop lying!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cant stop lying. i lie all the time. My friends recently fell out with me because of it! Please help me stop!... (26 words)

Why won't admit he hasn't time for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We met up and he seemed really keen. We met up a couple more times usually on a Friday night or a Saturday night. We have never been out on a date and apart from texting each other everyday we have not seen each other fo... (178 words)

How can you get over someone you love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - why i cannot forget a person which i have loved? sometimes im thinking of her and i get sad.(its been 2years since we have broke up).what should i do?... (30 words)

21 and still a virgin, but lead a busy life! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well,i dont know from where to start.im 21years old and im still a virgin.sometimes is quite embarrassing for me.i dont know but in any relationship i have failed..this is giving me a some depression.i mean,i wanted to to with somebody special.and the problem is that i have ... (166 words)

Cheating husband, suspicious other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband cheated on me recently and the affair last 3 months. he called it quits when we decided to work thimgs out. I found out that she left town around the same time i found out that im pregnant (sept.) could she also be pregnant with my husbands child and that be the ... (68 words)

Is douching unsafe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What happens after sex, I mean should you wash or is going to the toilet ok. I am never to sure when people say you should douche after sex, I have heard that douching to much can cause UTIs.... (39 words)

No strings attached??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How does a guy feel when a girl tells them that she wants no commitment no strings attached, nothing just someone she can have fun with?... (26 words)

Should be stay together or break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to break up with my boyfriend. I don't want to be with him anymore because he doesn't respect me and we have a terrible relationship. Whenever I'm about to say something to him something always happens to make me not say anything. Like, he'll say how happy he... (74 words)

I don't know whether to just be happy with the close friendship we have at the moment, or risk taking it further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with my best friend for three years. Me and him get on so well, have so much in common and we are really close. We are also close physically. I don't mean that we've had sex or anything but we're always together and holding hands and hugging and ... (174 words)

Should I accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi this is the first time i am writing here. Well, i am in relationship many years. It seems serious. We had said, when i finish my studies to get engaged. But after the years i rethink again and again if this man is my best choice. A)He is from a different background and alth... (599 words)

I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure.... (47 words)

Should I ask my boss again for this pay rise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A few weeks ago I asked not my line manager but my head of department for a pay rise, he said that it would be based on my appraisal, and job evaluation. He is due to leave at the end of this week and nothing's been mentioned about it. Should I ask him? What should I do? ... (58 words)

I caught my friend and my boyfriend making out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, me, my friend, and my boyfriend (or ex i should say) were watching movies at my brothers house(he was gone for the night) . Before they came over, me and my boyfriend had gotten into a fight and i told him things were going on in my life, and that i just need... (390 words)

How can I help him with this depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi im 18 and I need some advice as to how i can help my boyfriend. For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has changed. i think he is experiencing depression - i come to this conclusion as i have depression myself and i have been learning about it in my psychology A Level. these ... (374 words)

My boyfriend is neglecting me and I don't kow what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now but the problem is im not happy. he never has time to spend with me because he always has other things to do like going to play football with his friends, studying or working. i dont want to sound needy but i need atten... (310 words)

New to dating again and need some perspective

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age - I've been on my own for about 18 months now. After encouragement from friends I joined a dating site. It has been a lovely experience. So many men have contacted me that it has made me feel much more confident. I have been on a couple of 'first dates' and with one guy ... (304 words)

I need help to stop masturbating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or reading porn. please help me... (58 words)

Should I tell my ex that I'm pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just yesterday, I found out I was pregnant and it was confirmed by a doctor. My boyfriend and I recently split and he refused to give me a reason. Then only thing he told me was that he loved me but couldnt be with me anymore. But the night before, he was having dinner with my ... (167 words)

Should I just show up at his house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i really want 2 go round this guys house, hes stopped talking 2 me for no reason, ive texted him and wont answer my texts, and i dont know what ive done, ive spoken 2 my guy mates and they say i should go round and just knock on the door, but im scared he will close the door ... (80 words)

How can I get rid of this stutter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Oh boy. I can't share this with anyone other than my therapist. I am currently a very bad stutterer, been stuttering since I was age 6, don't recall it EVER being as bad as it is now, can barely talk at all, to anyone. I regret that I let this hold me back with women, as I ... (155 words)

Are we ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do... (46 words)

What should I do about me and my friend falling out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i really like my best friend but he is really confusing me at first i think he hates me cos he isnt talking to me an then i think he likes me becos hes sitting with me in class an then i think hes fallen out with me cos he stopped talking to me an now hes my friend ... (88 words)

I want my wife to use a strap on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age - I am a married man who loves to bend over. I am not attracted to men at all. Should I ask the wife to use a strap-on?... (28 words)

Could my symptoms be a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last week, things got a bit heated between me and my boyfriend. We didn't have sex, but he had touched himself briefly before fingering me. I didn't notice any pre-ejaculate on him, so I didn't think anything of it. Later on I spoke to him about my concerns, and he assured me ... (293 words)

How can I discourage her? Should I even contemplating sleeping with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age - I'm 48 and have a girl i have known for a few years hanging around me. It didn't worry me at first when she was 12 but now she is 14 and making sexual suggestions I am a bit concerned. A couple of times she has exposed her breasts to me when we are alone and bent over in front... (88 words)

Should I have sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) age 26-29 - i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?... (30 words)

Should I smoke pot before sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?... (13 words)

Am I a normal 17 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17... (40 words)

He keeps hurting my feelings

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. At close to the beginning of this relationship, I set some boundaries with this guy, and one of them was not to call me or even joke about me being a bitch, because I'm not. This guy was my first. We got married and he still keeps joking on me/implying that I'm a bitch an... (374 words)

He says he wants me, but then acts weird

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused. I am getting very mixed signals from someone I have known for a while but only a few weeks ago started sleeping with. It started with flirting, a kiss, a drive and then sex, more texting and ending up spending an amazing night in a hotel. Since then thi... (153 words)

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really want her back. We haven't ... (190 words)

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, I told him he was wrong. Twen... (799 words)

Help getting over my FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how can i get over my friends with benefits who moved away?! i dated this guy for 8 months and we had a very unique relationship. when he left he said i would hold a special place in his heart, and that if he was staying in my town, we would have had a real relationship. ... (155 words)

Some help writing a note to a boy I like, please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am toying with the idea of giving this guy a note the last time I see him. I plan on getting to know him a little before I actually give it to him. Anyhow, here is what Im going to write. Im not very good at gauging how people will respond to what I write and sometime... (296 words)

Boyfriend didn't let me masturbate him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend..were having oral sex..he wanted to cum..so i thought of helping him but i still lack the proper technique..so in front of me he used his own hands!i was really frustated..i mean he could hav given me a chance but he didn't..don't kno why he did like ... (78 words)

Am I expecting too much from my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i finally made it official with my best friend of two years. i really really care for him, he always makes me smile. he was a great friend, and i thought he would be an even better bf, but i guess as a bf, i have different expectations from him. i have only been serious with ... (215 words)

Need ideas for sexting with my FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm in a Friends with benefits relationship. I really like him, but that's all we'll be, which is fine. But we text all the time and we do sexting. But I can't think of anything to say to him when he wants me to start. Any ideas of what I can do? And I'm not a virgin, ... (62 words)

Her childish behaviour is making our new marriage difficult

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently got married (3 months ago) to a girl i was with for 2 years. She is 20 and I am 26. I understood before getting married that she is younger and I decided to go through with it and develope more patience to accommodate the situation. We constantly fight... (457 words)

Why has she changed her mind so suddenly???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have asked this question before but I need more input from you guys. I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been dating for 2 months yesterday. Weve done blowjobs, handjobs, fingering, and eating out. Anyway we almost had sex on our anniversary yesterday, but her dad came ... (105 words)

Why won't he answer me on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pretty sure this guy likes me, it seems like he's just waiting for me to make a move on him. But he doesn't reply to messages that I send to him on facebook? (well i just send him little messages saying hi) Why would a guy do that? Does he think its not a good idea to meet ... (106 words)

Once upon a time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age - i have been married for 26 years have 3 grown children. My husband has always been a little flirter I think everyone does a little. We don't do anything together and are not really getting along very well any more, never talk, all that stuff. I went thru my husband's wallet ... (168 words)

How do guys like a girl to behave???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know What guys like i mean i really dont get it, do boys like it when you're tough? Do they like it when we're girly or wot cos I've tried everything, it would really help if someone wrote back and told me what the best way to get boys to like me, please help x... (58 words)

Vaginal dryness is causing me problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am only 38 but I am going through menopause early. I am not going to have to take hormone replacements, because things seem to be going fairly well for me (meaning, my periods stopped about 2 years ago and I am otherwise healthy and fine. But the hot flashes started this ... (162 words)

We couldn't have "proper" sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend really love each other.. we have done oral sex.. but when we wanted to pass have intercourse it didn't go well because his penis didn't go inside my vagina! i mean only a bit and that was very painful.. though my hymen is already broken.. moreover when he ... (88 words)

I'm 28, he's 43. He wants to have kids now, I don't. Any ideas to work it out?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28, been married for 3 years, total of 5 years in this relationship. My partner is 43 and wants to start a family, have kids. I want to have kids with him, but I don’t feel ready to do it right now. I understand that cause of his age and all, but I'm just starting, getting ... (184 words)

I don't want people to think we're going out together when we're only friends.

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - one of my best friends hangs round with me most of the time and i think people might think we're going out, i didnt think this until the other day in assembly when this girl said to him your girlfriend is behind you... i dont really like him in that way but i think if people ... (90 words)

A serious mishap...

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15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend is really starting to detach herself from me and it is really starting to bother me. i was wondering, since weve been together for two months now, ive been realizing that she has almost broken up with me twice and i really love her ive had a really bad string of ... (184 words)

My girlfriend said no more sex...?

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15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets instead. Which is better than ... (99 words)

Why did he say I liked him? How did he know?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not to sure if this means anything or what but basically me and some of my mates thought this guy liked me cuz he used to stare at me loads, he seemed really weird aorund me as if he felt something and everyone said it was obvious he did. However he would never admit it. He ... (404 words)

My husband hates my cooking!!! Help!

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i need some idea or any advice. my husband is very difficult or complicated man most of the time in anything but specially with food. im his second wife. he was separated to his 1st wife of course i dont know the reason. but i do know his ex wife, she seems ok in my eyes. ... (299 words)

My fiancee is extremely needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, This is my first time using the site and I really need some relationship advice. My Fiancee, (I have known her for 6 years) and I have a problem The problem is, I'm a lot smarter than her. Normally, in the relationship this hasn't been a problem because we get a... (325 words)

Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?

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15 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying he's grounded for three weeks ... (631 words)

I'm not sure if I want to be single again...

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15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started University, and have been in (what i consider) a long term relationship (which is around 8 months, but i have known the girl for almost triple that) with the girl i have left back at home - The problem is, that as much as i love this girl, i feel a lot of ... (183 words)

Is it going to ruin our friendship?

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15 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I dont want to keep thinking this way! Is it going to ruin our friendship? So a couple of weeks ago I asked a guy if he would every want to be more than friends and he said 'I dont know' so we decided to stay friends. We are texting right now and I said 'sorry if I made things ... (202 words)

Should I believe him, knowing he likes to lie a lot?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need some advice on this, me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs and we always had trust issues, he lives with his mom and sister and his sister has a lot of female friends who go to the house, now she has a friend who she just met and the first time i met her she ... (248 words)

My boyfriend doesn't do anything for himself!

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, I am now 21. He doesn't do anything for himself or me. He had a crazy past, being homeless etc. What should I do? Should I stick by him or leave? I'm really confused. I haven't been with anyone else.... (55 words)

How to deal with a difficult acquaintance

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Being a fairly non-confrontational person, I would normally just be civil when I bump into this person (lets call him Jerkosaurus), but not go out of my way to talk to him when he has made it clear he do not like or respect me. However, he happens to be friends with a number of ... (530 words)

Should I give her time and accept her with open arms when she comes back, if she does?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my now ex loved each other a lot and all our friends and family said we were the perfect couple for each other. We both were talking about her moving here, us living together, her getting a job as a PD officer while I finish school. We wanted kids and she planned for ... (627 words)

My husband ignores me and another man wants me. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 2 years now, and have been with my husband for 4 years. My husband isnt around much because he in the military. I would love to have him home everyday but i know it's not possible. He has been a good husband but when he's here i still feel alone most of ... (399 words)

I'm so behind with my sexual knowledge I fear he'll think I'm weird! Help!

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginity with him, basically neither of us knew what we were doing, I felt uncomfortable and immediately told him to stop. However he didn't, he was 18 and I was essentially ... (195 words)

How do I overcome my sexual inexperience with men?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone this si the first time i've posted on here but have always had interesting reads from this site! Ok basically here goes. Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginity with him, basically neithe... (222 words)

How to I overcome panic attacks?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been dealing with anxiety for a while now. It's only a sometimes occurence though but when I have an anxiety attack it just takes over me and I can't do anything about it. IDK what to do it only happens sometimes but now Im always scared that Im gonna have another ... (91 words)

Should I have a child with a man 30 years my senior?

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15 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 10 years older than me.He has grand children. Should. I have a baby with him, or its too weird?... (32 words)

I fancy two boys. Whom do I choose?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i fancy my best friend but im in love with another boy that ive liked for about a year i dont know what do do cause i get really nervous around them both when i see them i was wondering what i should do should i wait for the guy i love or ask out my best friend x... (61 words)

Niece gave me BJ while sleeping

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15 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I went to visit my sister while i was driving thru calif. We had a BBQ and lots of drinks. Well around midnight i went to bed and passed out. About 3 am i was woken up to a really good blow job but the lights were off. I was thinking it was one of my sisters friend that i was ... (119 words)

How do I get my guy friends to stop seeing me as one of the guys?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. ok so heres my problem, i got lots of guy friends. i got more guy friends then girls. and well since i hang with mostly guys, my guy friends dont see me as someone there date. they treat me like one of the guys, and well now i dont really like that. i like one of my guy ... (131 words)

How do I make a good homemade sex toy?

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15 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i make a homemade sex toy that is good? ... (13 words)

Help! How can I get him to talk to me more?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I am going to sound like Im in middle school writing this, but Im at a loss of words. My social anxiety has never prevented me so. There is this guy in my art class. He is pretty shy as well, though he is very sure of himself when he talks. He's just introverted. ... (215 words)

Please help! Can you have sex while on your period?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you have sex while on your period?... (8 words)

Should I take things slowly?

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15 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for six months and he decided it was over because he said he was tried of the arguements. i called him to apologise but he gave me the cold shoulder and said we will never get back together. he left on monday and today saturday he came to get his ... (90 words)