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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I 'ramp up' the intensity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm dating a woman 10 years my junior who has a lot more experience than me. She has made it clear that she enjoys rougher sex (she revealed her safe word on our first date) but I don't really know where to start. My previous partners (and me, by extension) all preferred the ... (123 words)

I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our max has been once a week, but ... (197 words)

I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just like the idea of liking him if that ... (144 words)

I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. tips?... (52 words)

Know of a place to get a cute dress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this would be a huge help to me if i can get some answers. does anyone have any websites where i can find a cute strapless dress, above the knee in length. any color, that i can wear for my winter ball. thank you, just reply with any websites and comments. thanks again!... (54 words)

Am I scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a 42 year old woman and I am panicking because I think I might be a commitment phobe. Here's a little bit of background. Two years ago I came to London to enrol for a post graduate MA in art. I managed to get a place in a very good art college and I was able to fina... (501 words)

He doesn't trust me financially and wants a divorce..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 12 years recently told me he wants a divorce. After arguing and fighting about this we said we would go to counseling. Only through the 3 meeting did I find out that he doesn't trust me anymore and is not in love with me because he said of the 2 things I did to ... (334 words)

He's moving away for school, can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends have, and we always talk thi... (159 words)

This boy teases me, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, there is this boy in my class who teases me and picks on me... I dont know if he likes me or not... im shy and dont want to ask him out or tell him that I like him... what do I do???... (45 words)

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot sex with this guy. I am pretty... (216 words)

My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do please help me... x... (53 words)

I gave him my number, but lost it.. followed me to get it again..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy when i went out. we got talking he seemed really nice, good looking, hes at uni.. we got talking he seemed friendly and has good sense of humour. we were waiting for my bus, then when the bus was coming he asked for my number.. i gave it but as he was saving it... (203 words)

My friend has an old friend she likes...she doesn't want to ruin the relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I got this female friend, in her mid 20s. She and this guy are old friends and now she likes him, except she doesn't know how to start a relationship without risking their friendship. She always said she wanted a guy to be stronger/more dominant than her (psychologically... (98 words)

At 24 am I too old to be happy again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no one will ever want to be with me ... (282 words)

Is 3 weeks too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid me and my boyfried have been going out for 3 weeks im really sure i love him and he tells me he loves me too, does it sound to fast to be in love?... (36 words)

Can we have an active sex life is he is 64 and I am 29?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here it goes. I am a 29 year old woman and I am in love with a man 34 years my senior. I have known him for 15 years and throughout our entire friendship I have gone through a few different relationships and was even married for a short time. Here is my question... (242 words)

Does my best friend fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, basically, theres this lad in my class who me (and like 50 million other girls) fancy. I don't know whether to ask him out or not though! I'm not the type of person AT ALL to just go out with like anyone, and neither is he, in fact ive never been out with anyone before i... (241 words)

Is my ex friend annoying me to get my attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bff haven't been friends for 6 months. We don't talk or anything. I don't acknowledge her in any way. But, lately she has been doing stuff to piss me off or hurt me. She stares at me, walks past me or through my class on purpose, she is friends with someone ... (146 words)

14 and falling for my teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care. I have liked teachers befo... (205 words)

I think I'm falling for my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, here's the situation. I have been dating my current bf for a year and a half. He's such a great boyfriend and he treats me really well and I do love him. But, me and this guy, who I've known for about a year started getting close about 2 months ago because we were in a... (327 words)

I can't ask him directly, so how do I know If he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a guy friend who i have been friends with for a year now, we have fun together and he makes me laugh, i used to think he liked me but i am not sure, i really like him now and i just want to know how i can hint to him i like him but i wnat to do it subtly or if there is ... (80 words)

What if I kiss someone for the first time and they say I'm terrible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok ive just turned 14 but ive never kissed a boy i guess ive always been waiting for a nice boy but now i just feel really embarassed because all! of my friends have been going on about how there boy friends are really good kissers and i really want that but im dead worried ... (94 words)

What should I do to keep things going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with a boy for 3 weeks now but sometimes we run out of things to talk about. what should i do to keep things going?... (29 words)

I want to ask this guy out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to ask this boy out that goes my skool, i barely know him but i do know i love im i see him and i loose the ability to speak or move i really wanna go out with him, i need something i can use to connect with him all i know is he is really smart an good at sports but im ... (78 words)

I'll get straight to the point, why don't guys want to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there - I'll get straight to the point... why don't guys want to date me? Where do I go wrong? I have been rejected by the last 4 guys I have liked and have never had a serious relationship. i wouldn't say i'm shy but i'm not the most outgoing gal at a party. My problem ... (124 words)

Me and my best friend...I just wanna know why...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my best friend and I haven’t been friends for about 6 months because I was a bad friend and she chose her boyfriend over me and everyone else. He told her not to be friends with me anymore and she listened to him. She would have never ever done that before, she has ... (488 words)

What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)... (52 words)

He said he would call after ons, but he didn't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not normally into ons, but I was upset that night, so I was actually looking for someone for a cuddle and kiss, but I ended up at his somehow. We didn't even ask each other's name on the night, it seems like we both were clear it would be just one night...but we g... (256 words)

How to make this situation better, how to explain where he understands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an ongoing problem and I can't deal with it at all! I was going out with a guy for a year: and he was great and I was happy with him. One weekend things took a different turn - all of a sudden I started feeling bad about him. Loss of attraction, everything he did anno... (218 words)

Why is my friend avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - last week me and my friend of 2 years got closer. as we were about to have sex he stopped saying that something didn't feel right. he also said he's still thinking of his ex (whom he was in a relationship with for a couple of weeks some months ago) When we first met 2 yrs ... (195 words)

I told her how I feel and she pushed me away. Now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I love her so much but we're just friends. Now that I've told her how i feel she has pushed away what do I do? ... (25 words)

My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age - Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, but has never hit me ... (62 words)

What can I do to impress him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started uni, and really like a lad, who I haven't even spoken to yet. I've just heard him speak in the class etc, and he is really gorgeous. I know that he may not be what he seems because I've not even spoken to him yet, and I'm wiling to accept that, but I wanna get ... (101 words)

How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is rather a mood killer. How can I ... (130 words)

He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why does he still have it?... (60 words)

Anger issues with my LDR

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi im 18 and i have been in a 2 month long distance relationship with a man from argentina who is 27. we met on the internet so we havent met in person yet. however we connect very well. im in love with him and he says he loves me to. but a couple days ago he has been getting... (536 words)

Biological clock in overdrive - please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed 3 year relationship. I have lived with my partner for over 2 years now, and moved abroad to live with him. For the past year I have been struggling with increasing desire to have a child. Please understand that this is not the 'I want a ... (435 words)

Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on refraining from alcohol use. ... (132 words)

He says he still loves me. Is it possible he might come back to me someday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for about 9 months. You could call our relationship unoffically exclusive because, even though he loved me and wanted to be with me, I wasn't ready for the commitment (for various reasons which I've worked through). He ended things with me a few months ... (182 words)

I broke up with him and now I realize how much I loved him and want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was absolutely great in the beginning. ... (394 words)

Help I don't understand why girls do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not... (31 words)

The worst thing that can happen is rejection but I've already had that, What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, This is a bit awkward for me so bear with me. I am a sophomore in college. My 2nd semester of freshman year I was in a class and I noticed an individual who caught my interest. It had been about a year and a half since I had been in a relationship and I was n... (656 words)

Help me from the torture of my Psycho ex...Is there a womens organization or something that can help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i am 26yrs old female From INDIA, Andhra pradesh. i have this serious problem with my X-boyfrnd we broke up 5yrs ago but he just dosent seem to accpt it and keeps interfiering in my personal life, keeps threathning me to killing me.he tortures me mentally, keeps ... (243 words)

Theres a possibility of getting back together this weekend but I'm scared. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

- Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago and my feelings for him never ended and I thought he just had no feelings for me at all! You see the reason why he ended it is because we didn't see each other much and so in those 5 months of us being apart we would still see each other ... (234 words)

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex abt ten times. she is the only ... (122 words)

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I thought I would fall madly in love ... (197 words)

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing about other women. In past rela... (307 words)

Can I ever trust my cheating husband again or should I leave now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age - My husband was spending to much time with an old friends of ours who had split from her husband. they ending up falling in love and in bed together. He is still with me and says he loves me but loves her more and wants her in his life at some degree even just as friends. How ... (114 words)

My girlfriend refuses to kiss me...and I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid me and my girlfriend have been dating she refuses to kiss me i don't know why and she hangs around too many guys what should i do and she always puts upa fight about my ex-girlfriend ps reply zuko ... (45 words)

Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is prostitution?)when he goes awa... (129 words)

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem distracted dont you enjoy it?" ... (278 words)

Why does my ex want to be close to my new good friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I went out with a girl for a long time at work and I thought it was special to me,we are both adults. Anyway by chance I found out she was seeing someone else at work. I was devastated. I walked away saying listen I respect you so I respect your choices, you deserve love from ... (575 words)

Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty sure there are mutual feeling... (506 words)

Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the person don't have sex or ... (75 words)

How do I talk to my sister about her taking my DVD and deteriorating it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just discovered that my sister borrowed my favourite DVD without my permission. Not only this; she also had the audacity to leave it on a rough surface, causing it to become very scratched. When I told my mum about this, she confessed that she'd seen her using my DVD ... (130 words)

How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" is what he says. Firstly, ... (97 words)

If I tell him the engagement is off surely it will break up our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and engaged. my friends think i'm insane but i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. it is only a ring and we have agreed not to get married until i have finished university. what is the big deal? maybe it is too soon to settle down and to be able to ... (86 words)

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked each other sexually. We only ... (198 words)

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I started watching my brother's ... (253 words)

Does this guy like me or am I over thinking this? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel this guy likes me, and I am scared to go talk to him again. He stares at me a lot and tries to have eye contact. He'll go out of his way to walk by me or tries to get my attention when I don't see him. I'm not sure if i'm reading the wrong signs, but I do feel something ... (267 words)

I have no friends!

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30 year old girl, married for one year now. I have a strange problem of not having any good friends. When I was in school I used to have few very good friends with whom I used to hang out often. Later in Uni I never had any close friends whom I was completely close to, ... (214 words)

We both have commitment issues, but is it still worth the risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I started fooling with this boy and things got serious. I've always had commitment issues. So has he. His stems from cheating and mine from a fear of intimacy in any form. Even though feelings developed on my part; it was never mentioned and I pretended to be interested ... (191 words)

I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we got a bit carried away.:( ... (56 words)

I'm in love or infactuated with my female gym teacher, what do I do to get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im fifteen years old im a lesbian and is greatly attracted to my ex gym teacher,i had her in 2008-2009 and whenthe school year was over i worked in the school. during my work hours i desided to tell her how i felt she told me that she was a perfessional and that it was ... (112 words)

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about once a week, and thats at my su... (194 words)

I've cheated on my fiancee and I'm seeing him this weekend... Do I tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got myself into such a mess. I'm engaged to the most amazing guy in the world, he means everything to me. We currently only see eachother at weekends as I'm at university now, and may way of coping with him not being here is to sort of push him out of my mind. I have re... (431 words)

My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're really nice" or "now those ... (669 words)

Why can't she see that her actions and lack of consideration are a huge cause of our problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age - My gf did not come home last night. We live together. I called and left a message when I arrived home form work and then I waited until 10pm before trying to call her again. She would not answer my calls or return my texts. I texted her to ask her to let me know she was ok ... (429 words)

She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

6 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex with this guy. she had no ... (356 words)

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and we used to have a lot of fun ... (193 words)

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared of loosing him as we are far ... (104 words)

Do you think our relationship will be a short or long one?

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6 November 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I am dating a 26 year old, and i am 40 year old woman. We met 2 years ago when he turned 24. We are basically attracted to each other, love at first sight i may say, and really are like soulmate. During our 2 years life had been very rough. We were seperate for 1/2 year due... (128 words)

In a few more years do you think he would want a younger woman?

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6 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I am 29 and my boyfriend is 19. He has been persuing the relationship with me for months, and its only been weeks since I have given in and allowed myself to fall in love with him. I do love him, and find this relationship to be by far the most fulfilling relationship that I ... (153 words)

Do you think we should continue this LDR? How to make it work?

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6 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - i am involved with a wonderful guy who is 21.I am 33 and the age gap doesnt seem to be a problem at all but the distance does i'm from england and he is in california i just wait for the time when we can be together for always. Do you think we should continue with this rel... (68 words)

I want to have sex on the prom night, what do you think?

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6 November 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I want to have sex on prom night. And just b/c i'ts prom night. I can and i probably will. My b/f is sweet and hot and prom is the perfect time to do it. What do you think? He's coming from out of town and i wanna make it special. any tips to make it special? He has said ... (86 words)

Should I patch up the relatonship with my girlfriend or take a chance with the new woman I have met?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ve been in a long distance relationship with “A” 3.5 years now. We see each other almost every weekend. Lately we’ve grown almost apart. We don’t call, no texts, nothing. We share friends and family together and I’m afraid if we split I will lose that family and friends. ... (207 words)

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd been good friends beforeha... (264 words)

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the same. During those f... (786 words)

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of communication with the "other" guy. She ... (103 words)

Is this older man playing me?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I believed him but now I a... (94 words)

Will I always be alone?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm beginning to get quite down on myself. It's been a long time since I've had a relationship. I'm not giving up hope on finding that someone, it's just the advice I keep getting from friends seems so contradictory. For instance, everyone keeps telling me that that spe... (125 words)

Why do bad things happen to good people?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a awkward place in my life, I feel like I have no direction nor anything to look forward to. I've been questioning a lot about life. I consider myself to be a good person and my attitude towards life is treat others as you want to be treated. So why do people w... (214 words)

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A and desperately tried getting... (355 words)

Why is my ex playing games with me?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my ex and I broke up in dec. 2007. We talked on and off from that point until the end of feb. hooking up once. I had a lot of issues going on then and I went away for a year to sort through them. During that time we had no contact but through my sister, I found ou... (513 words)

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out to get i'm just wonderin... (79 words)

My past tells me to be cautious

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted previously about this attached guy who is flirting with me. So a little update, he isn't with this girl, they are actually separated at the time. So, heres my problem. I really like this guy. We talk everyday, all day. I'm getting really close to this guy. This pas... (301 words)

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next to me still. I haven't... (290 words)

I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!

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6 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as those models. I feel really bad, ... (162 words)

How do I stop putting people on pedestals and have more realistic expectations?

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6 November 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I often put people up on pedestals and have expectations about how they should behave. Then when they don't live up to my expectations, I'm disappointed. I know it's their life and we're all human, make mistakes, etc. But how can I stop doing this? I've been disappointed in ... (172 words)

Have I got a problem?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever i masturbate i use three fingers, is that a problem? and also i come in like 25 seconds i'm quite worried and i really would like some help.... (29 words)

Could he like me back?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 years old and there is this guy i really like i think its possible he likes me but i am way to scared to ask him he is 14... (32 words)

I was inappropriately intimate with someone. What now?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do. I was inappropriately intimate with someone who has a girlfriend and the girlfriend works for me. I never meant for this to happen and still can't believe it. I'm not sure if she knows, but she hasn't returned my messages about work. What can I do? I ... (127 words)

Are they setting me up for something?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was hard for me leaving all my friends a... (746 words)

How do I make him understand it's over?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been "talking" to this guy for a little over a year. i know want to break it off. i told him what broung me to thim decision and he does not want to except that. how do i make him understand it's over? help me please!!... (48 words)

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 months now, i know just how mu... (222 words)

She stood me up. Does this mean she's not that into me?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There was this girl who i worked with for a few months, she had a boyfriend at the time but we had a good friendship always having fun working with each other, she quit a few months later and she stopped talking/txting me for a while, but she came into where i worked and we ... (209 words)

What can I do to help her get over this?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an intimate relationship. I am ... (120 words)

Shaving rash - how do I prevent it and is it a turn off?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a question for the ladies.. its a simple, common thing but its really annoying! SHAVING RASH. how do i get it smoother down there without the rash? thanks girls :) and guys.. do you care about when hair grows back a bit? i mean its hard to keep it completely smoot... (63 words)

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always been that guy that had the walls ... (502 words)

Do I have a chance with my sister in law?

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6 November 2009 (M)

Has my bi-polar boyfriend left me for good?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it worth waiting for for is it over? my bf of 2 years has broken up with me. i love him to bits and i KNOW that he loves me more than anything too but he says he needs a break and thinks it's for the best. he's been under alot of stress; family ill, new job, and losing ... (245 words)

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person and was always willing to ... (153 words)

My ex confessed he still loves me...but he has a girlfriend!

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6 November 2009 (F)

She's going to live our dream with someone else

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 5 yrs has recently left me and i am finding it very difficult to move on. She says she loves me, but she's not IN love with me anymore. We have been through alot in our relationship, 4 miscarriages but it made us stronger. She says she couldnt wish for a be... (150 words)

Will she stop talking to me if I tell her how I feel?

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6 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have feeling for my cousin but never told her. and I want to tell her but am to scard to. Im not shour that she will stop talking to me or not? Will she say that she feels the same or not? I love her and she loves me to but im not shour that she has the same feeling about me ... (103 words)

Violent ex tricked me. Will this hurt me in court?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex was arrested the following night of him attacking me. It was my friend who rang the police luckily she was there when he got in my flat, and pulled a knife on me. He wrecked my flat too, his bail conditions meant that he wasnt to come near me or my flat. He turned up ... (218 words)

Can two introverts date and have a successful relationship?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question for anybody that would like to add their opinion.Can two introverts date and have a succesful relationship? I ask because I know that I,for the most part,have an introverted personality.Im usually lost in my own thoughts,or observing things.I can hold a ... (192 words)