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male
age
41-50,
*olarkite
writes:i am having girl problems. i think i have a problem, i asked two different girls for their phone numbers last week and one was a flake and the other did not respond to my text. i don't understand because i could tell both really like me and even get a little nervous around me. but when i asked for number both had the same reaction, they got annoyed and acted weird. i think the lesson here is not to ask a girl for her number and instead to just say something interesting that she will want to do, and if she shows interest just invite her to do something, then she'll naturally give her number. if a girl gets nervous around you what should you do? clearly asking for a number is the wrong thing.any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): I once gave my number to a guy I didn't like at all. I have no idea why I did it, I guess I didn't wanna disappoint him. I responded to his text, and apologized for not being able to meet him, but I felt so bad about it. I agree with the previous answer, maybe you should arrange a meeting with a girl first, and then ask for her number. That way she knows you are serious and really interested in getting to know her better.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 November 2009):
Well you know the answer already.
Ask her if she wants to meet up for a coffee / see that film / fly a kite / go to the zoo / what ever.
Arrange a day that's good and then SWAP numbers.
I'm very careful about who I give my number out to, as you'll never know what will be done with it. Give her YOUR number when you ask for hers and then say you'll be in touch to confirm plans already made.
Good Luck!! xx
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