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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and was hoping you could help me out.He’s good friends with my best friend. I met him about a year ago and he added me on msn. Since then I’ve been talking to him a lot online. By now we talk at least once a day, he always starts the conversation and will talk about anything. I’d consider him to be a good friend on msn but for weeks he’s been ignoring me in person. He’d speak to almost anyone else but every time I’d see him it was as if I wasn’t there though he hinted online for me to speak to him. He finally approached me at a party. I was with my best friend at the time and he tried to make me laugh and be friendly with me. Since then at school he’s come to sit with me and my best friend a few times, doing little things like helping me and trying to make me laugh. Then recently it was just me and him in class together. He went back to ignoring me and acting as if I wasn’t there so I tried to talk to him. He didn’t really seem bothered but then as soon as I was home he was talking to me on msn. I really don’t understand him. I don’t know if he fancies my best friend, although she’s completely loved up with someone else. Or I don’t know whether he only talks to me online because he’s bored or something.Please help. I want to know what he’s up to.Thank you
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reader, Frenzotic +, writes (23 November 2009):
 hey!
From the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like he fancies your best friend.
You say that when he's online, he'll always start the conversation with you, everyday. A bored person doesn't do that.
Maybe by spending so much time online it's becoming too comfortable.
Try not being online for a while and see what happens after a while during the day...see if he strikes a conversation outside of being online.
He may be into you...he may find it difficult to talk to you face to face so talks online instead, you should keep continuing to talk to him during the day and keep your online talk to a minimal...see if he makes more of an effort to talk to you then.
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