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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having intercourse. i consider myself ... (77 words)

When is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to every event I have going on (I ... (229 words)

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just wondering because I don't ... (72 words)

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing oral or anything) I cannot ... (116 words)

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard... (44 words)

Is there a chance that good friends can become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been really good friends with a girl for about 6 months now but i've always had a little more for her that she doesn't know about, she's just broken up from a long term relationship and i've seen her alot more but i'm afraid we're too good friends to become more than that ... (70 words)

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i have lost weight because my ... (109 words)

Does it mean he does fancy me or doesnt...........?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age - i was chatting with this guy i really like. we are good friends. he sort of appears outgoing but is actually quite shy especially with women. i,ve known him ages and he has never had a girlfriend. (he's not gay) we were recently joking about what is 'man talk' and he laughed ... (165 words)

I'm very worried that I can't tell if I like girls or guys, or both

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: You are not bothering us with 'stupid teen' questions. We're here to help as much as we can.] hi i have a big problem and i need help figuring this out in my life. im only 17 but i am having trubble telling if i like girls or guys or both. i thought it would... (148 words)

My boyfriend is depressed and I'm afraid he'll dump me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he broke up with me for about a month, 6 months ago, claiming he didn't love me any more. He then wanted me back, claiming he's severely depressed, which I've seen evidence of, and which he's seeking counselling for. (I'm ... (423 words)

My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife couldnt handle the 3 to 7 tim... (123 words)

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age - have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?... (24 words)

I don't think he treats me well. Are we doomed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really stuck in this relationship i'm in. I have such an intense attraction to my boyfriend and i love him to pieces, but i don't think he is treating me right. I broke up with my Ex who loved me to pieces and treated me like i was a goddess, but i had fallen out of lo... (482 words)

We're trying to have a baby. How reliable are home tests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i need some advice. My boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. We had unproctected sex on the 7th 8th and 9th of november. My period was due ab 5 days ago. I have taken a test today and it was negative, however i was wondering is there still a chance i could be pregnant... (125 words)

How can I be more interesting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social situations. I just need ideas on how to ... (70 words)

He flirts with me, but doesn't want to date me because I'm his friend's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

- okay so im having a bit of a problem. about 3 years ago i met my ex and we were together for a year and a half he was my first love. he introduced me to his best friend straight away and i thought he was lovely. about a year into the relationship we had a party at our ho... (532 words)

10 months and I still can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i went out with my ex for nearly seven years i loved him very much and really wnated to set up our lives together so we had a future, but he didnt want to move in or get engaged. i was heartbroken so we split. its been ten months and i cant get him out of my head. everythi... (131 words)

Is it unhealthy to love someone this much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend we have been together almost two years now. I am still very attracted to him, we have great sex and I can tell him everything. We have this relationship where we can tell each other how we really feel. We have know each o... (324 words)

It's been a year. How do I get him out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I spent an amazing day with a guy that I really liked. He now has a different girlfriend (not me). I went and saw a movie with him a on 11/22/08 a year ago from today. I can't stop thinking of him. He's always on my mind. I've tried moving on but he always comes back into my ... (85 words)

Where can I get a sex toy without my parents' knowledge?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?... (48 words)

What can I get my Navy man for xmas...having a hard time thinking of something! Help!

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all i apologise that this is totally the wrong site for this i just need a lil help if you dont mind please :) as you all no, its comng up to christmas, im finding it hard to think of soething i could get my boyfriend for christmas.. we have been together 2 years...the t... (172 words)

I don't like or respect my mother. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - OK I'll get straight to the point. For some reason i don't like or respect my mother. She never seems to stick up for herself and i hate the way she does things. Our home is full of junk that has come from her sister (my auntie) and she just does whatever she's told. Whenever... (215 words)

Is this my period or implantation bleeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would put it the right way I ... (145 words)

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it and asked what was wrong. I ... (1005 words)

Can anyone shed some light on this? I don't understand why he DOESN'T want to break up...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, my boyfriend of 6 months recently told me he needed space because he said our relationship was moving too fast which was his fault. However he cheated on me with my best freind and another girl which before he was trying to hide he was talking to her but not anymore (like ... (148 words)

How can I have better luck with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Something which has been troubling me lately: I've been going to a few parties, raves, social gatherings, etc recently, and usually i'll get a bit wasted and just have a good time, chill with friends, rave a bit, etc. The thing is, in the last few times i've been, i'll c... (658 words)

Sex with my girlfriend really bothers her as she says it's wrong. How can I change her attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about 3 months now, she says it really bothers her to have sex with me because she knows it is wrong and this is the only reason why she says... I really do love her but this is now going to seeam to me like this relationship isnt ... (100 words)

How to reach a happy medium between him and my mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am friends with a guy whom my parents dislike due to his previous history of illnesses and the shy/rude way he came across when they all first met. Me and him get on fairly well, and he is very chirpy and fun around me. We used to hang out in town on our first few meetings ... (164 words)

He doesn't want me to masturbate when he's not in the mood for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I am having a problem. I am 42 years old and since I can remember I loved making love especially oral sex at least once a day. As a result of having a high sex drive I have loss a lot of sleep and have had numerous arguments with my partner. He just isn't into havin... (170 words)

I told him I liked him and he's still acting "normall" towards me. What next???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I told him that I like him and he has been acting normally, is that a good thing? How would I tell if he feels the same or if I should move on?... (33 words)

I can't stop having sexual dreams about him help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop having sexual dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite childish i no that's silly. Me and ... (127 words)

I want my boyfriend AND my friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. its wired because i still have ... (94 words)

I'm ruining my social life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

- For a while now I have become really withdrawn in myself and keep thinking of excuses not to go to social gatherings or meet friends. I cant even answer the phone to my friends anymore cos Im nervous about talking to them and I dont know why. Im scared to take the intitiative ... (83 words)

Men-Do I have to leave it to him to contact me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has broken up with me for the time being. He says he needs us to just be friends for a while, focus on the friendship and then reassess whether we still would like to be together in a couple of months (he is going away for a month and a half). I am gutted but as I ... (246 words)

Courtney? Or Emma?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Alright, so here's the dealio: I've got two options. I've got the girl I'm dating now, "Courtney". Now it's all find and dandy and we've almost been dating 3 monthes. Also I took her v-card, and we used the "L" word. But it's just recently come to me that another girl likes ... (223 words)

Should I call her or not? I don't know what to do! Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl 1 and a half years ago...she was going out with some one else but i developed feelings for her...we both became very good friends and she knew that i had feelings for her..she was having a lot of problems with her boyfriend because he was supposedly cheating on ... (284 words)

I love him, but I find him ugly at the same time. What is wrong with me? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a history with this guy and I've never stop loving him. Its been approximate 2 years that I've loved him none stop even though there's been parts where I've hated him. I went through a period where I couldn't stand him but whatever the matter he was alway... (234 words)

Irregular periods, please help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then laying out on the floor. please he... (68 words)

How do I attract me in my forties!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age - Hello, I have asked for a lot of help over the last few months. I was the one who dated a man, who was very obese, and broke up because of is ED problem. We got along well during our dating except for that. He didn't mention love, but told me that I meant the world to... (552 words)

Will I ever date again, even though I'm virtually bankrupt?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm wondering will i ever be with anyone ever again why ? well I've recently broken up with my ex and for the last 6 years hes got me into so much debt I've had to virtually go bankrupt. I'm very scared because although being with someone isn't all about money-something ... (120 words)

I cant stop having sex dreams about my ex, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stop having sex dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite childish i no that's silly. Me and my ex ... (127 words)

I can't get over our breakup, I don't know what to do. Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Dear aunts, I'm 16 and my now ex bf was 18 (just to put it out there) we broke up about a month ago now... even tho it feels like it was yesterday. im so depressed. i keep putting on a fake smile, trying to act like im fine without him, but im not. its horrible. there are other ... (319 words)

We go to tea, but i'd like it to be more. How do I tell him? Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age - I am interested in a co worker very much but not sure if he is just being nice to me? We have gone to lunch a few times casually its just lunch and tea---- but he DOES go with me when I invite him. However its always my initiative.......I'm not sure if he's just being nice in ... (177 words)

I'm falling for a senior... but he has a girlfriend albeit they're going through a rough patch...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. I am a freshman in high school and there is this senior that i'm falling for. we are both involved in theatre, and whenever im around him, he will hug me and touch me and just be around me. He is such a sweetheart, and i love being around him, but he has a ... (74 words)

Why is my ex boyfriend's mate being wierd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I went for a night out with my mate liam. When we were standing outside of the nightclub one of liams matescalled mark who I never met before came over and started to talk to liam.When we walked in to the nightclub I went to sit down and liam went to the bar.... (509 words)

She doesn't seem to want me as much now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a new relationship (my first proper one). Im 22 and lost my virginity to her, every thing seems good but when we go to bed shes always tierd and i have a very high sex drive. We were having sex most weekends when we were together but now we havnt had sex for 2 weeks. It ... (217 words)

I had a one night stand with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the begginning of the year after being... (548 words)

What to do now he knows?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day I texted my crush/ friend that I had a little crush on him. After that he wasn’t much different acting that I noticed and there was one point last week that I thought he told people but he didn’t tell anyone. I don’t know why he would tell anyone but oh well I was ... (219 words)

I need sex advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am 20 years of age i want to know wat can i do to make him nut more than once and moan as muvh as i do i also dont know how to ride or give oral sex please help me... (43 words)

Happend so quick, it's hard to comprehend! . . . Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. Ok so i need some guy advice people!! I started being friends with a guy a year ago... We tried going on dated for a few months and flirted... And you know those looong profound conversations on the phone. Yep, We had those. And we always had a thing for eachother, b... (430 words)

My fiancee is not pulling his share of the load!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner is not supporting me, not easy to talk to about domestic issues and is not pulling his weight, how should i approach him about this? Me and my fiance have been together for almost 4 years and have a sixth month baby. We rent a house and were suppose to be ge... (290 words)

Stuck in the middle between mum and my fiance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance and i have been together just over 1 year. we bought a house after 7mths together, got engaged about 3mths after that, and we wanna get married next june. He's 43 in december and i am 27. We love each other very much and are soulmates. Everything is perfect expect ... (273 words)

Did I put my foot in by telling him I liked him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day I text my crush/friend that I had a little crush on him. When I text him he actually answered one of my questions for once but after that he didn’t text back. I went to the movies with my friends and his brother and all throughout that time his brother was staring ... (164 words)

We're talking together after a year and are closer than ever... Is it possible we can get back together if we take things slowly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I can't be friends with this ex because it would be too hard. I went through a break up and after a year of no contact I still had feelings for him and contacted him and he said he can't jump back into this and it would be like starting over and he doesn't want something ... (516 words)

I asked him to move in with me to save money but the conversation went nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 months has stayed a my house every night now for the last 2 months. At the moment he rents a room in a shared house although he only gets a shower there then he's straight over to mine. As neither of us have much spare cash, I suggested that he moves to mine ... (125 words)

Was my ex just using me for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) age 41-50 - im so hurt about this i really need your wonderful advice please i split with my ex this year after 6 years-during this time i have helped him out majorly financially it got to the stage where i felt this was all he was with me for as he never showed much love or affectio... (181 words)

I want to call her but she has a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I went to a party the other weekend and met this girl. Her and her boyfriend were fighting and she asked me if I would drive her home and I ended up sleeping with her and we talked for a while and I felt a connection with her. We both said that we would like to get to ... (115 words)

I masturbate to naked photos of father

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my dad has an affair and i have seen him sharing his naked pics with an other lady and i masturbate after seeing this of my dad i dont masturbate but i find myself very hard to control it ........... please counsel me .... ... (44 words)

I think she's losing interest and just used me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my girlfriend is losing interest in me. We've been together for 7 months, at first we were really close. She knows everything about me, she used to send me sweet texts before I went to sleep every night. She's amazing, I love her more than anything. However just lately ... (90 words)

I can't have sex because condoms turn me off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I Can't Have Sex Because Condoms Immediately Turn Me Off. What Do I Do? Cuz The Girl I Really Like Won't Go On The Pill. I've Tried To Have Sex But I Can't Because Of The Condom Issue So I'm A Virgin And I Just Want To Get It Over With. What Do I Do?... (55 words)

Have a b/f but thinking of another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half and love him so much, but we do have our fair share of communication problems and recently he hasn't been spending much time with me. I've told him many times how I feel and he keeps saying he'll make more of an ... (157 words)

He blew me off and went back to his ex. Whats up with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age - I have been dating a man for one year who was in the process of a divorce which he filed. He was married at a young age and for thirty years,with two grown children and grandchildren. His wife would leave for months at a time and with other men. She left him a least four ... (451 words)

Stuck on her sexual past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 18 shes 17. Okay. So this may sound stupid to most of you. But hear me out. Me and my g/f has ben datin 4 almost 6 months now. She has 13 sexual partners she first claimed 4 were rape but has sense came clean to only one being rape. While i only have 2. Well theres mass ... (283 words)

Calming advice needed about pregnancy scare

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - help! i was stupid enough to have unprotected sex and im worried about my gf. it was our first time, and we mainly just tried getting in comfortably etc no full on fucking. hence i didnt come close to cumming, and i wasnt in her for more than 10 mins. due to the fact i prob... (126 words)

Texting another girl but says I'm just being jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - about a month ago i found online messages from my boyfriend to another girl who he goes to college with they were very flirty and suggestive if you know what i mean. We have been together over a year and a half and i love him so much. i spoke to him about the messages the night ... (162 words)

Changing wardrobe, acting different, is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii everyone Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3yrs (on and off). And I love him so much, but lately we've been having problems...well mostly its me with the problem bcuz he doesnt feel like hes doing ne thing. just like a couple weeks ago he was like the per... (599 words)

How to approach confessing my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 20 year old gay male, and I've got the issue with bringing up an attraction with a friend of mine. (He does not know I'm gay.) Basically, I developed feelings for him, and recognizing the situation attempted to get him to talk about his thoughts on homosexual... (1033 words)

What does this message mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - what is this suppose to mean: i have been dating a girl 25 who who had been through 2 successive bad relationships.my intentions were if i could understand what went wrong in the past, i could possibly win her love over.she sent me a mail the other day and it looks like th... (156 words)

I'd dump my boyfriend if another guy asked me out... so am I using him till then?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have this boyfriend and hes amazing. And i absolutely love him! But theres this guy who i go to school with (I dont go to the same school as my boyfriend)(we'll call the guy from school guy Number 2), and hes one of those guys who flirts with everyone, takes whatever g... (192 words)

We had great sex but she still doesn't want to be my g/f. I am so confused!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

22 November 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry if this is long. I've liked this particular girl for a long time, over a course of three years that I've been friends with her. When I first met her she was in a abusive relationship, then when they broke up I thought I would give her a while to compose before I made any ... (222 words)

Dating 2 married men, not sure what to do...

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22 November 2009 (F) age 51-59 - i need to make a decision i have been seeing this married man for bout 10 months, he did say he was having a hard time at home at the beginning it felt rite but during the relationship i started feeling guilty, and we kept ending it then been friends then we wud sleep together. ... (232 words)

Is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend, we are 19 this year?

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - may i ask is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend,we are 19 this year,i was just afraid that having sex before 20 will higher the chance to have vaginal cancer?is it true?... (34 words)

Any advice to study and memorise fast?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am only left with 2 days to my paper. It is a history paper and I am suppose to memorise the character's theory on translation. Any advice to study and memorise fast? Sorry am really desperate now!... (38 words)

Is it inappropiate for my b/f to brag on facebook about previous girls he's hooked up with?

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22 November 2009 (F)

- My bf and I broke up and he went on an overseas holiday with some of his friends. When he got back he told me he regretted the break up and realised what he wanted in life- me. He said he missed me so much and didnt want anyone else but me and bla bla...he said no one can repl... (294 words)

The woman he cheated on my with is now stalking him and he won't cut contact...

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I to am having a problem that is so very close to yours, I myself am having a problem getting over this. He cheated a year ago, lied to me about it more than once, then finally came clean when he thought he was gonna lose me. We are not married, but he has been talking about it ... (909 words)

I've been hunting for a boyfriend for years, why haven't I found one?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I always feel lonely perhaps it's because I've never had a boyfriend or even a date. I am too embarrassed to divulge this information to my friends but since we all met in college and are very close they've definitely noticed I've never been on one date nor had any significant ... (345 words)

Am I trying for something that is unachievable?

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I like. We have hung out a few times and it has been pretty great. The only thing is that we are pretty different. We are both in college and it just occurred to me that we are rather different. She takes liberal arts classes and plays soccer. Sh... (141 words)

I kissed two guys in one night. Does that ruin my chances with one of them?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy who's a few years older than me, and we hung out once and he seems pretty cool. we both went to the club with different people but we ended up talking that night and when we were dancing he kissed me. i kissed him back to a bit i think, but i was pretty drunk. t... (217 words)

What does 'I lust you' mean?

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what does it mean if someone says to you "i lust you" instead of "i love you"? my friend said this to me and i dont quite understand... (28 words)

Could this be incest? or our imagination?

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - >my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms bathroom for some or the other ... (126 words)

Should I tell her again that I'm crazy about her? She just wants to be friends.

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a sophomore in college, and I find myself in a bit of a bind. I have not been in a relationship in over three years now. While I normally would not complain about this, I have my eyes on a girl who graduated the same year as me from the same high school. We've kept in ... (221 words)

He loses his erection quickly now.

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys, Iam just curious. what makes guys hard their penis? and when their penis getting harder, does it mean that they take a pleasure? what is that mean supposed to be? I have a bf and untill last week when we kissed , his penis was always hard and want me to give him a... (88 words)

I fancy him and keep bumping into him. I don't want him to think I'm a stalker!

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I like this guy, and I see him everywhere (and I mean EVERYWHERE). He works at a resturaunt that I frequent (not for him, but the food). The good thing is that he always smiles, waves and makes sure to have a conversation with me, but I'm really afraid that he thinks I'm ... (142 words)

I ended the affair but how do I get over him?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was married for 15+ years. Events in my life occured and I had an affair. It went on for a year. He never promised me anything. I knew it had to end because it was tearing me up inside. It wasn't fair to my family but I fell in love with him. We could never be together... (141 words)

My boyfriend can't achieve orgasm through penetration

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - From the 1st time my partner met we hit it off and from the 1st time we had sex we just knew we were made for each other but the 1st few times I spotted that he can't come from penetration and I'd have to wank him off or give him a blow job for him to reach orgasem. A few wee... (176 words)

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been more snippy with me or likes ... (147 words)

Will he 'fit' when we have sex tomorrow?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help . I am 18 and i going to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 years tomorrow and i am worried that my vagina is to small for his penis.like stretching wise and i was wondering how can i make it fit if it doesnt? and some advice for tomorrow ... (57 words)

How do I gain more confidence with my boyfriend?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months and i have not got any confidence around him what so ever, I really want 2 make the effort. How could i turn him on so he want to come onto me? Also have you any ideas that will help gain my confidence? Please help me. X... (56 words)

How long can sperm be active outside of body? Can I get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside me?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my boyfriend have sex, and i was just wondering is it possible to get pregnant even if he doesnt cum directly inside of me? how long can sperm be active outside the body???? ... (41 words)

Bf has had a lot of girlfriends and one night stands... how do I get over his past... or should I not even get involved?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I need some advice. I just started seeing this guy, I mean, we've been on a few dates and seem to get along very well. However he's self confessed to having had a lot of girlfriends, and a lot of one night stands. He's 28. My question is this. If you choose to date ... (129 words)

How would you label someone who isn't attracted to either gender?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not attracted to either gender or interested in having sex. So what am I supposed to be classified as? Asexual, in my opinion, is mainly about sexual relationships. I don't find the human body of either gender to be attractive. I've had relationships in the past with both ... (58 words)

My bf is abusive but I love him... what do I do?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and we even live together. He treats me great, takes care of me and tells me everyday that he loves me. Problem is that when he gets upset he calls me names,gets very loud with me and has even hurt me physically even though ... (171 words)

Partner is keeping secret friendship. Am I just paranoid or is he playing me?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 10 years. We have never had any real relationship issues until recently when I discovered he had gone out with a small group and kissed a girl. They exchanged numbers and for 3 weeks where flirting with each other by text. They did not meet up ... (400 words)

How do I remind my ex bf of the good times we had together? Any suggestions for getting him back?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Here's my problem. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up around 5 months ago now after 1 and a half years together, because things were just getting a little out of control - we'd argue over little things and I hate to admit it, but I was getting kind of clingy We've... (251 words)

Cheated now confused... I am sad and lonely... why?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just need some advice I dont know what to do I cheated on my husband because I wasnt getting the affection I needed, but I knew from the begin that the guy I was cheating with was married and it would never be anymore than sex. Now Im just so sad and I dont know why? Is ... (139 words)

What movies are good to go too?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey People!!! this is just a weird question but...i know everyone loves movies and i was just wondering.... do you think movies have been bad lately...(well suckish...you know)and... if you could produce a movie what would it be about??? what would you like to see at ... (68 words)

How do I get her to fall back in love with me?

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22 November 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The woman i grew up with and was to get married to broke up with me years ago. 2 yrs ago we got back in touch and we both admitted we still love each other. But the last 2 yrs all the guys she tried to meet just use her and degrade her. When i asked her to get back together she ... (96 words)

How do inform my friends and family I'm living with a new man?

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 27 yrs old and I ended my 5 yr marriage 8 months ago. My family loved my ex husband and were upset that we're getting a divorce. We have 2 children a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old who live with me but he sees on weekends. We decided to end our marriage mutually, because we ... (396 words)

I want sex from him all the time now.

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22 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and i have sex a lot. Is this a bad thing? I really like it but sometimes i wish i wouldve lost my virginity when i was older. Now i just want to do it, now that im not scared and i know how good it is. I have an amazing boyfriend that i want to be with forever, he s... (100 words)