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writes: How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Thanks,
And dear , yankit !!
What else was the symptom of your friend?
Did he have night erections? Because my husband has, and the doctors checked him out, WELL if you know anything more \I would appreciate it.
Thanks for all the answers. It is so helpful ,every information gives me support.. Thanks.
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reader, yankit  +, writes (18 November 2009):
a very good buddy of mine had this problem. He found out a year or so later that he had prostate cancer. I'd say make him go see a doctor ASAP. Not saying it's the reason but it sounds familiar so Ithought I'd hazard a comment to err on the side of safety. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): i have had this problem with my partner and communicating is essential. i blamed myself, thought i didnt do it for him ect. he would get so stressed and upset that there was no chance of it happening! we went the doctors and it was mostly caused by him using steroids in the past, but also stress and feeling inscure played a big part. talk to your husband and go see somebody or you'll feel down about yourself and drift apart if you dont discuss it. now when it happens i dont get upset anymore as i understand why x
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (17 November 2009):
 You can't really know if it is medical or psychological unless, as the other poster suggested, he go to the Dr. and find out if there is anything physically wrong with him.
If he is willing to go to the Dr. then it might be a good sign that it isn't psychological because he's willing to try to fix it, some kind of desire is still there.
You could, if he won't go to the doctor, suggest some other ways to spice up your sex life a little, see what he thinks. If you try to watch a movie together or try a few new tips and tricks (which you might find googling) you might be able to work at the problem together.
A key here is to never make a big deal out of it or else the problem becomes a bigger one, or not, as the case may be!!
Communication is everything here. Let him know you love him, see if he is willing to work on it with you and see where it leads you.
I wish you all the luck xxxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 November 2009):
He could do with a visit to the doctor, since that's the only real way to find out whether it's a medical condition. Is there a lot going on in his life at the moment? A lot of mid life erectile problems can be attributed to stress.
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (17 November 2009):
You know if it's psychological by eliminating medical causes first. He should go to the doctor really (but I know that it can be impossible to get a man to do that)
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