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writes:I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me.He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always complimenting me, telling me I look good, talking about me to others, he sent a text saying I was his 'dream girl' etc. .but he says we're only friends when I asked him where I stood with him.Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Does he want something to happen? I'm confused and its doing my head in. Just wanna know what it all means.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 This guy is not worth knowing - he is looking for a bit of excitement at work.... and if you decide to sleep with him, I am sure the whole office will be told the gory details of how good/bad you were in the sack!!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 yech, what a slime ball. I would avoid him at all costs, a player who shows scant regard for his girlfriend and is leading you on, at the same time.
Next time he tries the smarmy stuff, just say phht, shrug and walk away. He isnt worth wasting your time or thoughts on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): stay away from him he has a girlfriend!!! he probarbly likes extra attention from you. if he breaks up with her then make a move, but think about his girlfriend and what it would do to her if you did anything. just back away from him, when he txts or emails ignore him he'll only make a fool out of you
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