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writes:what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking up you've found somebody new, it's all going okay nearly been together for 3 months, but you know deep down in the back of your mind you've never been able to get over your ex boyfriend, as he was the first person you'd ever fallen in love with, then he makes it worse by coming back telling you he misses you, he loves you, wants you and would do absolutely anything to turn back the clock?i'd love advice please.. this is really starting to get to me! Reply to this Question
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reader, BlueBag +, writes (18 November 2009):
 Ex partners are exes for a reason. And clearly these were good reasons.
Don't take him back, he had his chance with you and he blew it. You are too young to be going back to a boy who treated you badly. You need to move forward and meet new people and know what it is to be in a real loving relationship.
Cut contact with him. You shouldn't let him mess with your head. You have a new boyfriend now, which you don't seem to have any complaints about so he seems like a good guy. Leave this loser behind and let him play his sick games with someone else.
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reader, baboonj94  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 i have the same problem as u but i am 15 i love my ex 2 death he was my firt on almost everthing he was my first true love he was not a jerk like the rest of the boys... but everytime i try to move on he would somehow get hurt and get mad at me for moving on but today at school he flirted with me knowing i have a boyfriend and said he still loves me and misses me but he broke up with me... girl just put it this way all guys are confuseing but u do what u think is right do what ur heart feels is right who will treat u better and who do U LOVE that is the person u should be with. i hope this helps
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reader, manaja +, writes (18 November 2009):
Dont take him back , its his loss, focus on your new relationship, if he thinks he's made a mistake, then hopefully when he meets someone else , he'l learn from it,he wont make the same mistake again.
My bet is he wants you back because your with someone else, he wants to see if he still has that control over you, dont give him the satisfaction ..Ive been there, taken exs back, then been dumped again, ive also strung a certain woman along for four years, before dumping her for the third and final time, how I regret that one.
Let him hurt and regret, its his problem , not yours.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (18 November 2009):
 I have a friend in a similar situation as you. Im going to give you the same advice i give her. She refuses to listen to me, keeps going back and keeps getting hurt. You have a great guy now, stay with him. You're ex just wants you back so he can have control again. Stay away, and dont get hurt.
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