A
male
age
41-50,
*baker
writes:Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has grown.... but she asked em not to talk too much about our meeting cause she needed to sort out mum so I kindly waited and I was on the phone to her like every day. How are you and I love you and that, the usual stuff talking and giggling and her mum was very rude to her own child, tell youre peedophil to get of the phone dirty man what he want with a 19 year old that lives of her mums money and it nice that she can presume and assume such without even meeting me think me and her mum are gunna be a barrel a laughs in the end but when shes my gf then is went silent on the phone, i felt devastated that her mum had such the nerve to shout abuse at me. Her 19 year old daughter who clearly told her mum its my life.... only to have the threat of getting kicked out, her step dad is actually very very decent the man is a star, like suggested we meet up and go for a meal or something, anyways I am waiting for that to happen.. in the meantime I'im concentrating on my girl, she is the world to me and its hurt me to have her saying sorry to me over and over like it was her fault that her mum was rude, i didnt mind, her mum can voice her opinions its only her expressions of what she fears, I am a nice lad and we had a meeting planned but have cancelled it now, its such a shame but its ok I guess time will heal her mums thoughts, hope when she understands that i might be 30 but im not gunna hurt her precious daughter, i love her with all my heart and its the first time ive been able to smile every single day.I am in her mind and we constanly tell our love to each other we talk daily and msn, and web cam but its just annoying that her mum is being so arrogant and pig headed about it all when there is a age gap between her an the step father, so it leaves me in a confused state cause i dont really know how strong my gf is she has already been made to cry by her mums actions and that the very very last thing i want to hear, i was so upset when she told me she was crying cause i just wished i was there to collect the tears she really loves me and its real and its hard cause we both have to gain her mums trust and prove to her mum we have solid foundations we did not rush into are first meeting and we did not plan to kiss but now that we have we both feel its going to last we are so alike .....it hurts that her mum can be so negative.How can i prevent her mum from harming the person i love so deeply I'd go the depths of the earrh to show this girl my heart and more and no matter how nasty her mum gets all I want is for my girl to know that I love her for her personality and I'd thank her mum for the personality she has gave this girl I adore, its a credit to her mum how her daughter has turned out and I'm so glad. After three weeks we met up behind her mums back because it just cemented how we both feel now... but where do I go from here?
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reader, april1116  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 I mean i gotta say i see where the mom is going with this like why couldn't you find someone your age but at the same time she has to realize that that young women is 19 and legal, ya know so just try to get on the good foot with the moms she may be a tough cookie but as long as you love her daughter genuinely then she shouldn't have a problem accepting you
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