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30-35,
*larax
writes:There is this one guy from my class that stares at me in the hallway for at least three seconds. He also smiled at me a couple times or smiled in my direction.In class he will look at me but look quickly away. He used to stare at me for a minute and hold eye contact, but he just stares at me longer in the hallway now. Oddly enough, the two of us get lessons from the same place (so do many people at my school, it isn't uncommon). I get lessons at a certain time (they hold more than one person at a time) and a couple times I saw the guy from my class, so I thought it was a coincidence. When he passed by my room, he stared at me for about four seconds, before leaving. The next week at the same time and date, I see him come again with this happening two times in a row so far!One of his friends also goes there and the next day glanced at me, when he was talking to someone else. At lunch, his other friends look at me too.The guy from my class also occasionally seems to be everywhere.Why are they staring at me? I'm considered shy and the guy in my class is more outgoing, so why are his closer friends staring at me as well as him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): Because you are pretty ? lol
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 Ah...have a look online and google 'body language', there are quite a few reputable sites dedicated to this. Certain tells (without looking like you're staring at him!) can be discovered.
For example; direct eye contact, means he's interested in what you have to say, scratching his nose/face means he's being dishonest, feet pointed towards you means he's into you! It will help with all sorts of communication, I'm not saying it's a science, but should at least give you some indication!
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reader, xlarax +, writes (19 November 2009):
xlarax is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think your on to something. He brags and shows off a lot, but sometimes he does seem a bit shy. I know he had faced rejection by this one girl he really likes, so he might be terrified to talk to me. If he messes up on one thing he tends to get very frusterated, so I don't think he knows how to approach me. Lol, no I do not have toilet paper stuck to my shoes ever! I guess I will have to talk to him and see how he reacts. Also how can I gauge his interest by talking to him?
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reader, Another_Kapiti +, writes (17 November 2009):
You say this boy is outgoing, but maybe this is just bravado and he's really quite shy too? Staring at you because he's got a thing for you but too scared to actually talk to you! (I used to have guys stare at me back in the day - though usually that was because I had my skirt tucked into my tights!) So, if you've checked your shoes for toilet paper, and found none, I'd say it's because he's crushing on you!
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