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writes:How do i become more interesting? a guy that likes me said im boring. im your typical student i go to school durin the week . then on weekends i hang out with friends and party or whatever comes up... i never liked him rejected him a few times until i started catchin feelings for him this year. how do i get him to stop thinkin im borin? me an him dont even hang out. what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 Is it really that important to you how someone who you don't even like that much, feels about you? How nice of him to say you're boring! Charming really.
If it is important to you, what sorts of things does he do with his time? You could try and join some clubs if you like, but ultimately I'd say if he doesn't like you for who you are now, he's a waste of time! Don't lower yourself, you are worth too much to doubt yourself! Do things for you, not for others.
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reader, FrozenLullaby  +, writes (17 November 2009):
You said he likes you, then again he told you you're boring. When you like someone, you certainly do not think they are boring. You most likely find them interesting. Unless, of course, you're only attracted to their looks and not to their personality and interests.I have only one piece of advice to offer here: If that guy really thinks you are "boring", then there's no reason for you to run after him and try and change yourself so that he'll grow to find you interesting. Each person has different qualities and facts about themselves that makes them interesting, and changing for someone is the worst thing you could do. If he's not going to like you for who you are, then why bother wasting your time on him? Wait for someone who will like you for all that you are, and will find you interesting instead of boring.
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